A woman was left heartbroken after finding a pros and cons list about her completed by her crush.
Woman heartbroken
The unnamed woman took to Reddit to write about her experience after finding the note, which had more negative comments than it did positive, and many readers said she had ''dodged a bullet''.
Some of the insults included making fun of her teeth and voice, and he even called her ''clingy''.
Now the woman is contemplating whether or not to reveal the man's identity.
She wrote: ''I've had a crush on my friend's brother, and everyone was super supportive and encouraging me to go for it.
''Last night, we were all hanging out at my friend's house while his brother was out, and we found a piece of paper lying on the table.
''On it was a pros and cons list...about me.
''The pros list was short - that I'm small and that I'm a 'human female who might actually want to f**k' him (ew).
''The cons list was much longer and hit a bunch of my insecurities. He made fun of my teeth, my voice, called me clingy (I've hung out with the dude ONCE) and girly and annoying, among other things.
''He also wrote that I have 'no plan whatsoever' (I've just escaped from a long abusive relationship and moved back home and am fighting PTSD).
''He also wrote a to-do list, which included 'brainstorm ways to get a girlfriend other than [me]'
''I had no idea he was like this. My feelings for him are obviously gone, but my feelings for myself have taken a huge hit.
''This is an extremely vulnerable time for me already as I've just gotten out of something horrible and am new to the post-college dating scene.
''I just can't believe that anyone would write something so juvenile and cruel. Should I call him out? What do I do now?'' (sic)''