Manners Last For 2007 December 31, 2007

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In the last newsletter of 2007

In todays early headlines Heather Mills says she has to to sell her house to pay off her debts, then announces she is hosting a £30,000 New Years bash, I am a little baffled by what appears to be spending money she doesn’t have.. look out Macca

Nicole Kidman answers the rumours over her supposed pregnancy

Catch up with Angelina’s worries and concerns..

And we must not forget our other serial publicity grabber Britney now blaming herself for her sisters misfortune…

Lets hope the spoilt and pampered celebs make a New Years resolution to get it together in 2008

Anyway Happy New Year to you all
Joclyn

Ms Manners on Sunday December 30, 2007

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In Sundays FemaleFirst

Catch up with the latest on Jordans breast reduction, is Nicole Kidman pregnant, and why Christina Aguilera finds the Osbournes attractive?

Find out who was voted Americas’ most annoying celeb and on the subject of annoying find out who is now attacking Paris Hilton.

Check out our fashion section for what we predict will be hot in 2008

Joclyn

Manners On Saturday December 29, 2007

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In your Saturday FemaleFirst

Hilary Swanks on her nude scenes, Keira Knightley leaves Hollywood for London

Miss France has been allowed to keep her crown following her naughty picture revelations, honestly she was in a bikini, or a wet T-Shirt what re these prudes on..

Plus get the latest on Sean Combs, Jay-Z, Snoop Dogg, and T.I. and Enrique’s loveless sex

Get these and all the latest updated as it happens, plus everything a girl needs to know all on your favorite website FemaleFirst

Joclyn

Manner Friday Mention December 28, 2007

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In your Friday FemaleFirst

Amy Winehouse is in more trouble, as she is ordered back to court, while Courtney Love suffers a $100k lose

Angelina Jolie loves her sex scenes…dirty lady I wonder if Brad gets jealous?

The father of Jamie-Lynn Spears’ baby is not Casey Aldridge, but an older man who could face rape charges over the conception, according to new U.S.reports.. it just gets worse what a disfunctional family they are

For the full outcome on these and the rest of the news as it happens FemaleFirst is the place to go after all 45 million people can’t all be wrong

Joclyn

Manners Moments December 27, 2007

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We now have a break in the celebrations and time to recover from the partying in readiness for the big New Year bash

The FemaleFirst Five AM Girls were all out at a fancy dress Boxing day party last night, we were the Moulin Rouge dancers

Anyway in todays early headlines, discover why Renee Zellwegger won’t be making New Years resolutions, Kylie Minogue’s fears she will never have kids.

Find out about James Blunt’s attempts to save the environment, and Sean Connery’s ‘quit’ row.

All these and updates throughout the day and night of all the news as its happening 24 – 7 all on your favorite online mag FemaleFirst

Joclyn Manners and the 5am team

Joclyn’s Boxing Day Punch December 26, 2007

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Hi everyone I hope you all had a brilliant holiday celebration and are feeling full of good spirit

In your boxing day issue of FemaleFirst we have the years celebrity losers, those who have mad complete and utter prats of themselves in the public eye.

Then there is our take on the music scene and the effects of downloads on the industry as a whole.

Plus you can check out what your favorite celebs have been up to during there festivities.

Check it all out as we reveal all..

Joclyn

Monday Morning Moments December 24, 2007

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Hugh Hefner’s girlfriend Kendra Wilkinson says the Playboy founder can no longer satisfy her sexually, well he’s no young stud is he

Kim Kardashian used to pray her breasts would stop growing.. I would bet she ’s glad that wish didn’t come true

A former boyfriend of Lindsay Lohan claims she was cured from drug addiction after swapping narcotics for passionate sex… us 5 am Girls are all for that more sex less drugs…

Get these and all the breaking news from FemaleFirst, we are working over the Holiday break and will bring you all the latest news through out.

Jocyln’s Sunday Take December 23, 2007

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In Sunday’s early headlines from FemaleFirst Christina Aguilera turns into an onstage sobbing mess, thats what baby talk does for youRemy Ma denies being a lesbian.. time will tell on that story!

Keira Knightley on luck and her acting career, on the same subject Lindsay Lohan is moving in with the perfect new best friend – Yahoo! Chairman Terry Semel’s sober daughter Courtenay.

Playboy mag want Jennifer Love Hewitt to bare all..

Jamie Pressly is voted sexiest mum, while Katherine Heighl want to be ‘knocked up’ a.s.a.p.

Get these and all the news from the wierd and wonderful world of celebrity, all the best fashion news, trends and styles.motoring reviews horoscopes and much much more…

Have a good Sunday Joclyn Manners 5am Girl

FemaleFirst On Saturday December 22, 2007

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FemaleFirst the early headlines..

Jamie-Lynn Spears’ aunt has suggested the TV star became pregnant on purpose in a big to steal some of big sister Britney’s limelight.. now thats a serious attention seeking gesture!

Joss Stone’s failure to find a new boyfriend is eased because she has her dogs for company, I can’t see the connection myself – let me think boyfriend or dog? its a no contest…

Fergie looks set for plastic surgey, Tara Reid clears up her recent collapse, while Alli Simms is set to launch her pop career, Alli who you ask – she’s another Spears, here we go again oh no I hear you scream

Pammy’s marriage woes brought about by her flirting with Criss Angels, meanwhile there is still no news from the Aguilera camp maybe she is waiting for Christmas day,

For these and all the latest and up to the minute news from Hollywood and beyond visit FemaleFirst

Joclyn Manners & The 5am Team

Dedicated to partying like no others

Threesomes: When Is The Right Time For Three In A Bed? December 21, 2007

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My friend Michelle is very much the quiet one of the bunch. She dresses like a 25 year old school girl- you know wooly jumpers with cute dogs on and pleated skirts with thick tights- to be honest we’re sometimes ashamed to be seen with her. Anyway she pretty much has the same outlook on sex as a school girl too. She’s always up for a quick snog behind the bike sheds but as soon as a man so much as tries to cop a feel of her breasts on a first date she’s likely to run home and cry to her ever-growing family of cats. So can you imagine the drama when after just one month the latest ‘love of her life’ suggests they try a threesome.

Michelle looked like she was about to burst into tears as she explained to me how Joe had brought up the matter during a less than steamy session of dirty talking.

“It all started during Eastenders,” she explained, “We were getting down to a bit of a session on his sofa and as he was kissing my neck and gearing up to have a play with my nipples I thought I’d try a bit of naughty talk because I know he loves it.”

“I told him I wanted us to do it in the shower and he came back with ‘I wanna watch you do another woman’,” cried Michelle. “I’ve always quite fancied the idea of a threesome but it’s only been a month for christ’s sake!”

But is a month long enough? Who’s to say when is the right time to start experimenting in the bedroom? Surely it’s better to keep things spicy from the start than have to step it up when things start falling apart 2 years down the line. But threesomes bring up a whole load of trust issues and can be the death of some couples. Is it worth the risk? Is there ever a right time to bring an extra person into your sex life?

I have personally encountered both sides of this debate- be it a few years ago now. Anyway back when I was a trainee journalist i.e coffee maker -living in a bedsit above a bar in Manchester’s student district I got quite friendly with the couple who ran the business downstairs. I used to spend a lot of time down there knocking back vodka and diet cokes to forget the awful day I’d had so I got to know them fairly well. Tom and Mandy they were called. They seemed like the perfect couple- always calling eachother ‘hunny’ and ‘darling’ and throwing lovey dovey eyes across the bar- quite sickening for a lonely single girl. Anyway-cut to the chase- after two months and a few too many vodkas after closing we were having a rather open conversation about sex which some how resulted in Mandy revealing her ultimate fantasy was a threesome. “I’d love to try it. I think it would be well hot,” she said, “I’ve just never really had the option before.”

Tom looked a little shocked but at the same time his cheeky grin said he was just as keen. Half joking and half drunk out of my mind I laughed “I’d shag you anyday Mand. You’re hot!” At first they both laughed too but then a few seconds later the laughter died down and I knew they were seriously thinking about it. “I’m game if you are?” said Mandy. At first I was a little shocked then I thought ‘what the hell?’ Here I am, 22, living in a grotty student bedsit on my own- it’s about time I had some excitement. Plus not having had sex for a good 2 weeks I was damn horny too and the vodka wasn’t helping to quench my need for some good sex. Mandy obviously sensed this and the next thing I knew her tongue was in my mouth. We kissed as Tom watched-clearly getting off on the whole ordeal. She even nervously put her hand under my tshirt and stroked my breasts- things were going full steam ahead. Then Tom decided he’d had enough of watching and wanted some action.

“My turn,” he declared. So Mandy stood aside. Tom came towards me with a determined look in his eye. He kissed me hard before picking me up with his tanned muscly arms and sitting me on the bar. Soon his hands were pulling my tshirt off and grabbing for my breasts. I was actually getting to this as I threw my head back and let him take my nipples in his mouth- the next thing I knew a glass went flying past my head and smashed on the wall behind me. ‘What the fuck!!’ i thought as another glass narrowly missed my face.

“Get your hands off her now!” screeched Mandy. “Get out of my pub you fucking whore!” she screamed as she launched across the room in my direction. Needless to say I did exactly as she said- the woman was 6ft tall and had a glass in her hand! I ran up to my flat in shock and still wearing just my bra. That was the end of my threesome experience. Mandy did apologise the next day but things were never the same between us again and the gooey looks the couple gave eachother didn’t return for at least a month.

The simple fact is threesomes cause jealously and some people are too concentrated on how hot it would be for them to watch their partner get off while they screw someone else but they forget that they then have to stand by and watch as their lover gets pleasured by another person.

This isn’t the case for everyone though. Some people love a bit of partner-swapping action. Take my old boss, Ellen. She and her husband Ken were very happily married, lived in a gorgeous big house in Alderley Edge and had been swinging for years. It wasn’t the old fashioned keys in a fruit bowl swinging either. They went to exclusive clubs where they met with other intelligent sophisticated couples and professional career-driven single people all with the same thing in mind- to enjoy sex! “It’s great,” Ellen often confessed proudly at work parties, on fag breaks or any other chance she got to talk about it, “We get to experience sexual freedom and enjoy being with other sexually free people but safe in the knowledge that we both love each other and will go home together at the end of the night.”

There was definitely no jealously between Ellen and Ken:: “It makes me want him more,” said Ellen, “I watch him getting all turned on and I just can’t wait to get him home and have him all to myself. I see other women enjoying him and it makes me proud to say he’s my husband.” Ok so Ellen may be more liberal and open-minded than the majority of us but she does have a point. If you trust someone enough to consider a threesome then you should trust that they with you at the end of the day so you can both enjoy the experience for what it is without thinking too much into it. It’s just all about pure pleasure- or at least it should be.

So what was my advice for Michelle? It’s all about talking. She needs to be open about her feelings and talk to Joe. If they truly love each other and want things to last forever then they should perhaps wait a little longer until they are both 100% sure. There’s no harm in talking about it though. Exploring each other’s sexual fantasies makes for great sex- even if it is all make believe. However it’s important to know where the line is between talk and action. Telling him you want him to get himself off while you get down and dirty with another woman can certainly get things going during foreplay but it won’t be half as much fun when he surprises you by bringing home a willing girl from the pub.