That gut wrenching feeling: Your heart momentarily stops, pounds uncontrollably and then… the feeling of ultimate sickness. The feeling you get when you know your fella is playing away. We’ve nearly all felt it ladies, and for those of you lucky enough not to have experienced how this feels, I hope you never have to!
Most can never fully get over something as devastating as this. Take Jennifer Aniston for example, she still wonders if she good enough for anyone, all of her current relationships seem to be suffering and she even admits to having very low self esteem after her ex-hubby Brad Pitt strayed with his Mrs & Mrs Smith co star Angelina Jolie.
Mr Pitt is not the only unfaithful guy to date, in fact, the number of high profile males cheating nowadays is at an all time high – Ashley Cole, Tiger Woods & Ronan Keating just to name a few! So what is it with men being unfaithful? In my experience they often risk a perfectly good relationship on a one night stand with women your cat wouldn’t even want to drag in! The conclusion is, That the men themselves are so insecure about dating the beautiful women they have, they find security in another. An ego boost if you like.
The question we really need to ask ourselves is, do two wrongs make a right? A group of women have now come up with a concept of a dating site which aids to help women who have been cheated on to cheat back! The creators of gleedem believe that the key to happiness for victims of adultery is adultery itself and as a result, the site is now being touted as ‘women’s answer to matrimonial bliss’.
Regardless of what happens in a relationship, it’s always vital to remember what brought you both together in the first place rather than putting emphasis on what is tearing you apart. Relationships aren’t easy, they are made to be worked on. As soon as you loose respect for your partner, the relationship is lost.
I think it’s important to keep the spark alive whoever you are… okay, so movie stars, football players and other people in the public eye may be subject to more temptation than most, but only if they are actively looking for it in the first place! We are all exposed to temptation, its everywhere, but its YOUR choice whether to act upon it or not.
Since when did dating become rocket science? I don’t understand unfaithful people, either stay in a relationship or play the field! Make a decision.
Until next time, Keep it in your pants!
Karly x
Yeah. I see guys walk into nightclubs with classy women, the next thing, you see that same guy flirting with a piece of trash with the reputation of a hooker. He was flirting with the woman he walked in with, earlier. It^s a joke these days.
a relationship is built on the foundation of trust/loyalty and respect….if those 3 principles are not strictly adhered too then it all comes falling down like a house of cards,
modern day western society seems to encourage a lack of morals,what kind of example are celebs promoting to young people when they are consistantly in the media for a variety of indescretions
what is the world coming too
one love-one life-v2dheart 4 life!