I donâ€™t think Iâ€™m alone in thinking that I just want a guy around to tell me how beautiful I am and show a genuine interest in what I have to say. Y’know, someone who likes my stories and seems fascinated by the fact Iâ€™ve cut out carbs because cankles donâ€™t work for me.
Normally, when we discuss our day-to-day ponderings with someone of the opposite sex, they may nod, and smile in agreement, but we all know that in their head theyâ€™re thinking; “If I kiss her sheâ€™ll finish blabbering and then we can just get down to it.”
This is why I think the chase, or being pursued, is way more rewarding than cooking steak and chips for the third time in a week because your fella â€˜doesnâ€™t like anything elseâ€™, and foot rubs..? Unless Iâ€™m receiving them, I donâ€™t wanna know.
My decision to be single has led me to be pickier than I have been in the past when it comes to finding a man. The PERFECT way to do this is by joining a dating site. Itâ€™s fantastic. Admittedly, at first I was a complete sceptic. I figured that a dating site would be of absolutely no use to me. I was wrong.
I joined Zoosk.com a week ago and I donâ€™t think Iâ€™ve ever felt better about myself. Firstly, I liked the fact I had access to a literal database of hot totty. When youâ€™re in a club the guys can see you looking at themâ€¦ but they canâ€™t online. So we have the perk of their egoâ€™s being pushed to one side.
My second thumbs up comes from the fact that all you have to do is upload one picture and write a tiny bit of blurb about yourself and you get FLOODS of eligible bachelors mailing you telling you exactly what you want to hearâ€¦ â€˜Girl, youâ€™re beautiful.â€™ â€˜Gorgeousâ€™. â€˜Letâ€™s meet up sometime?â€™
Of course, Iâ€™ve decided not to mail any of them back just yet. This way I can pick and choose from a list of men who already fancy meâ€¦ minimal work on my part.
I never thought Iâ€™d find myself feeling sexy in sweat pants and a hoody (a hoody with a soup stain on it), but I actually do; and thereâ€™s no pressure. Sure, these guys probably do want to sleep with youâ€¦ but you hold all the cards. Itâ€™s way easier to be in control when theyâ€™re the ones chasing after you, in fact, itâ€™s completely liberating and empowering.
Seriously ladies, I highly recommend you get involved. Iâ€™m going to be trying out a few more sites in the coming weeks so watch this space for a delightful review of which ones are worth your time, which ones have the sexiest fellas, and which ones have the most to offer a busy single woman.
Good luck in love ladies. Happy flirting.