I don’t think I’m alone in thinking that I just want a guy around to tell me how beautiful I am and show a genuine interest in what I have to say. Y’know, someone who likes my stories and seems fascinated by the fact I’ve cut out carbs because cankles don’t work for me.
Normally, when we discuss our day-to-day ponderings with someone of the opposite sex, they may nod, and smile in agreement, but we all know that in their head they’re thinking; “If I kiss her she’ll finish blabbering and then we can just get down to it.”
This is why I think the chase, or being pursued, is way more rewarding than cooking steak and chips for the third time in a week because your fella ‘doesn’t like anything else’, and foot rubs..? Unless I’m receiving them, I don’t wanna know.
My decision to be single has led me to be pickier than I have been in the past when it comes to finding a man. The PERFECT way to do this is by joining a dating site. It’s fantastic. Admittedly, at first I was a complete sceptic. I figured that a dating site would be of absolutely no use to me. I was wrong.
I joined Zoosk.com a week ago and I don’t think I’ve ever felt better about myself. Firstly, I liked the fact I had access to a literal database of hot totty. When you’re in a club the guys can see you looking at them… but they can’t online. So we have the perk of their ego’s being pushed to one side.
My second thumbs up comes from the fact that all you have to do is upload one picture and write a tiny bit of blurb about yourself and you get FLOODS of eligible bachelors mailing you telling you exactly what you want to hear… ‘Girl, you’re beautiful.’ ‘Gorgeous’. ‘Let’s meet up sometime?’
Of course, I’ve decided not to mail any of them back just yet. This way I can pick and choose from a list of men who already fancy me… minimal work on my part.
I never thought I’d find myself feeling sexy in sweat pants and a hoody (a hoody with a soup stain on it), but I actually do; and there’s no pressure. Sure, these guys probably do want to sleep with you… but you hold all the cards. It’s way easier to be in control when they’re the ones chasing after you, in fact, it’s completely liberating and empowering.
Seriously ladies, I highly recommend you get involved. I’m going to be trying out a few more sites in the coming weeks so watch this space for a delightful review of which ones are worth your time, which ones have the sexiest fellas, and which ones have the most to offer a busy single woman.
Good luck in love ladies. Happy flirting.
Dahlia xXx
