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Would You Give Up Your Career for Married Bliss?

It’s a big question for many women, do you continue building your career or do you choose to settle down and have kids?

Samantha Brick told the Daily Mail of how she had to transform into a French Housewife after her career went bust, but could you do the same?

Relationships are all about sacrifice, but is it really possible to leave behind a career to become and mother and full time housewife?

It’s something I couldn’t do. I think there are generally two types of women, the ones who are desperate for the family orientated, housewife role and the ones who want a career.

If you’re more inclined to have a career then you’re less likely to be able to move from that to the role of housewife.

It’s a completely different environment and something that just wouldn’t suit most career driven women – they crave a work environment.

For a housewife, it can be hard to adjust to a work place, with them feeling much more comfortable at home where they are fully in control.

I’m not saying you can’t have them both, of course there are women who seem to find a perfect balance but if you’ve gone from high flying business woman to housewife and family woman, it has to leave a hole.

Let us know what you think by commenting below or tweeting us @FemaleFirst_UK

It’s finally been found that women do actually love to clean

It’s long been left to the women to do because it was thought that they actually like to do it, the cleaning we’re talking about, but apart from a likeness, in my opinion it’s because the men just aren’t as good.

Researchers found many women find giving the house a once over a ‘relaxing’, ‘satisfying’ or ‘therapeutic’ experience. Others said they felt a sense of ‘pleasure’ and ‘achievement’, mainly because they were safe in the knowledge surprise visitors wouldn’t see the house in a mess.

But ironically, almost four out of ten of those who love cleaning admitted they would never tell their other half they enjoyed getting to grips with the housework.

The admissions emerged in a report carried out among 2,000 women by Zoflora, the UK’s No 1 disinfectant.

Dr Jane McCartney, a chartered psychologist and consultant to Zoflora, said: “There are a growing number of common misconceptions about cleaning, however women can and do get a great deal of satisfaction from cleaning.

“The sense of achievement is an important factor in a person’s well-being and cleaning is an area where this achievement can live beyond the actual task itself.

“There is the therapeutic routine or sense of control in creating a home environment but also, perhaps, that homes also make a personal statement – cleanliness and choice of fragrance adding to their overall sense of personal pride satisfaction.

“Taking on tasks that you have a realistic chance of completing can provide immediate positive feedback; the undertaking and completion of the task will allow you to have a sense of control.

“The sense of achievement is an important factor in a person’s well-being and cleaning is an area where this achievement can live beyond the actual task itself.”

The study found vacuuming, tidying up and wiping surfaces clean are three household chores women enjoy. Cleaning the oven, the toilet and doing the ironing were the ones they were most likely to hate. Household tasks which required too much time, too much effort or were labelled ‘disgusting’ were most likely to be left to their other half.

But chores that left their house looking noticeably clean were the ones women preferred and enjoyed, like dusting and washing up. Making sure their house smelt clean and fresh was also a priority for women, with more than three quarters admitting they would judge someone with a bad smell in their home, or look at them in a negative light.

Dr. McCartney added: ”Not only is it just unpleasant to be near a bad smell, this also stems from our basic evolutionary development too.

”In the past unpleasant smells would signify a danger to survival, in as much as they indicate contamination, illness or even death.”

The study also found the average woman spends just over four hours a week cleaning, with the majority of women cleaning soon after they made a mess, rather than leaving everything until later.

Forty per cent said they did all the cleaning themselves – but most said their partner was equally responsible for the chores.

Incredibly, one in ten of the women love cleaning so much they go as far as to clean other people’s homes because it makes them feel good.

TOP TEN FAVOURITE CHORES:

Vacuuming

Tidying

Wiping surfaces clean

Putting the washing on

Hanging things on the line

Changing the sheets

Dusting

Washing up

Ironing

Mopping the floors

 

TOP TEN LEAST FAVOURITE CHORES:

Cleaning the oven

Cleaning the toilet

Cleaning the shower

Cleaning the bath

Defrosting the freezer

Cleaning the fridge

Sweeping the floors

Washing up

Taking the rubbish out

Vacuuming the stairs

Women are the stronger sex

 

It seems to have proven what we’ve always knew ladies… women are the stronger sex.

Science has finally put the facts straight and confirmed that we’re better at fighting off illnesses.

Last week, researchers suggested that women are genetically programmed to be more resistant to infections and even diseases such as cancer. 

Writing in the journal Bio Essays, they said the secret is a woman’s extra copy of the female X chromosome.

In one study, scientists from Queen Mary, University of London, found that a woman’s immune system can beat a range of infections quicker and more effectively than a man’s.

So when they’re lying in bed and complaining about the Man-flu don’t worry ladies, chances are you’ve already had it and fought it off.


Tenth of women would smash up partners car for cheating

It seems that there are a lot of angry women out there, as it’s been revealed that one in ten would gladly smash up their partners car if they found out they had been cheating on them.

It seems only fair doesn’t it? They break your heart, you break their car. Would you go that far?

The new survey revealed that more than a quarter would consider damaging the paintwork if the car was his prized possession and 13 per cent would vow to slash the tyres.

It seems the most angry are those aged between 22-25. Women aged between 31-35 are more likely to just sell the car. It doesn’t seem to warrant enough justice in my opinion – but maybe that’s just because of my age.

The survey conducted by Autoglass also found that a quarter would happily attack the lovecheat himself, seems reasonable.

The vengeful chart is as follows, indicating the ranking order of areas in the UK which are more likely to carry out revenge attacks.

1. Wales

2. West Midlands

3. East Midlands

4. Yorkshire

5. Scotland

6. N Ireland

7. London

8. North West

9. North East

10. South West

Matthew Mycock, managing director of Autoglass says: “Clearly, many Britons are prepared to take revenge if their other half is unfaithful – and cars are one of the things which are likely to bear the brunt of their anger.

“Vehicle Vengeance is a very real threat with women saying they are determined to target what is most precious to their partner to get their own back if he cheats. Men who are tempted to stray should think twice – especially if they love their cars.”

Tell us what your plan of action would be if you found out the other half had a wandering eye.

 

Passing Of The Torch From Memphis to Dahlia….

As all female kind is well aware, finding Mr Right is a lot more difficult than we’d have hoped. Any of you who have been following the dating trials and tribulations of Memphis will be fully aware you’re not alone on the unsuccessful quest for a man that is perfect for you.

However, it IS possible! Memphis herself is testament to that. Your friend and mine is probably cuddled up with her delightful boyfriend right now, blissfully discussing her day and receiving a foot rub. Maybe.

Unfortunately, my evenings are still filled with styling my hair to look like Lady Gaga’s and singing Chaka Khan’s ‘I’m Every Woman’ into a hairbrush… Slightly different to my romanticised prediction of my life at 23.

As Memphis is now madly in love, I shall be taking over her blog – and probably humiliating myself in the dating world in the process – so that all you ladies have someone’s mistakes to learn from. Let’s face it… there’ll be many.