GQ,
Hawaii
Just read your post and hang in there man. Like I said, the best thing I did was not to hope and keep myself busy. That is the HARDEST thing to do because I know your break is fresh. You are probably going to feel like s@$t for a couple of weeks. At this point, you are probably at the lowest you will feel. All there is to go from there is UP! I read your posts and it seems you guys always "break up to make up". I don't know how serious yall are but it depends on that circumstance on how you should handle the situation. I don't know the circumstance but as for me, I always like to be in the "drivers seat". This means that I always want to be the strong one and keep my pride. This may be different for many individuals and alot of times, pride needs to be put aside. But in my situation though, I needed to be the stronger one. This meant as much as I wanted to call her, or go sit in my car outside her house or call her friends to see where she was, I DIDN'T! As hard as it is, you need to do that if you know its over and want to move on faster. Let her call you or want you back. When she notices that she doesn't have your attention anymore, either one of two things should happen. One, she will not call you at all and move on with her life. This will be hard but at least you don't have contact with her and know shes sleeping with someone else, or staying at his house or riding in his car. You won't know this because your not calling her or her friends right! Two, she will realize that she really wants you and she will pursue YOU! That is probably the best option because you have an option. You are in the drivers seat at this point because you can either stay single (and continue to not talk to her and move on) or try again with her. I think that is the best way to handle the situation. You can use this advise if you want but hope it helps. Again, hang in there man!
