I want other men to screw my wife...how common is this?

optiman · Guest

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.

Guest · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 3:39 am Post subject:

You like to see your wife, hot, horny, and passionate, right? Well, why does it have to involve other men? Why not just you? I've never been able to understand this.

optiman · Guest

And I don't understand it myself....it's just the way things are. It's not only the actual screwing that I like....it's the anticipation beforehand, then the erotic analysis afterwards.
Like I said, I don't understand it, but couldn't give it up even if I wanted too.

Guest · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 3:54 am Post subject:

it is not uncommon

Guest · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:03 am Post subject:

Thats what I think too.

Guest · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 8:49 am Post subject:

Men

If they got their way, they would look at the their wife in a new way, calling her a slut etc. The times I have heard of this and then the couple splitting up. Be grateful for what you have and stick to your fantasy!

lolly1982 · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 1:18 pm Post subject:

you can always get a lifesize doll she can ride for you lol

noodles · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 1:39 pm Post subject:

even enjoyed it despite nerves.

it became a fixation,

My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks )

but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men.

I dont care whether you were after moral judgements - i think you're an arsehole!!!!

lolly1982 · Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 1:44 pm Post subject:

its not your body you are giving you dont own her you freak!

naughty nikki 18 · Guest

I spoke to a guy _ who told me he liked watching his girlfriend at the time having sex with other men so i dont think its uncommon but there not togither anymore i wonder why ...

Guest · Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 9:15 am Post subject:

Guest · Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 12:50 pm Post subject:

Interesting. I too have this continuing fantasy/wish of my wife going with other men for sex. It turns me on like nothing else and I would love for it to happen, but every time I mention it to her (many times) she goes cold on it so I stop, but I don't stop having the fantasy. Go for it and enjoy!

happytimeis69 · Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 4:58 pm Post subject:

Lolly lolly had a brolly, Put it on the grass, Sat down beside it, It stuck stright up her NOSE? (rhymes with glass). If you aint tried it, Dont knock it). Think the brolly is still there? Answers to: www.Daytime T.V. com.bollocks

Guest · Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 5:19 pm Post subject:

noodles · Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 5:25 pm Post subject:

dont have a problem with anything in principal, just parts of his post i found dodgy (as stated above).