Good/bad Head

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Good/bad Head

Postby Franc on Mon Mar 22, 2004 2:00 pm

I'm now trying to figure out from reading posts, what exactly makes head good? What is a good blow job? I'm 22 and my man is 24, generally i just give him head and now from reading various posts, im wondering, is it good enough?

gimme some opinions

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Postby angela on Mon Mar 22, 2004 4:41 pm

Does he climax during head?

Sal
 

Postby Sal on Mon Mar 22, 2004 4:52 pm

Hi Franc

Can you explain your technique? It's hard to say if you're doing it right or wrong when we don't know what you're doing.

Any guys out there feel like describing how they like a girl to give head? Now would be a great time to give us all some hints.

thanks!

Jester
 

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Postby Jester on Tue May 04, 2004 7:57 am

i am a guy who likes it when u just slide up and down, also just use ur tongue and like all over down there. and what ever u do don't stop. we need constant attention otherwise it can take a while. a good hint to know that u r doing well is that we will mutter incoherient things alot. that is a sign that we r enjoying it.

good luck.

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Postby Melvin on Tue May 04, 2004 8:13 am

Good head as suggested by jester.

Bad head, lots of teeth on shaft, ouch! and not allowing climax in the mouth

maddy
 

Postby maddy on Thu Jun 10, 2004 10:21 am

my boyfriend loves me giving him head-as we both feel that oral sex is as (if not more) intimate than sex itself. if u start at the base of the shaft and run ur tongue to the very tip, then gently suck the head and flick ur tongue back and forth over it. then slide up and down starting off slowly then, as well as increasing speed also suck a bit to create a vacuum. this makes it feel likes he's sliding into a well lubed vagina!! it shudnt take long for him to come...but if u want him to hold out, just stop. but maintain a hand at the base of his shaft and very gently caress his balls to keep a little sensitivity, then continue as before. if u dont mind him coming in your mouth, it is the best thing to do-as its so personal and intimate. positioning wise, if he lies on his back and ur between his legs u can look at him and eye contact for just a few seconds wil make him reel. guys LOVE watching themselves being touched or stimulated-why do you think 'doggy style' is their preference? well, good luck!

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Postby Guest on Thu Jun 10, 2004 1:43 pm

maddy wrote:my boyfriend loves me giving him head-as we both feel that oral sex is as (if not more) intimate than sex itself. if u start at the base of the shaft and run ur tongue to the very tip, then gently suck the head and flick ur tongue back and forth over it. then slide up and down starting off slowly then, as well as increasing speed also suck a bit to create a vacuum. this makes it feel likes he's sliding into a well lubed vagina!! it shudnt take long for him to come...but if u want him to hold out, just stop. but maintain a hand at the base of his shaft and very gently caress his balls to keep a little sensitivity, then continue as before. if u dont mind him coming in your mouth, it is the best thing to do-as its so personal and intimate. positioning wise, if he lies on his back and ur between his legs u can look at him and eye contact for just a few seconds wil make him reel. guys LOVE watching themselves being touched or stimulated-why do you think 'doggy style' is their preference? well, good luck!





Maddy,

Well written, just the thought is making me horny and wanna cum.. :oops:

X X X

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Postby *babe* on Thu Jun 10, 2004 2:35 pm

wot do u do afta uve swallowed thou? afta i sucked my ex and hed cummed in a tissue he wanted a snog but he was disgusted and sed that he could taste his dick, i doubt it was true but do you use chewing gum straight after swallowing 2 get rid of the taste or shud he just accept it?

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Postby chocolate chip on Thu Jun 10, 2004 11:43 pm

Maddy gave some very good - and by God, very detailed - advice. I tend to find that my boyfriend likes it when it stop a few times just before he feels he's ready to climax. He likes to prolong the experience. We once did this about six times and once the act was all over and we checked the time, we realised that I had been giving him head for about an hour and forty minutes. It was one of the best times ever :D :twisted:

*Babe* - some men are turned on by kissing a woman straight after she has given him head, either because it feels dirty or because it feels intimate. If your boyfriend has expressed a disliking of it, then I'd suggest you have a drink on standby for after the deed. Then the kissing might be a fresher, more enjoyable experience and you won't have to worry about the awkwardness of trying to remove gum before you can kiss.
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Postby Guest on Fri Jun 11, 2004 4:00 am

Babe: I think he should just accept it. What, he expects you to suck his dick, but can't stand it when he has to taste some of it too. That's life, he needs to get over it. I've never had a guy say a word to me about it whether or not they liked it or not. They were just happy to be getting oral sex at all. A smart guy knows not to turn his nose up at something he expects his partner to deal with.

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how long?

Postby guest on Thu Aug 05, 2004 6:40 am

When giving head my eyes water and my nose runs from deep throating. Can I still make it good without deep throating? I also feel like it takes 4ever 4 him 2 cum... how long on average should it take?

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Postby Guesticles on Thu Aug 05, 2004 3:03 pm

. wrote:Babe: I think he should just accept it. What, he expects you to suck his dick, but can't stand it when he has to taste some of it too. That's life, he needs to get over it. I've never had a guy say a word to me about it whether or not they liked it or not. They were just happy to be getting oral sex at all. A smart guy knows not to turn his nose up at something he expects his partner to deal with.


I, for one, get really turned on if I can taste my c*ck on a woman's lips - Either pair too ;)

Although I'm not that keen on having my cum back, but the trace taste of c*ck around her mouth or p*ssy really does it for me every time.

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Postby lothario on Thu Aug 05, 2004 3:29 pm

I tell you a girl who does not pull away during climax is gold. There is nothing like the feeling of a groin shattering orgasm coming on and a girl who just keeps on going while the wonderful pulse of orgasm happens and she lets you pump a big thick load down the back of her throat. That is a huge turn on. Or a girl who lets you unload on her face. My GF has done both

ME! :P
 

Postby ME! :P on Thu Aug 12, 2004 12:26 am

when my girlfriend gives me head she'll go down and lick from the base of my penis to the tip of it then take it all into her mouth and suck on it for a bit, then when im getting near ready to cum she'll take it out and flick her tongue on it a little and lick all over it and nibble on it a little then start sucking it again then take it out and give me a handjob for a little and lick it some more then finish me off. Its feels SO good for me, cuz she kinda teases me when im ready to cum an it makes it SO much better :oops: and i always kiss her afterwards cuz i could care less what her mouth tastes like, cuz i know what she just did for me :D

an theres nothing i love more then eating her pussy :oops:

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getting head problems

Postby djcrisco on Thu Oct 21, 2004 3:02 pm

me and my g/f are very intimate. we haven't had sex but we fool around a lot and have done oral. when she gives me head its like hard for me to cum. i haven't yet and she's been doing it for about 3 or 4 months. its not like we do it everyday but everytime she tries she cannot get me to do it. i thot it could be maybe because maybe my dick isn't used to it but other than that i don't really know. it feels phenominal tho! write me back at djcrisco@gmail.com if i do not see the posts up here

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