THREESOMES

[cheekychick]

Hi guys, I need some advice. I've been wanting to experiment with threesomes (either way) for ages. My boyfriend and I have discussed and fantasised about this for too long now so I would love to suprise him. Question is, how do I find a willing female to join us for some fun??? I've chatted with other girlies before but non seem to share the same fantasies as me!!!! Any suggestions?! Thanks

[cheekychick]

Oh, and I forgot to ask if any one can pass on any tips or advice? Thanks

[cheekychick]

Is there anyone who has had a threesome and can share an experience??? Lots of my friends keep telling me that its not a good idea? Surely someone has had a positive experience? Cheers

[Guest]

definitely depends on the nature of your relationship with your bf.

If it's secure then fine (has been for me with gf). If there's jealousy before then it might get worse afterwards. Generally it can be very exciting whichever way MFM FMF you go.

As for where to find there are plenty of contact places on the internet, but go for larger relaiable...(adultfriendfinder?). I'm on aol and that has bi chat rooms that have been good. Just check them out properly first.

hope this helps.

D

[Guest]

definitely depends on the nature of your relationship with your bf.

If it's secure then fine (has been for me with gf). If there's jealousy before then it might get worse afterwards. Generally it can be very exciting whichever way MFM FMF you go.

Hey thanks! Very secure, no jealousy so far. I'm sure my boyfriend would love (understatement) to see me with another woman, but is it strange to say I will be more turned on by seeing him with another woman. He is an expert in his field!!!! It would be great to see him give a woman the same pleasure he gives me....... Am I weird?!

[cheekychick]

Would be better if I learned to log in...... Sorry the last message was from me 'cheekychick'! I'm grateful for your response!

Has anyone experienced double penetration vaginally???

[jetset_willy]

Has anyone experienced double penetration vaginally???

Only in the movies...

[Deej]

Nothing wied at all CC...in fact that's probably a very good sign of a healthy relationship. Any luck tracking anyone down so far? When I have a quiet moment I'll get down to typing out my experience.

Jetset - fortuately experiencing it not quite the same as watching it! Would be damn good pron if it was.

also I should learn to "log in" - advice above was from me.

Deej

[cheekychick]

Well I'd give anything a go, but looks a little akward to me! Have tried boyfriend and a flexible friend..... unfortunately the friend was of the battery variety!!! Did the trick for me, just curious to know how the real thing would feel. Will just keep watching those movies then!

As for the female threesome, I'm still looking! Not an easy subject to chat about amogst friends who aren't so open minded. Look forward to hearing about your experience

Cheeky

[Avocat]

Finding a woman for FFM is a challenge. Most swingers travel as couples. Many women who want to experiment with bisexuality are more comfortable in a MMFF situation. They need to reassert their hetersexuality in the context of a MF relationship, not just being shared with a new man.

Research, in the seventies, proved that many women enjoy being with a woman "now and then" but do not want to feel or be perceived as if they are gay. I laugh at the notion that if a woman is with another woman, she is "gay." Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, many women who adore men like the softness and feel of a woman now and then. Those types of women, however, want immediate reassurance from their man that they are heterosexual and connected to them.

The long and short of it are the best FF experiences are within an MMFF scenario.

[Guest]

sounds like me and my hubby, we have the same fantasy and I cant stop thinking about him pleasuring another woman, I thought I was wierd too, but I guess there are others with same fantasy. I wondered too how to find willing person to fulfill it. We often talk about meeting some hot girl at a bar or club and she goes with us to a hotel room with a jacuzzi. Wonder if it will happen, exciting thought though!

[Guest]

My gf is hetero-flexible, but only with one of her oldest and closest friends. They've gotten together since I've been with her on a couple of occassions, with my blessing to be honest.

I'm happy for them to continue as long as I get to hear about it. She likes teasing me a little, so that works out well. She had a 3some with her ex just before they broke up (the straw that broke the camels back, as it were - he decided that he'd rather be with the other girl, she declined, my gf told him where to go).

Personally, there are lots of fantasies in this area that I'd like to fulfill. I'd love to get involved with them both and have a full on threesome but I'm not pushing it.

Strangely, I've seen loads of men kissing (airports, pubs, you name it), but never two women. I guess that's one of the reason's why I'm happy for it to continue - it really intrigues me.

[David2]

Threesoums are fun. If you love sex, imagine you get more of it, in same time.

They can do magic in your relationship. But the key is that both you and your partner have to trust each other, know the boundaries and the 3rd person that you invite have understand that you 2 are a couple.

If you are looking for a FMF, then it will be a good idea that if you are sexually attractive to females Unless you just want to see your bf with another girl. It will be easier to find someone to participate in the first type. You can not be a jealous type thinking that this girl is more beautiful then I OR she is enjoying my bf that’s why she is moaning.
Your bf need to respect your wishes and limits set by you. He also need to be able to pay equal attention to both of you.

You can try _ sites or chat rooms, club/bar or someone you know and trust. Although the last at times may be harder as everytime you see you may be like yes this is the girl that my bf f*cked.


Always use protection.

Depending on your mood and participation level there are many activities that you can do in 3sum

[cheekychick]

Thanks for all your replies. This scenario has been driving me insane. The fantasies we've been having are unbelievable, making foreplay and sex amazing. I only hope the reality will live up to the fantasy!!! My boyfriend is a fantastic lover, and I'm doing this for the both of us. I've thought about friends, and broached the subject, but they're not as many female friends willing to participate as male friends! I will have to try chat up a female in a bar...... should be interesting!