What do others view as unfaithful

sevensisters · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 8:11 am Post subject: What do others view as unfaithful

At what level do you think socialising becomes being unfaithful, presuming you have not told your partner about the friendship. I have my own view, with which my husband agrees, that I will share with you later.

coolman · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 18 Apr 2008 Posts: 7289

anything more than a peck on the cheek. Normal going out for dinner and drinks is nothing, as long as the intentions are not to get "more" out of it.

animallover15 · Super Woman Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 17928

If its something you hide from your partner then I'd consider that being unfaithful!!!....If there's nothing untoward about what you are doing then you would gladly share the information!

wildchild · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:28 am Post subject:

i cant vote on this cos i would have to tick more than one-i think flirting is ok if thats all it is once it crosses a line then you are being unfaithful

honbuns · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 2:09 pm Post subject:

Flirting is fine, kissing is not other than a peck on the check, however giving someone a cuddle for emotional comfort I think is fine. Anything that becomes sexual though and you are over the boarder and cheating.

Mr B · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 2:37 pm Post subject:

I'd say fisting is really pushing it too far.......

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MaxtheGaul · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 4:51 pm Post subject:

To my mind pretty much anything is OK provided your partner is aware of what you are doing and you are not hiding either facts or motives.

I wouldn't make a big issue about kissing someone, but I wouldn't dream of going further unless I knew my partner was OK about it.

vixen37 · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 9:35 pm Post subject:

Cambridge · Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 12:38 am Post subject:

tobinfest · Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:18 am Post subject:

In business, we have a theory, "If you THINK you might have a conflict of interest, (whether or not you actually do), you probably do have a conflict and shouldn't take the job, etc."

Along those same lines, would you go to dinner with your workmate (harmless, probably), without sharing this with your lifemate, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.? Would he or she be concerned or upset by your doing this?

Remember also, while your intentions may be innocent, your workmate's intentions may not be. He or she might be looking for more than an innocent encounter.

We all have done some things (the innocent hug or peck on the cheek for example) but if your significant other takes insult at this, or finds out about your doing so, you have little defense.

While flattering, watch your back and be careful. Is it worth the consequences?

My two cents. Good luck.

Verve · Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:38 pm Post subject:

Whatever your partner considers to be unfaithful.

sevensisters

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EmmyBee · Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 2:09 am Post subject:

Kissing although I could forgive.