large libia

corecoreb4u · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 04 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

im really self conscious about myself already and to make matters worse i have a large inner labia. im about to be 16 and have been going out with this guy for over a year now and im a virgin but hes not. im so scared that hes going to find something that he doesnt like about me and not want to be with me so ive been pushing him away every time he trys to make a move. i can tell that hes getting more and more less patient with me but i cant seem to get over my self consciousness. its not realy the sex part im scared of its what he will think of me. I NEED HELP QUICK!!

dgeezer · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 8:33 pm Post subject:

Self-consciousness when making love is likely to inhibit the pleasure for both (all ?) parties. Remind yourself that everyone is different (thankfully - imagine how boring life would be if this weren't the case !!) and that a good lover will revel in the things that make you respectively unique. That includes physical and non-physical characteristics.

Sounds to me you are hung up on some 'ideal' in your mind. How did you decide that you compare badly to this ideal ? How do you know this ideal is what others want ? If he can't accept you as you are, move on.

brunettebimbo · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:17 pm Post subject:

I really wouldn't worry about it, I myself didn't feel that I looked normal down there but reading things on here and watchin films made me realise that even the stunning woman have the same! What exactly is normal? No-one knows hun, the only way to find out is to go for it! I'm sure he will be fine!

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