Wishing I was a girl.

[gazbrooks2002]

In this weather I look at girls and wish I looked like them and could wear their dresses and pretty tops.Even though I am a straight guy.Why do I feel like this.I feel silly feeling like it.

[TonyRockyhara]

Yeah, straight...

[Guest]

tough

or get a sex change

[Crossdresser2]

Wanting to wear girls clothes means you want to be a crossdresser. There are many men who have the same desires you do. Some have come out of their closets and dress full time as women, while others dress only in absolute privacy. You are not alone. Use whichever search engine you prefer and look for "crossdressing" and "crossdressers." This should take you to many articles, forums and boards where you find people with the same feeling and desires as you.

You said you are a straight guy. Many people try to group crossdressers and gays together. The fact is most crossdressers are straight and the portion of gay crossdressers is not much different from the portion of gays in the total population.

Most of us started out dressing in private and then progressed in small, cautious steps to where we each are today. Some dress in girls' cothes all the time while others will never come out of their closet. I started dressing in private 50+ years ago when I was in my teens. Today I frequnetly go out in public in women's clothes. Depending on your situation (family, job, finances, etc.) you could start by buying yourself a pretty tee shirt and a skirt that you like. At first, wear them only in the provacy of your home. Then you could wear the tee shirt with male trousers, either locally or when you are going someplace where you are certain you will not meet anyone who knows you. Then add your skirt when you will be away from home. Eventually you may feel comfortable wearing your tee and skirt after dark in your own neighborhood. The most important thing is to have confidence in yourself.

Another crossdresser

[sleepy]

LOSER

[ƒÄi†h]

I knew there was somewhere i could find advice about this. But my desire is just a lot further a step and may seem stupid. I have to try hard each day just not to show my feminine side (e.g putting hands on hips) and it's getting harder. People may think I'm gay which I'm not.
I think it would be easier for you just to think about what will suit you and those around you.

I don't know wether my desire would be loving a girl or loving to be a girl.
But then the thought of both drifts along making me puzzle myself.

A concerned youth

[Shelby - US]

faith...please believe me when i say your idea of our life is much different than how our life really is.

[Crossdresser2]

Faith,

Showing your feminine side will not necessarily make people think you are gay. There are some gay men who are extremely masculine and are attractted only to similar men. Depending on how you put your hands on your hips they could be 'read' as masculine, feminine or gay. In the area where I live, farmers routinely put their hands in their hip pockets with their thumbs sticking out when they want to rest thier arms from work. A man who is standing like this is pften referred to as an "old farmer" even if he has nothing to do with agriculture. If you were moving your hands over your hips as though smoothing a skirt, that would be considered feminine. If you were wearing tight slacks and had something such as a glove or a handkerchief poking out of your pocket, you would most likely be considered gay and looking to meet someone.

Alternative lifestyles are generally accetped today to the point that no one is really going to know or care whether you are projecting your feminie side or not. More and more men use make up and similar grooming aids today. No one takes a second look at a man wearing earrings.

The important thing is to have confidence in yourself. Groom yourself nicely and maintain good posture. There is nothing wrong with showing your feminine side. If someone has a problem with that, it is their problem, not yours. Let the world know you have enough confidence in yourself that you are proud to show your feminine side.

[setme]

sleepy

I agree who cares want others think
However in my case [b]pink[/b] is the colour

Kind regards setme (the )

[under_assertive]

I wish I could be a woman, but only for a while. I'm curious as to what the differences in thoughts and feelings would be. I think it would make me a better man.

[Guest]

I'd like to experience having my own tits to play with, but for that, I guess gaining 300lbs in weight is always an option.

[Guest]

[setme]

Hi ya gazbrooks2002
Disagree see my posts in Cross dressing of which this is one:-
I went to a Beauty Salon with intention of a manicure then I would go on to have my washed and set next door in a Ladies Parlour. As my pink top was showing at the neck line of my jacket, they were eager to see what I was wearing they offered to take my jacket and revealed me wearing a ladies lace blouse & fuchsia cardigan, I was also clutching a ladies shopping bag I asked the lady for a manicure of course we can do that for you she replied in a soft voice, I told her that I really like to be treated as a lady now and then, I was then asked if wanted a cup of tea, the beautician asked me about my plans for rest of the day after the nails were manicured and I proudly told her of my hair appt for a wash and set next door but one at 12.00, she added if you want to be treated as a lady why don’t you wear a dress and heels, this was my opportunity to tell her I had a skirt & shoes in my bag, she could see I wanted to say something and asked me what’s in the bag? I told her, and she suggested I put them, on out back, and will do your nails after. I was taken out to the back of shop where I could change it was exciting, I made a grand entrance back into the shop wearing plain black skirt the black opaque tights that I was already wearing beneath my jeans and ladies shoes the type with no heel and very flat she smiled and said well isn’t that better you look more comfortable already. I was made another cup of tea as the first had got cold, then shown to a seat right in the window where I was left there for about 20 minutes and given some magazines to read it was just nice pick up a few make-up tips. When the Beautician came to do my nails she saw what I was reading so we spoke mostly about this subject she also commented how nice my tops were especially the bright pink cardi, I told her it was my favourite colour. After she had done my cuticles I was asked to put one elbow on the table and completely relax my hand letting it go limp at wrist (I found this very easy) she took my hand and applied a generous helping on hand moisturiser and massaged this in for at least 5 minutes, her fingers were into locking with mine on many occasions, once the all cream was gone she asked for my other hand. Truthfully I can’t remember in which order she did things as I was just enjoying everything about the way I was being treated but I can recall one of the last she said as you like to be treated as a lady that you feel, I’ve added some extras for you today and to finish I will apply several coats of clear nail varnish to make your nails very glossy you need this to break up the colour (she said that if I did your nails hot pink it would be to much of one colour) Once my nails were dry I left the shop in my skirt said I would call back for jacket and shopping bag it was just about 11.45 so would be just in time for my wash and set. As I walked into the busy Salon a lady greeted me and I mentioned appt @ 12.00 for wash and set she looked down at my skirt and tights and smiled I saw her look in the appt book and there my name was with a neat writing next to it reading (special treatment please) I was asked to take a seat while other ladies where having there hair permed at approx 12.30 a stylist lead me to a basin and washed & conditioned my hair was then passed over to another stylist who asked me to take a seat in front of the mirror and she would discuss how to do my hair, whilst I was talking about the desired style I happen to notice to girls that worked in salon talking and one started to wash the others hair she then came and sat in the salon chair next to me the other stylist started to roll her hair. After speaking with my stylist told her wanted hair set in spiral curls on rollers unfortunately this could only be done on sides and back as I was thin on top. It was a buzz having a lady next to me having her hair rolled as well, then appeared another lady who sat the other side of me she was having a set as well. I think I now what special treatment meant and why she specified the time of 12.00 it all seam to fit in, it didn’t bother me I was pleased. We were all finished being rolled up at the same time and a hair nets put on before going under the hoods, there were three hoods I was seated in the middle with a lady on either side the we made conversation to make the time pass and they both commented on my dress & tops after about 40 minutes the dryers stopped and we were all lead back to our chairs all three of us had nets removed and we had to wait while our hair cooled off after 15 or so minutes we all had the rollers removed, as she spiral rolled my hair once she had unclipped each roller the roller was pulled down and out of the hair leaving tight ringlets she then scrunched my hair and sprayed. Then the door bell rang just as another client was entering but no it was the Beautician who had done my nails she had brought my shopping bag with my jeans and shoes in, also my jacket she told me had put a few magazines she had sorted out mainly on make-up & fashion. She commented on how my hair looked really beautiful in ringlets
Yes it was a fun day but very busy

gazbrooks2002 enjoy every day to the full you only live once, if what I read is your desire do it I don’t necessary mean a sex change as no going back, but feel free to dress as you want, ladies wear trousers why not men a skirt heels & tights plus anything else that would give you the curves!!
Regards setme