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serious dilemma your opinions please

Postby femme88 on Wed Jul 30, 2008 5:01 pm

I need some help with this. My hubby and I have been married for bout a year, and together for 3 yrs. He doesn't really like to kiss, i mean like deep passionate kissing, he does like to give me lots of little kisses all over my face so that i even get annoyed, however he isnt into the deep passionate kissing thing which I am,its really important to me, its such a bonding moment where you feel just how much the other person wants you. That said, we do have a great sex life(apartfrom little to no foreplay), and i know he loves me 210% and would do anything for me. Ive told him enough times how the kissing thing is important to me, and he tries to force it sometimes but forcing it and feeling it are two different things. so i dont know what to do. I mean how can you make a person have the desire to kiss passionately....it really bothers me. And since he doesnt like to kiss like that obviously there isnt that much foreplay either if any.

What do you think? What are your suggestions?
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Postby Verve on Thu Jul 31, 2008 4:42 am

I hate kissing and holding hands... Yuck! But I'm not that affectionate... ask him to be honest with you about the reason why. Is it your breath… maybe... who knows. If that's not it he's just not an affectionate person. You knew this before you married him.

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Postby FFFCaroline on Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:29 pm

Before we were married we used to kiss by the hours...Seeing I was a virgin when I married, you can see why...However, after we married I would say that it was me, who did not kiss as much as we used to...This has been true most of our life....NOW it is me that wants the hot passionate kissing and he is more mute about it...I even asked him this in the last six months...His could be because of a breathing problem so I do think it stems from this but I do get a lot of hot foreplay...This you should insist on as a woman need it...It is the road leading to lust....Push him to do it now while the marriage is in its infancy...This is the best time or else you may regret this later....Much luck...Caroline

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Postby femme88 on Fri Aug 01, 2008 1:06 am

Well thank you for your thoughts, he has told me hes just not that much into it, but i am going to push the foreplay thing, :)

Thanks you two!

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Postby FFFCaroline on Fri Aug 01, 2008 2:07 am

femme88 wrote:Well thank you for your thoughts, he has told me hes just not that much into it, but i am going to push the foreplay thing, :)

Thanks you two!


You are so very welcome...Take care, Caroline

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Postby splinkygb on Sun Aug 03, 2008 4:54 am

Femme88: Buy another tootbrush next time u stay over Honey.
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