should i tell him how old i am?

[misscougar]

i met a guy on the internet and we have been wrting and texting with an for two months. we get on real well and we really like eachother. he is flying out to meet me for the first time next week.

the topic of our ages has never come up though on his myspace it says he is 19. i am 35. i don't think he has any idea though I've talked about having had several jobs already and my exes which would give most people an indication of my age. should i mention it before he comes to see me? my age has never been an issue before and i am often mistaken for being in m early 20's. what should i do?

[Guest3]

If he is 19 years of age and he is flying out to see you, then that means he is spending money... So from a financial point of view, you don't want him to spend money and then feel that he was mis-lead, even though you haven't done that.

Also, you are 35 and he is 19, do you want a relationship with this person? Or, just the time you spend together regardless of what happens sexually? If not keep it purely plutonic.

However, i have a friend who is 20 and i am 45, he wants a woman more mature, such as 35, because his age group is silly and he is very mature. So, it can work .

I would simply say to him, well you've never asked sweet but did you want my birthdate?

And end that with a hahaha, i will tell...

Just see what he comes back with

[Guest]

What Guest3 said.

[Straight forward/revealin]

is best path I think, 'moderated' with something like:
"I'm young at heart and really look fondly ahead to
being your girl since confident I can really
'rock your world' and tingle at the idea of having
a young man HARD(at work) learning passionate
intimacy from experienced me."
This 'IS' becoming the new norm;
- for more mature women having appeal to younger
guys since 'the crop' of age peer females is such a
sorry lot these days and so superficial type thing.

[snake-eyes]

whats the matter with your age?? just tell him,most young guys like a older woman,i did when i was his age.besides most guys i think do not age about the age thing as much as women.

[saxon]

if he wanted to know your age he would have asked.....

[Guest]

Tell him. What if he's a liar too and is only 17? I see nothing wrong with the May December relationship, but why leave something like that a surprise. What if he takes one look at you and cringes? (Don't always believe those people that say you look so young. I have a friend who thinks she looks 30 and is 45. Yeah, 30 from a distance maybe. 42 close up.)

[TonyRockyhara]

my age has never been an issue before and 10 years ago I was mistaken for being in m early 20's. what should i do?

FYP!