how to conrtol sexual urges?

[young-mma-fan]

Hey i need some edvice, me and my gf have been going out for 3 months.and when we first started going out we got very serious(sexualy)
very fast and things began to slow down. but now when we hang out and were both tierd are soemthing just watching a movie, i always think we have to do something, and we dont have to. and we end up doing something then i feel bad for wanting to do something when she didnt want to. i just need to now (tips) on how to control these kinds of urges for when were both in the mood. thanks alot:).

[noodles]

Hey i need some edvice, me and my gf have been going out for 3 months.and when we first started going out we got very serious(sexualy)
very fast and things began to slow down. but now when we hang out and were both tierd are soemthing just watching a movie, i always think we have to do something, and we dont have to. and we end up doing something then i feel bad for wanting to do something when she didnt want to. i just need to now (tips) on how to control these kinds of urges for when were both in the mood. thanks alot:).

'Respect' is probably the only advice i can give you. Respect your gf and respect yourself. You have no 'right' to be having sex with anyone unless they want to have sex with you. Equally she should be telling you to get a grip. Who do you think you are? If you really do have a problem wioth control id suggest a single life and some medical attention

[FFFCaroline]

Being sexual is not an amusement... It must come when a woman is ready and should never be violated....Sex is not important in a young relationship...What is important is getting to know each other and learning of the things that each of you enjoy....By using the ultimate perfection in a relationship as a casual enjoyment, you will end up the loser...

Just my thoughts...TC, C

[young-mma-fan]

Being sexual is not an amusement... It must come when a woman is ready and should never be violated....Sex is not important in a young relationship...What is important is getting to know each other and learning of the things that each of you enjoy....By using the ultimate perfection in a relationship as a casual enjoyment, you will end up the loser...

Just my thoughts...TC, C

thank you for your edvice...i feel it will help me alot..thanks agian.

[FFFCaroline]

Being sexual is not an amusement... It must come when a woman is ready and should never be violated....Sex is not important in a young relationship...What is important is getting to know each other and learning of the things that each of you enjoy....By using the ultimate perfection in a relationship as a casual enjoyment, you will end up the loser...

Just my thoughts...TC, C

thank you for your edvice...i feel it will help me alot..thanks agian.

You are very welcome...Now just have a wonderful life.....Find your dreams and never settle for less than your goal...

Best wishes, Caroline