Me and a Soldier

[guest 20]

I am 20.

I met the son of a friend of my mum's recently, he's a 25 year old soldier and will be going to Afghanistan soon.

He's an only child and his mum's really worried about him.

We went out for a drink a few days ago and will be meeting up again. Well, I use condoms but I really like him and his mum, and I think that it would be really something if I could give him a child.

Should I just let nature take it's course, at least if anything happens to him his mum - and mine will have a grandchild.

[TonyRockyhara]

You owe it to our servicemen to let them bareback you. Unless you have a disease-ridden poon.

[Ivan Diederhoff]

You owe it to our servicemen to let them bareback you. Unless you have a disease-ridden poon.

[Verve]

You guys are bad...

Honey, that seems like a nice idea. However, it seems like a sneaky thing to do. Why don't you guys get married? Then work on the baby. You can do it all in one day. Talk it over with them and see if it's an idea that will work for all.

[glidewest]

my worst nightmare would be an unexpected 'arrival'

Have a child because you both want one, not because it seems like a nice thing to do for you and his mum, he's the one that'll have to support you both when he comes back unharmed.

[Mrs.K]

My husband is a marine and we thought about this, thats why we got pregnant before his deployment and then they ended up sending them somewhere else where it wasn't a danger zone, thank god. But you know I love the idea, and don't see anything wronge with it but you owe it to him to ask him what he thinks, not us. In the end it will be you two and we won't mean a thing.

[mr bob]

why in the world would you want him to have more on his mind to worry about back home? best soldiers are the ones that do not have lots of things to think about back home. he will have enough to think about if he goes into combat like staying alive.let him do his job and not think about a kid that he was pushed into having.that sounds low of you to do that to him.i saw many in nam that had kids at home and they never had thier heads together and they are the ones that get other guys killed.