How regular is regular?

[Bobo69]

Hi, I've been with my gf for 2 years. Basically due to cultural differences and the fact we live over an hour apart, we only see eachother 3 times a week, and for no longer than a few hours at a time. We never get to spend a night together. I want to know what the people here believe is a healthy sex life given the circumstances. I get frustrated because we might not share any intimacy for a fortnight and it doesn't seem to bother her. I want some advice please.

[Verve]

At least 4 times a week.

[Qwynn]

Some couples only see each other every 2 weeks. Some do it every day. It's always something that's negotiated (sometimes without words) between two people. Don't get caught up thinking you have to do what's normal. After all, once every two weeks is better than nothing?

[74jax]

Depends what else you're doing in the 'couple of hours' you get to see her. If it going for a meal then you can understand how sex wouldn't crop up, as the timing wouldn't be right. From a woman's point of view, if you only saw her for a couple of hours and had sex every time, I'd be of the opinion that's all you were after.