by davian on Tue Sep 02, 2008 1:41 pm
From what I’ve seen in the fetish scene, at clubs, munches & similar gatherings, there seems to be more submissive men than any other group, followed by submissive women, then dominant men & finally dominant women. Of course, it could be that the dominant women don’t come to events so much – I understand that many are in such demand (if they are good at it) that they can charge for their services.
I’ve voted that I’m a dominant man but I do occasionally switch to being submissive to a woman whom I trust & know well. My girlfriend is submissive but our relationship isn’t exclusive, especially in terms of bdsm play.
Do as you will if it harms no-one