Mad, Stupid, or Both?!?!

by **Demode** on Thu Sep 11, 2008 3:52 am

This is all about "you know what":

1. He wants to see you for "you know what" reason.

2. You WANT him, but you can't have him the way you want. All you can get is "you know what".

3. The only thing you two can have in common is "you know what".

4. "You know what" is not about moral. It's about pleasure. If you want to be moral, try Red Cross or something. If you want to enjoy, try "you know what".

by **MaxtheGaul** on Thu Sep 11, 2008 8:52 am

If his wife finds out he's been seeing an ex behind her back it will not do their marriage much good (she will believe the worst whatever he says). So if you are going to put their marriage at risk at least make it worthwhile and sleep with him. If you're not planning to do that then don't see him. :shock:

by **Cambridge** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 4:39 am

MaxtheGaul wrote:If his wife finds out he's been seeing an ex behind her back it will not do their marriage much good (she will believe the worst whatever he says). So if you are going to put their marriage at risk at least make it worthwhile and sleep with him. If you're not planning to do that then don't see him.

Hell, Max...I can do you one better. Sleep with him and charge him lots of money. :lol:

If his wife finds out, she can say it's not personel, just a commercial arrangement.

by **MaxtheGaul** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 7:16 am

As always Cambridge, you're right on the money.

by **smilesalot** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 4:43 pm

Hi,

Thanks for all that advice (or slagging off, both the same really isnt it!!)

I made a conscious decision, he did turn up... but i never. The abuse you lot gave me is exactly what I needed for me to wise up and and get it through my thick skull that I was potentially playing with fire.

Nonetheless my problem is now solved cuz I never told him I was going out (last minute decision to have a chinese with my pregnant friend) so I doubt he'll wanna talk to me anyway.

Cest le vie and all that. Moment of madness on my behalf.

by **Bouncy** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 5:15 pm

I for one am glad you stood him up.

None of us would ever be accused of being subtle

but our intent was not to bully but to open your eyes.

Learn from your mistakes the first time around. We've all made them. I've made some more than once. :roll:

Experience has taught me it's more beneficial to my mental well being to know when to let go and stick to it without falling back.

You did well grasshopper.

by **Bouncy** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 5:15 pm

Let us know when he contacts you again. :roll:

by **smilesalot** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 5:29 pm

I have no doubt that he'll text when hes bored. But I'm glad I can honestly say he's not a concern of mine anymore. I'm so proud of me!

by **Bouncy** on Fri Sep 12, 2008 5:36 pm

smilesalot wrote: I'm so proud of me!

You have reason to be. It's a big step. One in the right direction.

Good for you.

by **Verve** on Sat Sep 13, 2008 5:58 am

How the hell did I miss this thread! Smilesalot wow... If you really want to prove something you don't respond to his messages at all. That's the only way.

by **smilesalot** on Sat Sep 13, 2008 10:46 pm

Hello,

Just thought I'd give you an update. I got a text earlier, werent expecting it! Basically it said 'im missing ur eyes, im missing ur smile and im missing the way you make me feel. Ive always liked u, always will'. And that was pretty much it! I haven't replied, i dont want to get drawn in. Think I want him to leave me alone now.

Thats it, said I'd let you know so i did x

by **Verve** on Sat Sep 13, 2008 11:05 pm

If you say so.

by **smilesalot** on Sat Sep 13, 2008 11:12 pm

Whats that meant to mean, 'if u say so'? Why the sarcasm?

by **Verve** on Sun Sep 14, 2008 1:08 am

Why would you feel that it is sarcasm? Are you not confident in your decision that no matter what is said you know your intent. Would you really like to see my sarcasm?

by **MaxtheGaul** on Sun Sep 14, 2008 1:15 am

Don't be too hard on her. :wink:

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