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feeling confused.com bout friend

Postby Guest on Fri Sep 19, 2008 2:25 pm

Im friends with a guy in wrk for bout a year now. Hes in a long distance relationship and has always been flirty n tactile.

The past month or so hes been more full on with what hes saying - especially on msn and is more touchy etc.. and dont know whats going on as im confused.

It started off a month ago just before he went on hols was more touchy than normal finding reasons to touch my arms n shoulders alot, paying compliments.

I thought nothing of it then when weve been on line past month hes been more suggestive like we were talking bout tattoos and i told him what i fancied he was oh sounds sexy im gonna find it hard picturing u with clothes on. I just sortof laughed it off.

Then a few days later same sortof suggestive thing and he was asking me personal questions like how mny guys ive been with and if i was seeing anyone - which he asks alot.

Anyway last time i went to coffee with him he was finding excuses to hold my hand, touch my leg etc... and been a general flirt

I like him and hes leaving soon yet dont know what ot do for the best.

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Postby Guest on Sun Sep 21, 2008 2:35 pm

Hi.

If you aren't interested in him romantically, do nothing. He's leaving soon anyway. Just make sure you say nothing more to him back than a friend would, and that you treat all his comments are a joke.
If you would like a relationship with him, try and talk to him. As you said, he's leaving soon anyway. Remember though- he is in a relationship though, and so if he is being serious with the things he's saying to you, he's cheating on her effectively- and so may very well do the same to you.

Amy x

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