I am a hetro male and love wearing bra, panties, and shave my whole body because body hair is discusting. I don't see why some people have a negative opinion about men wearing bra, and panties and shaving body hair. I wear bra, panties, and shave my whole body because I want to not because somebody eles dosn't.
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 49 Location: Leicestershire
Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 7:01 am Post subject:
Thanks to all the posters on this subject, espescially to Diane, but you have all helped. I have been a long time undies wearer. Married for 22 years. My wife let me wear undies and other stuff too a few years back, but went off the idea, so I just did it in private, I never hid it from her and she knew but just didn't join in. I showed her this post and she read all of the threads, espescially taking time to read Diane's contribution. She now says its ok for me to wear what I like ( in private of course) and last night I acctually got to sleep with her in a nighty, and we will be buying new stuff, for both of us this weekend. Female first does work, and long may all of you, whatever your veiws keep posting. Even the negative veiws on this issue helped my wife to make her mind up. Thanks once again David
Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 10:39 pm Post subject: FINALLY MEET THE RIGHT WOMEN
I HAVE BEEN SINGLE AND CROSSDRESSING FOR 38 YEARS NOW AND FINALLY MEET THE RIGHT WOMEN WHO EXCEPTS ANDLIKES MY CROSSDRESSING SHE KNOWS I WEAR NOTHING BUT BRAS panties GARTERBELTS nylon AND EVEN CORSETS UNDER MY MALE CLOTHS WHEN OUT AT HOME SHE LOVES TO HAVE ME PUT ON A PRETTY DRESS OVER MY lingerie AND EVEN WIGS AND MAKEUP SHE LOVES TO REACH UNDER MY DRESS TO RUB ME THRU MY lingerie BEEN WAITING FOREVER FOR THIS LADY AND WILL TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN TO KEEP HER IN MY LIFE I TRULY KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO FIND A WOMEN WHO EXCEPTS CROSSDRESSING AS A PART OF MY LIFE NOT TREATING ME LIKE A CREAP I LOVE IT AS I AM NOW SITTING HERE IN MY NEW SHEFFON DRESS WAITING FOR HER TO SHOW IT OFF I AM SO HAPPY I HOPE OTHER CROSSDRESSERS CAN FIND THESE RARE WOMEN WHO LIKE AND EXCEPT DRESSING UP GOOD LUCK GUYS IT TOOK ME 38 YEARS
Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 1:28 am Post subject: wearing ligerie
i have been wearing stockings and basques ,bras, and knickers since i was 15, and wear them under my clothes at work, i have two female sexual partners who love me wearing them while having sex (not both together) and actively encourage me to wear the whole lot while doing it, i,m a single straight guy who loves womans lingerie and am lucky enough to have two woman who like it too, i was upfront with them from the start and they appreciated that more than hiding it, so dont hide it men, show and tell. you,ll be surprised how many womem do like men in female underwear and get aroused by men wearing it,, of all the women i have met with only 5 objected, but i soon found others that did like it. they both know about each other and are happy for me to wear what i want,
Nice blog garterbelt! That's cool that you are turned on by this.
I have gone through phases where I am excited to dress in lingerie and times when it doesn't do much for me. A few years ago I worked as a Regional Manager for a women's show store. It was very easy for me to get sexy shoes, stockings and other items that I could put on and wear. I did this quite often while on the road traveling. After a long day of working I could go to the hotel, have a few drinks and then head to my room and play dress up. I would put on makeup, lingerie and a dress or skirt and my high heels. It was quite fun and a big turn on. The only thing I was missing was a wig and some padding for the bra. I was tempted to buy that and then go out in public but never did.
Anyway, I would still do it but the strong desire to do so is not there like it was so for those worried about it don't. It could be just a phase that passes or it could last forever but I don't see any harm or why it would impact a relationship.
I was married for three years when i decided to try on my wifes panties. It made me feel good and relaxed. I was always a very masculine man. I had a quick temper that was enterfering with my marriage so on year 6 of our marriage i decided to tell her that i liked wearing her undergarments. And ever since then she and i get along so good. i dont do it often but if i'm stressed or angry in relaxes me and me and her can talk and i'm alot more sensitive when i'm wearing them plus i dont feel like i have to be such a macho man all the time around her. She knows i'm a man and have been in plenty of fights to protect her honor and such. But she likes that i can finally be sensitive every now and then and we will go shopping together and she really enjoys it. I t is more just to relax me no arousal from it really. because when she sees me in lacy underwear i cant very well act macho lol. so we usally talk and about things she wants to talk about.
What got you interested in seeing men in lingerie and does your husband or b/f wear things for you.
A past g/f of mine really enjoyed wearing things for her around the house and liked to watch me in my outfits walking around in black patent high heel pumps.
What got you interested in seeing men in lingerie and does your husband or b/f wear things for you.
A past g/f of mine really enjoyed wearing things for her around the house and liked to watch me in my outfits walking around in black patent high heel pumps.
The first "exposure" I had was seeing the Horror Picture Show", a science fiction movie. I found the whole thing strangely erotic and that started me off.
Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 5:04 pm Post subject: crossdressing
I first starting wearing women's knickers when I was 8 or 9 - helping myself to a sexy pair of my sister's that she hated. I was, no doubt, an early starter! When at university, my girlfriend was an airhostess on long haul flights. Frequently visiting hot and humid countries meant she always wore stockings - a normal turn-on for most blokes but an additional one for me as I would wear them in bed when she was away on trips. It turned me on so much - not just the silkiness of womens knickers against my balls but also the look. I never plucked up enough courage to share my secret excitement with her though.
I'm now a happily married family man but am, perhaps, the lukiest man in the world. Sooner or later it was inevitable my wife would find out about my fetish and her initial reaction was far from favourable. In fact the whole thing was an instant ban in her mind. The effect on me was pretty devastating and hard to hide. Fortunatley we have always been open and she could see it wasn't a flash-in-the-pan idea of mine, so we talked about and the implications it. She read similar _ articles to this and was surprised to see how commonplace was the situation. Indeed, the fact some wives actively partake in their husbands' fantasies and enjoyed it, lead to her taking a more flexible view.
Now we go shopping together for lingerie, stockings and suspended belts. We make love together wearing matching underwear and she's unleashed a passion in me unseen before. We are both gaining so much more pleasure now.
If you're a guy reading this, try to be open and explain where you're at. Take it slowly and don't be too forceful. If you're a woman, try to be a little more open to your husband's needs and, rather than seeing it as a threat or a weird peversion, benefit from a grateful and perhaps far more passionate lover. Good luck.
I had alway wondered what my man would look like wearing my bra and panties, I guess it was just sort of a fetish of mine, being so erotic. So a few months back during foreplay I removed my panties while laying next to him on our bed, and while caressing him ( to keep his mind in the mood should he oppose) I gently draped them over his area. After a few minutes of touching and rubbing, I could tell he was extremely aroused. He did not put them on that night, but the ice had been broken. A few days later I did the same thing again, but this time I ran my panties down his leg, and to my surprise he willingly lifted his legs as for me to dress him. After the passion was over, we had talked about it. Being a very manly man, he was reluctant at first, but after I took the first steps in telling him how I felt about it he eventually told me that it wasn't the first time he dressed in panties, but it had been a long time since he had due to the fear of being caught. Through our communications, honesty, and love for each other, we both found that we can always be ourselves. He now dresses up for both of our enjoyment. It helps him to relax after a hard day of work, and makes for very exciting love making. Shortly after this he proposed, and we have gotten married, and I happily let him pick out what he wants to wear to bed. be it boxers or a satin nighty.
To love another person is to love all about them. To hide something that makes you happy, whether it be sexually or mentally, is cheating you and your lover out of the beautiful experience of knowing another person at the deepest level. Always be honest, you can't go wrong.