Is big beautiful?

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Is big beautiful?

Postby Boo on Fri Aug 13, 2004 1:52 pm

Hi
Just wanted to pick your brains, is big sexy? I have gaines lots of weight since having kids. I just wondered how many of you think big is sexy?

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Postby Guest on Fri Aug 13, 2004 11:17 pm

I've always been attracted to mature, curvy women. "Heavy" in the right places (hips and buttocks) can be extremely sexy to me.

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Postby Bubble on Mon Aug 16, 2004 4:57 pm

I have been with my b/f for 18 months now but have known him for over 15 years and back then both of us were body beautifuls. When we met up all this time later i still fancied him even though he was huge compared to all those years ago. I am twice the size i was too but what he tells me is that he loves me for me and it wouldnt matter what shape or size i was he would still love me. And just for the record now that i am not so concious and worried about my size we have the most incredible sex ever. Hope that helps a bit.

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Postby KelB on Mon Aug 16, 2004 5:00 pm

I think big can be beautiful....it just depends on the person really! Some people if they are larger assmue they arnt attractive and that they are ugly therefore they are giving that impression and wont feel great! Others can look great and be confident and think they are beautiful and that comes across!

I had this discussion with my brother once...how if a man is larger or big build like say Ross Kemp some women still find him attractive, however sometimes a male only has to look at a woman who isnt a size 10 and bee disgusted!

Being a larger woman doesnt mean your un fit....I know women who are really fit and are a size 16/18!

I think in all honesty....if you think your gorgeous as you are....others will think that to! If they don't.......don't even waste your time on them sweetie! :wink:
You gotta, wait for the feeling and you wait for the feeling....And you wait, and you shiver and you shake

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Postby Guest on Tue Aug 17, 2004 2:20 pm

KelB wrote:I think big can be beautiful....it just depends on the person really! Some people if they are larger assmue they arnt attractive and that they are ugly therefore they are giving that impression and wont feel great! Others can look great and be confident and think they are beautiful and that comes across!

I had this discussion with my brother once...how if a man is larger or big build like say Ross Kemp some women still find him attractive, however sometimes a male only has to look at a woman who isnt a size 10 and bee disgusted!

Being a larger woman doesnt mean your un fit....I know women who are really fit and are a size 16/18!

I think in all honesty....if you think your gorgeous as you are....others will think that to! If they don't.......don't even waste your time on them sweetie! :wink:


Agreed.

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Large Women

Postby Guest on Wed Sep 01, 2004 5:53 am

Contrary to the mass media, and many women's own opinion of themselves, there are definately men who find large women attarctive and highly desirable. I've never dated a woman under 200 pounds and have had no desire to. Big is beautiful!

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Postby Guest on Wed Sep 01, 2004 4:12 pm

Big is unhealthy: increased cahnce of high blood pressure, heart attach, stroke etc. Beauty and acceptance are emotional and subjective issues. Health is not.

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Postby Guest on Wed Sep 01, 2004 4:13 pm

Big is unhealthy: increased chance of high blood pressure, heart attach, stroke etc. Beauty and acceptance are emotional and subjective issues. Health is not.

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Postby idiot on Sat Sep 04, 2004 3:23 am

fat chicks suck

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same topic

Postby GatheringFlock on Sat Sep 04, 2004 5:05 am

I've learned in my life that anything can be beautiful if you want it that way. I use to think i wasn't sexy but now i feel differently. If you want to look sexy you have to believe you're sexy. It doesn't matter what people tell me. I know im sexy and i have my own trend. You just have to tell yourself that you are beautiful. I'm telling you it really works. Just believe in yourself! That is the true magic in this world.

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Postby scottie on Sun Sep 05, 2004 2:56 am

idiot wrote:fat chicks suck


I don't agree, big CAN be sexy. It all depends, sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

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Postby Jamie B on Fri May 13, 2005 1:22 pm

I definateely find big women a huge turn on

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Postby k9trainingbiz on Fri May 13, 2005 3:10 pm

Sorry, fat is unhealthy and looks lazy. Very UNattractive. *shudder*

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Postby joanna3535 on Fri May 13, 2005 5:27 pm

you dont have to be fat to be big.
I have an Omron and go out bodyfat testing.
There are big people with less fat % in their bodies than really skinny people that eat tons of crap and have a higher bodyfat %
Still my arse is still big and i hate it

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Postby melvaughn on Fri May 13, 2005 5:41 pm

Big as in flab hanging down to your knees, well..that's not beautiful. Big as in a curvy yet firm/toned body would be beautiful. There's a difference between being big as in pure fat (unhealty) and big because it's the natural shape of your body. I know people who work out all the time, and eat healthy but are still big...it's their natural shape! But they are also farily toned.
Just like thin girls can eat and eat, and not gain a pound. You have to work with what you have, but in a healthy way, not a fat way.

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