One last night of freedom??

by **suze** on Fri Jul 21, 2006 11:42 am

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we split up once for around a year about 3 years ago.
We are getting married in January.
I am thinking that I would really like to have sex with someone else before we get married.
I am starting to get a bit freaked out about not having sex with anyone else for the rest of my life.
What do you think? Is this so wrong?

by **chloe1234** on Fri Jul 21, 2006 11:17 pm

How would u feel if your soon to be husband wanted to have sex with someone other than u?? I am sure u wouldnt b happy. You defi shouldnt b getting married if your contemplating this+especially if your freaking out about sleeping with one person forever.

Marriage is spose to be about commitment, you do not sound like u r ready for that yet!! If your husband is a commited person+u go ahead and marry him, I feel sorry for him!! :boohoo:

by **delgadosfan** on Sat Jul 22, 2006 7:55 pm

I can't believe you are even considering this!! I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years (he is the only person i have slept with) and love him with all my heart. I would NEVER consider such a thing. You clearly don't love him otherwise you would never even think about doing this to him!! Women like you really annoy me.

by **Mr B** on Sat Jul 22, 2006 9:21 pm

delgadosfan wrote:I can't believe you are even considering this!! I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years (he is the only person i have slept with) and love him with all my heart. I would NEVER consider such a thing. You clearly don't love him otherwise you would never even think about doing this to him!! Women like you really annoy me.

What she said. Why are you marrying him? You're only doing it because you think you're "expected" to. Youve no idea what love is.

by **Jeri** on Wed Jul 26, 2006 5:35 pm

It appears that you are both pre swinger and pre divorced.

by **thegreenbastard** on Wed Aug 02, 2006 4:35 pm

Just do it

by **Guest** on Thu Aug 31, 2006 4:22 pm

F****** SLAPPER

by **monosodium** on Fri Sep 01, 2006 9:26 pm

suze wrote:I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we split up once for around a year about 3 years ago.
We are getting married in January.
I am thinking that I would really like to have sex with someone else before we get married.
I am starting to get a bit freaked out about not having sex with anyone else for the rest of my life.
What do you think? Is this so wrong?

I know how you feel - I think it's actually quite natural - I know I felt the same way before I got married and a couple of friends have had the same thoughts too.

I didn't go through with it and I wouldn't recommend that you do either, but unless you've been in that position it's hard for other people to understand. For me, it wasn't that I don't love Mrs M, but purely that commitment hanging over you can made me think about all the things I wasn't likely to do again, like chat up women. Then I really realised that the reason I hadn't been chatting up women was because I actually wasn't interested. It's perfectly normal IMHO, but it's an itch you probably shouldn't scratch.

by **hottrod** on Tue Sep 19, 2006 10:22 pm

isn't that why we created batchler and batchleret parties :lol:

by **blonde__bombshell** on Thu Apr 19, 2007 7:30 pm

If you love your husband then I dont see the problem. If he cant make you happy sexuallu as well as emotionally then dont marry him. Simple.

by **JackCity** on Tue Apr 24, 2007 10:36 am

Hey suze....what happened???

Are you both really happy??

Are you both absolutely gutted?

Did you sleep with someone else before you got married??

Heavens....Did you get married???

Tell us.....

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