abuse at school

[R-boy]

A smacked bottom lenient? Not really… smacked bottoms were not merely ‘a smack on the bottom’, which suggests a singular smack. But was in fact a full-on bottom tanning session, probably comprising twenty or so very hard smacks.
After such a vigorous smacked bottom (or spanking as you would say in America) the bottom would be bright red and the precipitant would have difficulty sitting down for quite some time.
English Headmaster's were indeed frightening individuals terrifying in fact!

[Guest]

At my school - a good few years ago now - the Headmistress used a strap, on the hand rather than the behind. I was only sent to get it once and found it terrifying. To add to the effect she always kept her victims waiting outside her study for 20 minutes or so. By the time I was called in I'd started to wet my knickers with fright, deeply shaming at 14.

[Karen L]

At my school - a good few years ago now - the Headmistress used a strap, on the hand rather than the behind. I was only sent to get it once and found it terrifying. To add to the effect she always kept her victims waiting outside her study for 20 minutes or so. By the time I was called in I'd started to wet my knickers with fright, deeply shaming at 14.

It is not unusual for girls to wet themselves before or during corporal punishment. See my post about paddling at my Mississippi high school on the "Orgasm during school corporal punishment" thread

[Guest]

At my school - a good few years ago now - the Headmistress used a strap, on the hand rather than the behind. I was only sent to get it once and found it terrifying. To add to the effect she always kept her victims waiting outside her study for 20 minutes or so. By the time I was called in I'd started to wet my knickers with fright, deeply shaming at 14.

It is not unusual for girls to wet themselves before or during corporal punishment. See my post about paddling at my Mississippi high school on the "Orgasm during school corporal punishment" thread

Thanks, Karen. I read your other postings.

It's good to know that it didn't just happen to me. I was lucky because I managed to prevent myself from letting it all go and thus avoided total humiliation. Punishment was at the end of the school day so I was able to go home and change my pants without anyone knowing. I've never told anyone about it until now.

[Guest]

This thread brought back a memory..

At my school on the "naughty" girls got the slipper and I wasn't one of those. I did get sent to the headmistress once, though, for skiving off games. I was given a stern telling off and warned that if I had to see her again I would be slippered. I did n't wet but I do recall feeling absolutely deperate to do my "number twos" -fear/nerves I suppose. If I had been told to bend over to be beaten I'm sure I'd have filled my knickers.

[Guest]

When I think back to my school days I wonder if our Headmaster got away with murder. He was very strict and feared by all the girls because if we were in trouble and were sent to his office, he would smack our bottoms. I don't just mean a quick slap, we would actually have to bend ovr his lap and recieve a proper smacked bottom!

I know wonder if this was abuse or just normal for the time? Does anyone else here remember being punished like that at school in the late 70's early eighties?

1980, rulers

[Sue64]

Ok so I was a bit of a trouble maker in school so I was always being sent to the principlies office. Sometimes for a talk other times I got a spanking with the paddle......thick board with holes drilled in it for effect. Hurt like hell.
But at home my grandmother used a belt or told me to go out and get a switch from the tree. THAT I hated! Probably kind of llike the "cane". Could hear it swish in the air before it hit back of my theighs....OUCH!!!

[Schnozle]

Spanking and caning should be brought back to schools!

I live next to a high school and a group of girls have been sneaking round the side of my shed to hide out when skipping lessons. The language I heard, and the smoking they do is unbelievable. I told them off the ohter day and they left but not before yelling a torrent of abuse. I phoned up the Headmaster and told him of the incident and do you know what these girls got?... a detention!!! In my day they would have their backsides walloped so hard they wouldn't have been able to sit down for the rest of the day!

They get away with absolute murder, bring back corporal punishment I say!

Yes I can understand the trauma that you have to endure and do sympathise.
I do not however believe that bringing back CP is the answer.
During my primary/junior school years in the 60s, I was mercilessly spanked and was often struck across the hand with a ruler "and by Christ that hurt!" and shouted at. That was my punishment for being unable to do my arithmatic, misprouncincing words (unintenionally) and day dreaming. That was as a result of absences due to my epelepsy, which had not then been diagnosed.
When I look back it's obvious that those teachers were sadists and would only need any little excuse to spank and ruler in order to fulfil their sadistic urges.
By the time I reached secondary school I kept a low profile and was not caned once but I have seen it administered to other boys.
There was a maths and RE teacher who administered the cane or slipper liberaly and for trivial reasons. I was fortunate enough not to have been in any of those teachers classes.
The boys who were unfortunate to be in the maths teacher's class sat through the class scared witless for fear of not achieving high enough grades. Had I have been in his class and maths not being my top subject. I am certain that not a week would have passed without my receiving a warm backside.
It was clearly evident that he "as did the other teacher" obtained great sexual satisfaction.
When he use to cane a boy he would ran at him so he could excercise greater force. One one occassion he caned a boy until he bled and the school had to make an out of court settlement.
There was one incident where a boy dropped dead after receiving the cane. Admittedly it had transpired that he had a heart condition that had not then been diagnosed.
As for anti social behavior it was as much prevailant in my school as it is in today's schools.
I think that the problem is lack of communication between adults and children.
If CP was reinstated then all the sadists and preditors would reappear from out of the woodwork.
I won't pretend that I didn't do things that merited a clip round the ear from time to time.
If you are still in favour of CP after having read my letter then I suggest that you go to www.nospanks.com and click onto Abuse in the Class Room. Not only shall you read some horrific stories but you shall also see some horrific images of the injuries received by pupils and for trivial reasons.

[Hugh1961]

We had a teacher who obviously hated women and seem to get all his sexual frustrations out by spanking girl’s bottoms really hard. His wife had run off with another teacher and you could tell that when he spanked the girls, he was in his mind punishing the whole of womankind, it was like this I’ll teach you, you cheap little whores wallop!!!

Well it seemed that way to us, he really seem to hit boys but if the girls did anything he kept them behind after school for a smacked bottom!

I think I experienced something similar to you Jenster. My female Head of Year only seemed to spank boys and there was a definite 'agenda'. For instance, if you clenched your cheeks during a bare-bottomed slippering, she'd take a bitter delight in warning you to stop clenching or "I will fetch the cane". This entirely involuntary muscular response to being whacked with the gym shoe would inevitably lead to this painful punitive upgrade.

What made me think the cruelty of this fat forty-something female might have had a 'personal agenda' was when, prior to the effective application of the cane to my wretched, quivering flanks, she would add;

"You boys might think that your dimpled cheeks hold some feint allure, but I can assure you of my immunity to such charms."

[Guest]

This thread brought back a memory..

At my school on the "naughty" girls got the slipper and I wasn't one of those. I did get sent to the headmistress once, though, for skiving off games. I was given a stern telling off and warned that if I had to see her again I would be slippered. I did n't wet but I do recall feeling absolutely deperate to do my "number twos" -fear/nerves I suppose. If I had been told to bend over to be beaten I'm sure I'd have filled my knickers.

Without wanting to disavow you of this supposition, sweetie, I'm almost certain that had the necessity for you to submit to the slipper arisen, you infact would not have soiled your drawers. Whilst it's only natural for a schoolgirl to lose temporary control of her bladder in such circumstances (an occurrence so commonplace in Headmaster's and Mistress's studies a generation or more ago, they'd have barely raised a weary smile), to lose control of her bowels would seem careless, if not worthy of referral to a suitable medic. One heard tall tales (suburban myths?) of culprits having their faces smeared in their own poo, but it all seems too hideously unlikely.

My thoughts on who should and shouldn't spank are now, perhaps, understood, but I do think there is altogether too much fuss about childhood beatings. Not ALL teachers were sadists and paedophiles surely? Even though I think it entirely inappropriate for opposing gender adults to spank minors, let's not get carried away. I seriously doubt your Headmasters gained anything other than a bored sense of deja-vu at the repeated sight of your scrawny adolescent flanks! Sorry to dispel any girlish fantasies.

[waatah]

Not totally related but back in the late 60's, early 70's at my school, boys had swimming lessons nude up to the age of 16 - with a female instructor. There were also times when girls accompanied swimming lessons but were allowed bathing suits albeit this only happened if one instructor was off ill.

There were also many times when girls were caught spying on the boys and not punished - it was joked about. It was even rumoured that was how some girls 'chose' their boyfriends.

I very much doubt it would happen now. When i think back i find it bizarre that it happened at all.

At my (boys') school in the 1960s (a long time ago, in several ways) we were made to swim nude, indoors in winter and outdoors in summer. Getting from changing room to outdoor pool was sometimes a problem, especially as the music teacher (female) always seemed to be "just passing" at the time. We survived.

[Guest]

Oh how lucky you all were to just recieve the paddle, or cane!
At our school we had to endure a lot worse than that, depending on our "crimes"
I remember if you got 3 questions in a row wrong, the boys and girls all around you got punished, you didnt...
The punishment was normally what we called "the wet room" where everyone was told to strip naked and were pushed into the room, and hose with freezing cold water, the offender was allowed magazines, soda pop, crisps and chocolate, and was to sit on the "kings" throne inside the room..well protected by the water and in full view of everyone. Of course once the punishment was over, all hell broke loose as the students all attacked the offender, while the teacher looked on laughing.
The worst offenders though, like fighting or stealing etc were more forcibly punished, the prefered method was the "walk of doom" where all the teachers lined up in the corridor and you were to walk past them all while they shouted abuse and swore at you, spitting at you, and punched and kicked you on the way past..if you made it to the end of the line, you were pardoned and freed, but if you collapsed with a punch, or fell..then you were sent to the darkroom for the rest of the day, which was..as you can imagine....a dark room with a slit in the door so anyone, teacher or student..would be encouraged to open the slat and spit, or throw things at you.
Thankfully i never recieved either of those punishments, but i was involved with wetroom punishment regularly.

[Guest]

Not totally related but back in the late 60's, early 70's at my school, boys had swimming lessons nude up to the age of 16 - with a female instructor. There were also times when girls accompanied swimming lessons but were allowed bathing suits albeit this only happened if one instructor was off ill.

There were also many times when girls were caught spying on the boys and not punished - it was joked about. It was even rumoured that was how some girls 'chose' their boyfriends.

I very much doubt it would happen now. When i think back i find it bizarre that it happened at all.

Whee did thi happen at? US or UK? I was a child of the 70's in the US. I find that very close to sexual abuse for any of the children to 'hate to' swim nude!

[Guest]

When I think back to my school days I wonder if our Headmaster got away with murder. He was very strict and feared by all the girls because if we were in trouble and were sent to his office, he would smack our bottoms. I don't just mean a quick slap, we would actually have to bend ovr his lap and recieve a proper smacked bottom!
I know wonder if this was abuse or just normal for the time? Does anyone else here remember being punished like that at school in the late 70's early eighties?

People are missing the op's point. He had them lay over his lap....... that's a bit perverted. Damn near crotch to crotch......... tell me......... could you feel his efection?

HUMMM...A bit perverted, ooh my ickle bitty mind, it's a ickle bit perverrrrrrted, he..he...he..giggle wriggle, blushing shynesses!!!

NO you silly kid!...It's what happened in those days, so get over it and stop griping!! Some people are always moaning about sexual abuse when nothing of the kind happened! It's seems that this is the only thing some people want to talk about here, so who's really perverted then?????
Maybe some of you would like to prove abuse where none existed, so that you all could have some-one attacked, hurt and/or "burned at the Stake"! This is reminiscent of a by-gone age where the public would flock to see the "Accused" flailed alive in front of them!!
Well, it's never going to happen again, so what are you on about!

Just grow up, or at least try to evolve into more advanced/civilized Human Being for a change!

[C.C.G.]

I am no doubt in the minority, I very often am. I was disciplined at home and School with Corporal Punishment. We got the Cane or Strap at school, and the Strap at home.

Having read these posts here I can not say that there are potential cases of what todays people would refer to as abuse. I can not say that certain Teaching Staff may have had so called perverted thoughts in administering it, I am not saying that kids should be held down and flogged mercilessly, but and it is a big but ! there is no getting away from the facts that there is no deterrant, Respect for people or property, or a pride in apperance or life in General.

For me, and God knows that I have had my share and then some, the threat of a Hiding was the deterrant. I got the Strap for everything from smoking to being Cheeky, it hurt like hell, and I cried like a baby, but it did not kill me. I remained respectful, and learned right from wrong. and lets face it, No one dies from it.

The world is crazy, and I think that this, so called Liberal everyone is equal, no one is responsible regime that has taken over our Society like a Malignant Cancer, should be over ruled. There should be penalties from wrong actions, and people should have the choice how kids are disciplined. There is a Gap as wide as a motorway is long between Abuse and Discipline, and these week backed individuals, some of who are elected to Governmentand the like should shut up, back off and allow the individual responsible to decide how kids are brought up.

Finally, my last rant here for today. If the laws about Parents being responsible for their Kids were as rigorously enforced as the threat of actions is they are found delivering the sort of Punishments I got, we would not have this as a debate.

BRING IT BACK !!!!!!!!