the next month i go in my 40's, i'm divorced and after long i've now a new affair that's making me happy again. we're old enough to wish a baby and don't want to risk any undesired pregnancy, so i want to look into a birth control method that makes me carefree and safe enough when i've sex. i know the best is taking the pill but since young i've an intolerance and i can't take it. with my ex husband we'd withdrawal and he pulled out before he come. This worked but we had not sex so often (about once a week) and moreover just one time, now it's different i've sex twice a more a week and often more than one session. till now all worked well but i know we can't be forever lucky, we both dislike condom especially at our age and wish to have a deep and full contact. i fear to go under the tubal ligation, undergoing surgery scares me a bit and i would like to know more about other BC methods right for my age that allow me a carefree and deep sex and if possible have my man come inside me too. i heard about the today sponge, what is it? how is it working? does it allow deep sex?
i should appreciate your help and advices based on experience.











