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Postby ali_mon_x on Thu Oct 06, 2005 10:49 pm

to be honest I think most of the elderly are moody old gits whatever happens!

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 5:12 am

I don't want kids because I would not want them to be like me.
I am ugly and very tall and I can't find shoes and clothes to fit me.

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 7:41 am

You should not have children:
1) If you don't like children,
2) If you can't care for them,
3) Ifyou can't provide for them,
4) If you can't offer them any opportunities don't bring them into life to suffer,
5) If you don't have patience,
6) If you don't like child responsibilities.

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 7:44 am

. wrote:You should not have children:
1) If you don't like children,
2) If you can't care for them,
3) If you can't provide for them,
4) If you can't offer them any opportunities don't bring them into life to suffer,
5) If you don't have patience,
6) If you don't like child responsibilities.


7) If you don't like yourself or insecure about yourself don't breed.

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 7:55 am

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Because when it comes down to, what good reason does people have for having children besides carrying out reproduction as a basic survival of the human species. I don't want kids anytime soon, and I don't think I will ever have them. It's good to see more women feeling this way instead of being pressured into becoming baby making machines.



Isn't a woman is main function to reproduce children?

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Postby Tina TV on Fri Oct 07, 2005 11:12 am

Don't want them and never have.
Hopefully we'll soon be past the age where we can have them.

I love my nephews and nieces but it's great to give them back at the
end of the day.

It depresses me that so many people seem to be having children because
it's "expected" of them, or it's a bump up the benefits ladder.

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Postby Felicias on Fri Oct 07, 2005 12:13 pm

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 9:27 pm

Tina TV wrote:Don't want them and never have.
Hopefully we'll soon be past the age where we can have them.

I love my nephews and nieces but it's great to give them back at the
end of the day.

It depresses me that so many people seem to be having children because
it's "expected" of them, or it's a bump up the benefits ladder.


Tina I'm curious at what age did you decide children weren't right for you? I'm in my early 20's and I can say that I don't want them. I have baby cousins, I tend to sometimes and to deal with that headache on a daily basis makes my eyes bleed and my brain hemmorage. I respect anyone who does a good job of raising a child, but I don't think it's for me.

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 9:30 pm

. wrote:
. wrote:

Because when it comes down to, what good reason does people have for having children besides carrying out reproduction as a basic survival of the human species. I don't want kids anytime soon, and I don't think I will ever have them. It's good to see more women feeling this way instead of being pressured into becoming baby making machines.



Isn't a woman is main function to reproduce children?


Yes if you live your life like a primate. Women today have much going on for themselves, which is more than I can say for women thousands of years ago from all civilizations who couldn't have forseen the life and rights that are afforded women today. Many women are becoming less concerned staying at home spitting out babies and more are becoming strong career focused women who are contributing more to soceity than giving birth. I think it's beautiful.

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 11:48 pm

. wrote:You should not have children:
1) If you don't like children,
2) If you can't care for them,
3) If you can't provide for them,
4) If you can't offer them any opportunities don't bring them into life to suffer,
5) If you don't have patience,
6) If you don't like child responsibilities.
7) If you don't like yourself or insecure about yourself don't breed.


What about if I get pregnant by accident? Do you think that having an abortion would make me like myself more?

And where does the father's rights come into all this? Suppose the father of the unborn child answers "No" to all of the above questions - would that give him a right to care for his child?

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 07, 2005 11:56 pm

. wrote:
. wrote:
. wrote:

Because when it comes down to, what good reason does people have for having children besides carrying out reproduction as a basic survival of the human species. I don't want kids anytime soon, and I don't think I will ever have them. It's good to see more women feeling this way instead of being pressured into becoming baby making machines.



Isn't a woman is main function to reproduce children?


Yes if you live your life like a primate. Women today have much going on for themselves, which is more than I can say for women thousands of years ago from all civilizations who couldn't have forseen the life and rights that are afforded women today. Many women are becoming less concerned staying at home spitting out babies and more are becoming strong career focused women who are contributing more to soceity than giving birth. I think it's beautiful.


Yes - right up until the time when they get diagnosed with breast cancer, ovarian cancer or uterine cancer. It is a known and proven FACT that child-birth and breast-feeding protects a woman from cancer.

Modern women turn their backs on nature at their own peril.
Natural women live longer.

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Postby Lexanni on Sat Oct 08, 2005 7:42 am

. wrote:
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Because when it comes down to, what good reason does people have for having children besides carrying out reproduction as a basic survival of the human species. I don't want kids anytime soon, and I don't think I will ever have them. It's good to see more women feeling this way instead of being pressured into becoming baby making machines.



Isn't a woman is main function to reproduce children?


Yes if you live your life like a primate. Women today have much going on for themselves, which is more than I can say for women thousands of years ago from all civilizations who couldn't have forseen the life and rights that are afforded women today. Many women are becoming less concerned staying at home spitting out babies and more are becoming strong career focused women who are contributing more to soceity than giving birth. I think it's beautiful.


Yes - right up until the time when they get diagnosed with <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257">breast</A> cancer, ovarian cancer or uterine cancer. It is a known and proven FACT that child-birth and <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_257">breast</A>-feeding protects a woman from cancer.

Modern women turn their backs on nature at their own peril.
Natural women live longer.


Proof, link?

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Postby Guest on Sat Oct 08, 2005 2:43 pm

Nuns don't get cervical cancer.

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