. wrote:. wrote:. wrote:. wrote:. wrote:You should not have children:
1) If you don't like children,
2) If you can't care for them,
3) If you can't provide for them,
4) If you can't offer them any opportunities don't bring them into life to suffer,
5) If you don't have patience,
6) If you don't like child responsibilities.
7) If you don't like yourself or insecure about yourself don't breed.
What about if I get pregnant by accident? Do you think that having an abortion would make me like myself more?
And where does the father's rights come into all this? Suppose the father of the unborn child answers "No" to all of the above questions - would that give him a right to care for his child?
The burden of pregancy is on the woman she should have the final say so if she wants to carry that baby or not.
1) A woman can die from giving birth
2) A woman can gain serioius health problems while with child
3) Some women aren't fit to carry out a full pregnancy because they have a preexisting illnes or condition that would be unhealthy for the baby and themselves
Taking in all these factors, the only rights a father should have is if the woman has the baby and they are deciding how custody should be shared.
Another point to make is when a couple lies together they both have to take responsiblity of a pregnancy, IF the woman decides to have a child. IF he doesn't want the child and she decides she doesn't then it works out for the both of them. If he doesn't and she does, then it's tough for him. He's going to have to accept the reponsibility.
EXACTLY. It is HER choice. NOT some commentator on a message forum. It is not up to YOU or ME to decide whether someone else is fit enough or worthy enough to have a child.
If a woman chooses to have a child for the benefit of her partner or her partner's parents or even her own parents then that is HER choice.
It is up up to YOU and ME and some commentator on a message forum to decide if she is fit enough or worthy enough to have a child if the tax payer is financing the b*****.
