Babysitter giving bath

[Tracy D.]

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Ben.. There were times when I had to assist young boys when they peed. Otherwise I never had to help them or take them into a public restroom since I was always in the house with them.

Boys or girls will stop needing assistance to pee at a young age. When boys grow older they may or may not be embarrassed about peeing in front of babysitters or close female relatives. My brother was never embarrassed about that either. If he had to pee before going into the bathtub, he would just do that, wether me or my mother were already in the bathroom or not.
He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.

[june 19]

Tracy do you or your mother ever examine him down below to see that he is keeping him self clean and would he let you touch it with out being embarrassed boys of 14/15 and even 16 need to be checked

He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.[/quote]

[ben12380]

I have in the past looked after 12 to 16 year old boys I remember baby sitting one 16 year old that played foot ball a lot and got mud all over him self if I was there when he had been in the back yard playing and had not had a bath with his mother heping him before i got there i had to help him i was 19 at the time it was very interesting for me i had not seen any naked boys before this one. I washed is manhood when it was erect i think it was good for him having a young girl see and feel is private parts and it was an inste for me getting to know the male body well he was not shy at all some of the boys i baby sat for latter was a bit shy at first but soon got over it

Why do you think it was good for him to have a young girl see and feel his private parts and why would a 16 year old need a babysitter? A boy or girl of that age have been old enough to babysit for about 4 years so I can't understand why any normal person of that age would need a babysitter to care for them? I certainly understand it was an experience for you to get to know the male body and that might not be a bad thing but I cannot understand why someone that age would need a babysitter? I don't find it to be too appropriate for a 16 year old to be given a bath unless they're physically injured and cannot wash on their own.

[ben12380]

Tracy do you or your mother ever examine him down below to see that he is keeping him self clean and would he let you touch it with out being embarrassed boys of 14/15 and even 16 need to be checked

He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.

[june 19]

Hi ben12380

Boys do not grow up as fast as girls do if i was baby sitting a boy of 14/15 or 16 it is only right to check that they are washing clean. And that dose allso mean looking at the forskin. If i were seeing the same boy every week and every time i check he was clean every were then i would only have to check him every 5/6 weeks. None of the boys i have sat for as minded me checking them. A lot of boys when i check there forskin have only washed the top if you look on the under side they still need cleaning.
And as for the peeing that as never hapened.

[gewoon]

I have in the past looked after 12 to 16 year old boys I remember baby sitting one 16 year old that played foot ball a lot and got mud all over him self if I was there when he had been in the back yard playing and had not had a bath with his mother heping him before i got there i had to help him i was 19 at the time it was very interesting for me i had not seen any naked boys before this one. I washed is manhood when it was erect i think it was good for him having a young girl see and feel is private parts and it was an inste for me getting to know the male body well he was not shy at all some of the boys i baby sat for latter was a bit shy at first but soon got over it

Why do you think it was good for him to have a young girl see and feel his private parts and why would a 16 year old need a babysitter? A boy or girl of that age have been old enough to babysit for about 4 years so I can't understand why any normal person of that age would need a babysitter to care for them? I certainly understand it was an experience for you to get to know the male body and that might not be a bad thing but I cannot understand why someone that age would need a babysitter? I don't find it to be too appropriate for a 16 year old to be given a bath unless they're physically injured and cannot wash on their own.

I think he was looking for handjob by June 19

[ben12380]

Hi ben12380

Boys do not grow up as fast as girls do if i was baby sitting a boy of 14/15 or 16 it is only right to check that they are washing clean. And that dose allso mean looking at the forskin. If i were seeing the same boy every week and every time i check he was clean every were then i would only have to check him every 5/6 weeks. None of the boys i have sat for as minded me checking them. A lot of boys when i check there forskin have only washed the top if you look on the under side they still need cleaning.
And as for the peeing that as never hapened.

I am well aware of the truth the boys usually tend to mature slower than girls but on the other hand, I still cannot understand why a 16 year old kid of either gender would need a babysitter unless they're either handicapped and not of normal intelligence or physically injured and need someone to care for them. I as a child had been babysat for by a number of young boys in the age range of 12-15 years old. I lived in a group home when I was in my teens and if the staff who worked there gave me baths and my mother found out about it she would have been very angry. Like I mentioned before, my mother stopped giving me baths when I was about nine years old and I have been showering on my own since then. June, I wonder what you would do if one day you were babysitting a boy who felt uncomfortable with you giving him a bath and he refused to undress in front of you? That is certainly how I would've acted if you babysat me and I was nine or older.

[Mac]

I am not sure just what age my mother stopped bathing my siblings and me. However, I know that it was sonewhere before age six. At that age she didn't even check on us.

[Tracy D.]

I am not sure just what age my mother stopped bathing my siblings and me. However, I know that it was sonewhere before age six. At that age she didn't even check on us.

That´s unusual for mother´s to stop bathing their children at such an early age, even if the child is a girl.

[Mom2Mom]

Tracy do you or your mother ever examine him down below to see that he is keeping him self clean and would he let you touch it with out being embarrassed boys of 14/15 and even 16 need to be checked

He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.

If you were giving a boy a bath and he purposely peed on you, how would you react?

[david.band]

david.band,
Did you get erections when your mother bathed you too? How did you react?

Hi Former babysitter,
No, I don't really recall getting erections when Mum bathed me. b.t.w. I'm sure that from the age of 8 I cleaned my own genitals with the washcloth. It seems hard to believe that 12/13 year old boys would have needed assistance with that sort of thing - and by a female babysitter?!?

David

[david.band]

If he had to pee before going into the bathtub, he would just do that, wether me or my mother were already in the bathroom or not.
He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.

Tracey D.
I was okay being naked around Mum until around 16 when I became shyer and would keep my undies on around her. But, like your brother I sometimes went for a pee naked just before getting into the bathtub and it never bothered Mum at all. Now maybe if I had a sister it would be different. Do you think that's the reason your Mum tells your brother to close the bathroom door when he pees. Are you embarrassed seeing him pee?

[Mum2Mum]

I have recently taken a 3rd shift job that requires me to put my son in the care of a babysitter. My 12 year old son immediately said that he didn't want the babysitter to give him a bath. I had been giving him his bath about two weeks earlier, but he wanted to take his own bath. After three or so days I noticed that he wasn't washing very well, so I threatened grounding him and taking away his t.v. if he didn't let the babysitter give him a bath. The babysitter I have is 15 years old, and is a very responsible young lady. There is also a 14 year old girl down the street, and a 17 year old two blocks away.

What do you think I should do, and which would be the best babysitter? What age range do you consider best for his modesty, he is 12.

When you said you were giving him a bath two weeks earlier did you stop at any point or was that the last bath you gave him yourself?Let me ask you. What was it that you noticed about him that made you realize he wasnt washing well? My 15 year old foster son was his body odor.He is into sports and thinks he can just quickly wash and thats that.I have tried all kinds of things like taking away his TV,Video Games,scooter and anything else that means something to him.To no avail his poor hygiene continued.We dont have a shower just an old style tub and I guess bathing is too boring for him so he takes about 5 mins to wash and done.When I have to step in I scrub him. No not the delicate parts!However I do make sure areas like his bum and crotch are clean.He is sometimes apprehensive but for the most part he is ok with it.I will continue this until he gets it right.I presume he will straighten up soon. And if not I will be in there until he is old enough to leave home. Sincerely!

I suggest the 17 yo but make sure you show her exactly what you want her to do and how.

[ben12380]

Tracy do you or your mother ever examine him down below to see that he is keeping him self clean and would he let you touch it with out being embarrassed boys of 14/15 and even 16 need to be checked

He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.

If you were giving a boy a bath and he purposely peed on you, how would you react?

Ben, I agree with you whole heartedly about checking boys bathing until 16 years of age. I have a 15 year old foster son that I do check when he is bathing himself. Especially at puberty I encourage parents or guardians to check boys hygiene if they become complacent and think a quick wash is adequet.The reason I check is because when I don't check he has a tendency to still have a body odor.Its not because of any hormonal problems.It is sheerly because of laziness! So I remedy it by keeping a very close eye on his bathing habits. I have had to step in from time to time and wash him myself. There is no objections because he understands our agreement,that being, he can do it himself if he shows he is responsible enough.His full blown pubescent state is of no concern to him. Why? I guess he is secure or just passive.Mum2Mum, I never said that I thought boys should be checked while bathing until 16 years of age, what I said was, I don't see why a normal kid of either gender in that age group would need a babysitter unless they're handicapped in a way that prevents them from being able to take care of themselves or are physically injured and need someone to care for them. Even though girls usually mature faster than boys, boys privacy should be respected just as much as girls privacy. Suppose one day you got another foster son under 16 years of age and he felt uncomfortable undressing in front of you and refused to do so, what would you do?

BTW; this is a very educational topic!

[ben12380]

Tracy do you or your mother ever examine him down below to see that he is keeping him self clean and would he let you touch it with out being embarrassed boys of 14/15 and even 16 need to be checked

He still is not embarrassed about that, now that he is 14. I often tell him to close the bathroom door when he is peeing, but he doesn´t care much about it.

If you were giving a boy a bath and he purposely peed on you, how would you react?

Ben, I agree with you whole heartedly about checking boys bathing until 16 years of age. I have a 15 year old foster son that I do check when he is bathing himself. Especially at puberty I encourage parents or guardians to check boys hygiene if they become complacent and think a quick wash is adequet.The reason I check is because when I don't check he has a tendency to still have a body odor.Its not because of any hormonal problems.It is sheerly because of laziness! So I remedy it by keeping a very close eye on his bathing habits. I have had to step in from time to time and wash him myself. There is no objections because he understands our agreement,that being, he can do it himself if he shows he is responsible enough.His full blown pubescent state is of no concern to him. Why? I guess he is secure or just passive.
Mum2Mum, I never said that I thought boys should be checked while bathing until 16 years of age, what I said was, I don't see why a normal kid of either gender in that age group would need a babysitter unless they're handicapped in a way that prevents them from being able to take care of themselves or are physically injured and need someone to care for them. Even though girls usually mature faster than boys, boys privacy should be respected just as much as girls privacy. Suppose one day you got another foster son under 16 years of age and he felt uncomfortable undressing in front of you and refused to do so, what would you do?

BTW; this is a very educational topic!