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Postby Sharah on Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:32 pm

I think most guys like getting their balls squeezed,
not injuriously mind you, but they like showing-off how
tough they are in the balls and it is enjoyable to
'have such profound power' over your guy. :girl:
I always get my guys balls 'in-hand' during activities,
especially *Oral, both giving & receiving! I grab them and
begin to pull & squeeze when I get tired & want him to cumm,
he always does promptly when I do, + I 'squeeze-out the last
drops when he does. :lol: Also, give his balls a good 'hug'
whenever we're seperating to begin our day or departing for
other things. Most harm it has ever had was to give him a
belly-ache a time or two when I was to firm. It's a show of
'Love & Affection' on both our parts really & I think it common
among many couples.
The ccausing injury part is Not 'supposed' to be part of it though!

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Postby A_Guy on Thu Oct 16, 2008 10:55 am

. wrote:Hi
Is this topic still going?
I just googled 'ball squeezing' as it transpires that my new girlfriend is into it. I took the hint after she kept doing it and asked her 'ok, is this a thing you like then?', and she said she liked the feeling of power and the twitches it gives me when she does it. It's surprisingly pleasurable actually. I'm totally game for it.
However I am indeed a tad concerned as to any ramifications in the future as to the health of my nuts! Are there any actual doctors here or are the people saying it's harmful just theorising/google searching/guessing?
Cheers,
J


It's like anything one does where there is an element of danger be it ballbusting, riding motorcycles, racing cars, multiple sex partners and the list goes on. If you over-do anything there are always risks. It's amazing how much abuse balls can endure but nonetheless, moderation and common sense is the best thing when it comes to this type of play. Your balls should be fine if your partner is only squeezing or slapping them around. It's when you get into binding them up and hitting them that the risks begin. You don't want to "trap" a ball and hit or squeeze it with any excessive force. General squeezing, slapping, moderate hitting and kicking shouldn't be of any worry. With past and present girlfriends, I've had my balls squeezed, slapped, punched, kneed and kicked probably in the high hunderends if not thousands of times and everything is still functioning well. All I can say is use caution and common sense.

Good luck and enjoy. Sounds like you have a fun girlfriend.

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Postby A_Guy on Thu Oct 16, 2008 11:14 am

Sharah wrote:I think most guys like getting their balls squeezed,
not injuriously mind you, but they like showing-off how
tough they are in the balls and it is enjoyable to
'have such profound power' over your guy. :girl:
I always get my guys balls 'in-hand' during activities,
especially *Oral, both giving & receiving! I grab them and
begin to pull & squeeze when I get tired & want him to cumm,
he always does promptly when I do, + I 'squeeze-out the last
drops when he does. :lol: Also, give his balls a good 'hug'
whenever we're seperating to begin our day or departing for
other things. Most harm it has ever had was to give him a
belly-ache a time or two when I was to firm. It's a show of
'Love & Affection' on both our parts really & I think it common
among many couples.
The ccausing injury part is Not 'supposed' to be part of it though!


You're right Sarah, I think most guys do like having their balls squeezed when it's done in a sexual manner. I know I sure do. I also agree that girls like it too and it can give them a real power trip.

Squeezing during sex, as you described, can be extremely arousing. I love having mine squeezed during oral sex (giving or receiving) I especially like when a girl grabs onto them while she's cumming and really lets me know how she's feeling. Squeezing or slapping and even light punches can be very hot during intercourse too. It's very hot when a woman reaches between her legs and grabs a hold of me or gives me a few slaps or light punches, especially whle in the doggy style position and things are sort of haning down and flopping around, if you know what I mean.
Sarah, have you ever tried slaps or light punches on your guy before? If he likes it when you squeeze him, he might love it if you slap or hit him there. I'm sure you will too!

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Postby cirus on Thu Oct 16, 2008 2:36 pm

My wife seemed to discover my balls as sexual playthings after we had been together for many years. One day during foreplay she just grabbed hold of my balls and started to roll them arround in her hand. It was a bit of a surprise and a bit scary. There was some pain which I tried hard not to show incase she stoped, I found it very erotic, she certainly had my attention. This progressed into a squeezing, pulling and playfull slaps or flicks with a finger, the sort of woman power over man stuff. When I asked her about it she said that as I had got older my balls were hanging lower and were just asking to be grabbed, and that she enjoyed it and felt good about having me by the balls. Since that time I have been helping nature along by stretching my balls lower, got to keep her interested. [(some pics in the show us your balls thread)]
I would say that none of the above has anything to do with what is known as ballbusting, but is just normal playfull lovemaking.
I have no desire to be kicked in the balls, I have had it happen when I was praticing Karate and belive me it wasnt sexy. (and that was by a woman)
cirus.

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Postby Shara on Thu Oct 16, 2008 9:22 pm

A_Guy wrote:You're right Sarah,
I think most guys do like having their balls squeezed when it's done in a sexual manner.
I sure do. I also agree that girls like it too and it can give them a real power trip.

Squeezing during sex, as you described, can be extremely arousing. I love having mine squeezed during oral sex
(giving or receiving) I especially like when a girl grabs onto them while she's cumming and really lets me know how she's feeling.
Squeezing or slapping and even light punches can be very hot during intercourse too. It's very hot when a woman reaches between her legs and grabs a hold of me or gives me a few slaps or light punches, especially while in the doggy style position
and things are sort of haning down and flopping around, if you know what I mean.

Sarah, have you ever tried slaps or light punches on your guy before?
If he likes it when you squeeze him, he might love it if you slap or hit him there.
I'm sure you will too!

Why yes I have/do! - Here is how:
Say we're having a little spat about something and he's being just to
snity with me for to long or such to where it goes past my 'get-along with'
level of tolerance:
I 'ORDER Him' to 'shut-up and assume 'the position''!
This means he is to straight away strip naked, putting his clothing away
correctly and then go stand in the hallway which is about 3 feet wide with
his feet spread to touch the walls, and then meekly inform me he is ready
for 'correction'. :wink: I then leave him waiting for varying amounts
of time to keep things interesting, then quietly walk up behind him and
press my frequently also by then naked body against his back, lovingly :girl:
reach around in hugging from behind type way, then grab his(usually) by
now starting to get hard 1 with left hand to hold it up and out of the way,
sometimes go through a sort of list of items I'm displeased with him about,
then with the other hand begin to 'spank' his balls. The firmness
and number of swats depends on my mood and the occasion. After each
swat, he is to count it out loud and say: "Thank you for correcting my
poor behavior 'mam', i'm ready to learn as much as you wish to teach".

When his correction is sufficient, depending on situation, often I then lead
him to bedroom and have him lay flat on his back so I can straddle his face
while he eats me out, whilst I hold him by the balls for good measure,
sometimes(usually) giving them seperate pinches with each hand.
ALWAYS:!
When I give him head(Very Often BTW) I have his balls in-hand and
Pull on and Squeeze, *Especially when he cums! This works SO Well,
once I start increasing the pressure/pull: he cums quickly so I don't need
get a sore mouth/jaw from it. :) I absolutely can NOT believe there are
women who don't adore/love taste-of & swallowing cum!
*It works both ways though too:
If he spunks in my vagi,
(like somewhere else here is mentioned):
he is to straight away start orally giving me pleasure until I'm satisfied.

This is one of the best parts of a proper relationship, - to *Always be
'eaten clean'/to orgasm after having had a deposit made in your
'love bank'.
:girl:
To the guys: If you're gal doesn't give you head and *Swallow your
'love' evidence
*Daily;
- she's Not healthy in mind or body either likely. :wink:
Thinking about moving on to a Real Woman is
*Easily Understandable! To the gals:
If your guy doesn't
"Prove his Love"
for you by allowing you to 'teach him his errors results', -
every now and then when he needs it :wink: by
'assuming the position' as described above, *AND:
Always Eat You Clean after making a bank deposit:
-You too are Highly Likely looking to replace him with a
'Good Lover-boy Man'
and we understand. :girl:

Sharah
 

Postby Sharah on Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:46 am

A_Guy wrote:
You're right Sarah,
I think most guys do like having their balls squeezed when it's done in a
sexual manner.
I know I sure do.
I also agree that girls like it too and it can give them a real power trip.

Squeezing during sex, as you described, can be
extremely arousing. I love having mine squeezed during oral sex
(giving or receiving) I especially like when a girl grabs onto them

while she's cumming and really lets me know how she's feeling.
Squeezing or slapping and even light punches can be very hot during
intercourse too.
It's very hot when a woman reaches between her legs and grabs a hold of
me, or gives me a few slaps, or light punches, especially while in the
doggy style position and things are sort of haning down and flopping
around, if you know what I mean.

Sarah, have you ever tried slaps or light punches on your guy
before? If he likes it when you squeeze him, he might love it if you slap
or hit him there. I'm sure you will too!

Why YES, I have & do! Only 'SLAPPING'! though, - kneeing, kicking, or
punching seems far too likely to cause lasting injury to ME anyway,
& I'm NOT 'going there'!
*Slapping is different, here's how and why that sometimes happens. :wink:
For the 'why' part: - Lets say we're having a disagreement or 'spat' or such,
and he's being to snitty, or goes on to long or such:
I'll 'Order him' to "Shut-up! and Assume the 'Position'!",
:evil:
-which means he is to straight away go strip naked, attend to take-off
clothing *correctly, and then go to the hallway(about 3 feet wide) and
place his feet touching the walls, interlock his fingers one hand to the other,
then 'meekly' inform me he's ready for correction. :wink:
After making him wait varying amounts of time;
I then quietly walk up behind him,
lovingly :girl: give him a hug from behind, and press my
(usually naked by now also) body against him,
and then
grab his dick(usually quite stiff) :wink: to hold it up and out of the way
with my left hand, sometimes give him a lecture/list of items he has or hasn't
done which displease me, and than begin to *Spank his Balls! The
firmness of, and number of swats vary depending on my mood and the
situation.
*After Each swat, - he is to count it out-load and say:
"Thank you for teaching me, i'm ready to learn as much as you care to teach.

After he has had sufficient correction, I often lead him to the bedroom where
he knows to ask if he needs be on top or bottom this time, if I decide him
on bottom, I then squat over his face so he can eat me out. Whether he's on
bottom or top matters not,
- *Always his balls are grabbed, one in each of my hands,
and alternately *Pinched. :wink:
If he's beed 'real bad', I also make *certain to Very Firmly Press
*Right on the End of each nut since that leave
'A Lasting Impression', :evil:
- it being the most tender/sensitive part of
the testicles inside the sac. He gets plenty of 'feedback' from me
this way, - when I'm getting passionate/near, or in OrgasmLand. :girl:

Sharah again
 

Postby Sharah again on Fri Oct 17, 2008 3:32 am

Furthermore, I give him head *Often, & *Always Swallow! :girl:
Him getting head,
*Means, "Automatically"; - his balls Are Going To Be Squeezed, and
indvidually pinched a bit as "Part of "The Procedure" :wink: This isn't
a 'hard, or firm' sweezing or pinching at all, just 'normal' stuff' so he cums
*Quickly and I don't get a sore mouth or jaw!
When he's eating me out however, sometimes it's a bit firm. :wink:
I'm convinced a bit of slap-starting every now and then is Actually a *Healthy
thing for the balls since if his 'production volume' seems low as little as
2 days-in-a-row, giving them some slap-start corrects this problem
with-in 18ish hours. :wub: This IS Very Important!
My guy's 2 MAIN Resposabilities(amoung many) ARE:
To Eat Me Out to Orgasm *Frequently! :thankyou:
And to Provide ME With 'copious' amounts of spunk to *Savor
(because I like it) :wink: , and to Swallow! - Because it's
*Very Healthy for me
, - and All women to do that. :girl:
This seems to be a known medical Fact that mainstream medicine and
drug manufacturers try to keep hidden so they can make more money
selling office visits and sruff like HRT drugs, etc.

I Highly Prefer the Natural Methods of getting 'bio-available' to me
hormones than something some drug manufacturer has either synthesized,
or taken from farm animals! Be Healthy the Right Way! :wink:

A_Guy
 

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Postby A_Guy on Thu Oct 23, 2008 8:09 am

Sharah wrote:
A_Guy wrote:You're right Sarah,
I think most guys do like having their balls squeezed when it's done in a
sexual manner.
I know I sure do.
I also agree that girls like it too and it can give them a real power trip.

Squeezing during sex, as you described, can be
extremely arousing. I love having mine squeezed during oral sex
(giving or receiving) I especially like when a girl grabs onto them

while she's cumming and really lets me know how she's feeling.
Squeezing or slapping and even light punches can be very hot during
intercourse too.
It's very hot when a woman reaches between her legs and grabs a hold of
me, or gives me a few slaps, or light punches, especially while in the
doggy style position and things are sort of haning down and flopping
around, if you know what I mean.

Sarah, have you ever tried slaps or light punches on your guy
before? If he likes it when you squeeze him, he might love it if you slap
or hit him there. I'm sure you will too!

Why YES, I have & do! Only 'SLAPPING'! though, - kneeing, kicking, or
punching seems far too likely to cause lasting injury to ME anyway,
& I'm NOT 'going there'!
*Slapping is different, here's how and why that sometimes happens. :wink:
For the 'why' part: - Lets say we're having a disagreement or 'spat' or such,
and he's being to snitty, or goes on to long or such:
I'll 'Order him' to "Shut-up! and Assume the 'Position'!",
:evil:
-which means he is to straight away go strip naked, attend to take-off
clothing *correctly, and then go to the hallway(about 3 feet wide) and
place his feet touching the walls, interlock his fingers one hand to the other,
then 'meekly' inform me he's ready for correction. :wink:
After making him wait varying amounts of time;
I then quietly walk up behind him,
lovingly :girl: give him a hug from behind, and press my
(usually naked by now also) body against him,
and then
grab his dick(usually quite stiff) :wink: to hold it up and out of the way
with my left hand, sometimes give him a lecture/list of items he has or hasn't
done which displease me, and than begin to *Spank his Balls! The
firmness of, and number of swats vary depending on my mood and the
situation.
*After Each swat, - he is to count it out-load and say:
"Thank you for teaching me, i'm ready to learn as much as you care to teach.

After he has had sufficient correction, I often lead him to the bedroom where
he knows to ask if he needs be on top or bottom this time, if I decide him
on bottom, I then squat over his face so he can eat me out. Whether he's on
bottom or top matters not,
- *Always his balls are grabbed, one in each of my hands,
and alternately *Pinched. :wink:
If he's beed 'real bad', I also make *certain to Very Firmly Press
*Right on the End of each nut since that leave
'A Lasting Impression', :evil:
- it being the most tender/sensitive part of
the testicles inside the sac. He gets plenty of 'feedback' from me
this way, - when I'm getting passionate/near, or in OrgasmLand. :girl:


It's nice to hear that there are more women out there that like to have fun doing this kind of thing to their guy's balls.
Sarah, I know you said you don't want to try punching, kneeing or kicking your guy but if you've done some of the things you've described here, you might try one or more. I know you'll love it. I know several woman that go absolutely crazy for sexual kicking and punching my balls. You don't have to give your guy a full swing kick, just give him some gradual kicks or punches harder and harder. You'll discover his limits. If you gradually work things up with him you won't have to worry about doing any damage and you'll get maximum satisfaction. Most of the women I know just can't/couldn't resist kicking or punching me when my balls are naked and haning nice and low. When you've got your guy with his legs apart as you described, you've got him in the optimum position for a good kick or punch.

- *Always his balls are grabbed, one in each of my hands,
and alternately *Pinched. :wink:
If he's beed 'real bad', I also make *certain to Very Firmly Press
*Right on the End of each nut since that leave
'A Lasting Impression', :evil:


I love that part. Getting pinched can be pretty painful yet hot at the same time. Getting it on the end of a ball (as you described) can definitely make a guy jump! I bet that DOES leave a lasting impression. You've got him right on the right spot, that's for sure!

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby sm68 on Thu Oct 23, 2008 8:13 am

ouch!

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby theone1989 on Mon Oct 27, 2008 1:45 pm

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby The Chairman on Thu Oct 30, 2008 3:34 am

Hare Krishna... :D

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby babychloe on Wed Nov 12, 2008 8:06 pm

it just looks realy painful

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby A_Guy on Thu Nov 13, 2008 10:21 am

babychloe wrote:it just looks realy painful


Well, have you ever tried it? Or, have you ever wanted to try it? Most women would love to try it but seem to be afraid to do so because they either think it's too painful or they're just too scared to admit that they'd like to do something like that so they keep it repressed.

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby cirus on Thu Nov 27, 2008 2:23 pm

I am with Sarah on this, she is definitly a lady who knows what she is doing. Sounds wonderful, lucky b/f.

Forget the kicking and punching that is verging on sadism/domination a totaly diferent fetish.

What Sarah is doing is errotic lovemaking and she sounds very good at it, doesnt need any advice.
cirus.

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Re: Ballbusting

Postby A_Guy on Mon Jan 05, 2009 8:01 am

I'll have to agree here. Sarah sounds hot. I'd LOVE to play with her a little! :)

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