Ballbusting

[MaxtheGaul]

for you to judge what you think is right or wrong is very ignorant.

So you are of the opinion that nobody is allowed to judge what is right or wrong. So we are to live in a society where anything goes. Sorry mate, you're the one that needs to wake up - your way leads to tyranny.

[Bridget]

I presume from your other posts that you are one of them, but if a guy went round saying he enjoyed slapping women you would probably be one to call for him to be locked up.

Mmm...boys in cages...

Yes, indeed! Have I perhaps sparked your interest in this 'taboo' subject?

[Guest]

My bf just introduced me to ballbusting a couple months ago. For anyone who doesn't know what it is, it is being hit in the testicles. At first I didn't want to do it because I was afraid I'll hurt him. He said that he did it with his past gf. Eventually we did it anyways. I would kick, hit and kneed his testicles. I think it's dangerous. Two weeks ago I kicked him a little too hard and he threw up. We stopped and he said that he doesn't want to do it anymore.

I didn't enjoy doing it. I was wondering what do guys or even girls get out of it?

friggin hell that sounds painful - it sounds like your bf is into s & m - I think normally men dont ask for this kind of thing, but whatever floats your boat - and he obviously likes it. Submission is his thing.

[MaxtheGaul]

My bf just introduced me to ballbusting a couple months ago. For anyone who doesn't know what it is, it is being hit in the testicles. At first I didn't want to do it because I was afraid I'll hurt him. He said that he did it with his past gf. Eventually we did it anyways. I would kick, hit and kneed his testicles. I think it's dangerous. Two weeks ago I kicked him a little too hard and he threw up. We stopped and he said that he doesn't want to do it anymore.

I didn't enjoy doing it. I was wondering what do guys or even girls get out of it?

friggin hell that sounds painful - it sounds like your bf is into s & m - I think normally men dont ask for this kind of thing, but whatever floats your boat - and he obviously likes it. Submission is his thing.

Perhaps what you really need to do is tie him up and give him a good spanking. That won't do him any lasting harm and will teach him who's the boss.

[Guest]

My bf just introduced me to ballbusting a couple months ago. For anyone who doesn't know what it is, it is being hit in the testicles. At first I didn't want to do it because I was afraid I'll hurt him. He said that he did it with his past gf. Eventually we did it anyways. I would kick, hit and kneed his testicles. I think it's dangerous. Two weeks ago I kicked him a little too hard and he threw up. We stopped and he said that he doesn't want to do it anymore.

I didn't enjoy doing it. I was wondering what do guys or even girls get out of it?

friggin hell that sounds painful - it sounds like your bf is into s & m - I think normally men dont ask for this kind of thing, but whatever floats your boat - and he obviously likes it. Submission is his thing.

Perhaps what you really need to do is tie him up and give him a good spanking. That won't do him any lasting harm and will teach him who's the boss.

wear your stillettos when you do it

[footman630]

There really isn't anything wrong with it. Yea, if you do it too hard you will cause some damage... I don't think that is the point though. It is just a fetish that some have. I have liked it for a long time and it took me years to get my girlfriend to understand it, and she is not yet "really" into it.

There is lots of stuff out there about ballbusting. Point him to a nice fetish website that caters to his likes if you both like it. Something like www.suburbansensations.com should be good to start with. You don't want to get to crazy to start with!

[Guest]

I love ballbusting!!! My wife kicks and slaps my balls often. What does she get out of it? A sense of total control and my biggest erections. What do I get out of it? The sense of being totally used for her pleasure.

[Guest]

Oh yes. I have not met a woman yet that does not enjoy kicking a guy in the balls to some extent. Some love the ability to dominate. Others just get off on seeing a guy in pain. Some just like the feel of the guys testicles being squised against their foot or in their hand.

[Slooze]

yeh its grate wen i spred his legs and bend him over and grab his balls and pull really hard so he begs me 2 stop then i hit them with a shoe or something and he screams and knows im going 2 do it thats grate

[Guest]

These ballbusting guys love to frequent "womens" boards. Just about every topic on this issue is started by a man. Or usually a man posing as a woman asking an innocent question on the topic or telling outlandish stories. These are truly deluded men, they think most women are into this and they get gratification or justification for their fetish if they can lure women into talking about it.

What is really bothersome is they love to frequent underage teen sites as well. If you get pleasure out of being kicked in the groin, then fine, and I am sure there are fetish forums for you all to talk about it. But when you find the need to be disingenious with your made up stories and posting on inappropriate sites with your deviant behavior, you've got a serious problem. Some of you guys I have to wonder if you should be walking on the streets, especially if you think your "fantasy" is everyone elses reality.

[Guest]

I don't know why ballbusting always inspires comments like the one above. This category of "Sex Advice" is about human sexuality in all of its forms, including S&M. I don't know why people like to receive or give pain, or why people like to dominate or be dominated (from bondage to ballbusting), but it is clear that some do, so why try to discourage it on a board about sex????

Are you saying that no women enjoy dominating men or dishing out pain? Then I suggest you type "dominatrix" on the world-wide-web. You'll' find out differently. Domination includes ballbusting, by the way.

I suggest that you simply not read ballbusting threads, if they bother you so much. Better yet, grow up and develop some tolerance.

[Guest]

I've never been "busted", but I've often fantasized about it. I asked my GF for this one night over a year ago, but she refused. Her reasons left me confused. It seemed like she was offended, not because it was a "dominatrix" thing to do, but because men should not be able to enjoy the only obvious physical advantage that women have over men??? I'm not explaining this well, but somehow it made her angry that a kick to the groin is not something to be feared (at least by some men). I still don't understand this reaction.

[Royston]

I went to the video link above and it turned out to involve children.

I am so shocked that anyone could do such a thing that I am going out of this forum now and I will never come here again.

I am really shocked that someone could post s link that resulted in sick pedophile stuff..

You want bloody shooting

[Guest]

I don't know why ballbusting always inspires comments like the one above. This category of "Sex Advice" is about human sexuality in all of its forms, including S&M. I don't know why people like to receive or give pain, or why people like to dominate or be dominated (from bondage to ballbusting), but it is clear that some do, so why try to discourage it on a board about sex????

Are you saying that no women enjoy dominating men or dishing out pain? Then I suggest you type "dominatrix" on the world-wide-web. You'll' find out differently. Domination includes ballbusting, by the way.

I suggest that you simply not read ballbusting threads, if they bother you so much. Better yet, grow up and develop some tolerance.

Oh please, save your "you need to be open-minded speech" for someone else. Don't twist my original post. Did I say it should be discouraged? I don't have a problem with people talking about it. I was being critical of the men that feel this need to pretend to be women to try to elicit female responses. And worse yet, when it is done on sites meant for an underage audience. And I'm suppose to be tolerant of that? You need to grow up and know where the lines need to be drawn. It's not normal to be predatory like that.

You do realize those Dominatrix that you see advertising expect to be paid. They don't do it cause they like it, you don't pay, you don't play. Most women are not into it. The women that do it, are doing it for money, or they do it cause they know it pleases their partner. I would imagine the percentage of women truly into this is small.

Some men come to talk about sexuality in a healthy way. But others are here merely to justify their fetish, or get approval of it, or for their own gratification. What is unhealthy is when they have a perception of female attitudes that is fantasy, and not reality. And if you don't see it, then you are ignorant, or naive, or simply in denial.

[MaxtheGaul]

Good post!