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Postby foufou on Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:08 am

i learnt at a really young age not to hurt the ball bags. i was about 5 years old when i tried to be funny and kick my daddy up the bum. i missed and got his balls and the agony in his face, i thought i killed him :oops:

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Postby Misanthrope on Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:18 am

foufou wrote:i learnt at a really young age not to hurt the ball bags. i was about 5 years old when i tried to be funny and kick my daddy up the bum. i missed and got his balls and the agony in his face, i thought i killed him :oops:


You're obviously nicer than my sister, she would do this regularly as some kind of power thing....until I outgrew her :evil:

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Postby Guest on Thu Jul 13, 2006 3:58 pm

foufou wrote:i learnt at a really young age not to hurt the ball bags. i was about 5 years old when i tried to be funny and kick my daddy up the bum. i missed and got his balls and the agony in his face, i thought i killed him :oops:


Yeah it really hurts. I remember when my sister kicked me becuase I dumped one of her friend. I couldn't get up for about 5 minutes.

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Postby HIH on Mon Jul 17, 2006 3:58 am

. wrote:My bf just introduced me to ballbusting a couple months ago. For anyone who doesn't know what it is, it is being hit in the testicles. At first I didn't want to do it because I was afraid I'll hurt him. He said that he did it with his past gf. Eventually we did it anyways. I would kick, hit and kneed his testicles. I think it's dangerous. Two weeks ago I kicked him a little too hard and he threw up. We stopped and he said that he doesn't want to do it anymore.

I didn't enjoy doing it. I was wondering what do guys or even girls get out of it?
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Postby questioningtheresponse on Mon Jul 24, 2006 5:25 am

. wrote:
. wrote:You do realize those Dominatrix that you see advertising expect to be paid. They don't do it cause they like it, you don't pay, you don't play. Most women are not into it. The women that do it, are doing it for money, or they do it cause they know it pleases their partner. I would imagine the percentage of women truly into this is small.


You're definately correct with most of your post, but I think this part is perhaps just a little off... There would be a fair few women doing stuff like that purely for the money, but I'd suggest that at least half of them were into it... I mean, what sort of person would want to do a job like that unless they got at least a little bit of enjoyment out of it? Afterall, doesn't it's very offputting stuff for most people I'd imagine... and there are much easier ways to make a buck out there.

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Postby Guest on Thu Jul 27, 2006 2:48 pm

well its cheaper than a vasectomy. i take it u aint plannin on avin kids with him then?

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Postby Guest on Thu Sep 14, 2006 8:08 am

Just one example between many:
Have you ever heard about people that cut themselves, especially in the harms and legs and belly?
The great majority of them are women, young women.
It is their body alright but they are sick and must be helped, do you really think that is normal?!.
And how about if someone would take advantage of them by cutting them?, that would be even more serious.

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Postby Guest on Thu Sep 14, 2006 8:10 am

Some facts about testicle trauma:
-It may cause the victim to throw up.
-It may cause the victim to passout.
-It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency, testicular torsion may not happen immediately after the trauma.
-Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then probably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup. Even when can be repaired, the resulting inflammation will turn most of the contents into permanent damaged material.
-Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.
-Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.
-May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins inside the testicles, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.
-In case of very extreme trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation. The swelling reminds me of mumps, but in the case of mumps it will cause sterility for sure, and the testicles(usually just one) will shrink too, very sad and scary.
-In some cases may cause the antibodies to start attacking the person own sperm.
-It even may cause death as result of PAIN, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail(heart beat will became fast and irregular, usually face and lips very white) until finally stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think, most of the times the victim is saved because gets medical attention on time, it will need shocks to the heart using the defibrillator!.
-Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, violated/abused, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young; especially if they do not know or never heard about “kicking in the groin”. The victim may seem ok, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress, the worse symptoms may only reveal a year later! People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical suffering. All men that “like” the fetish called “ballbusting”, have some kind of mental or emotional disorder; and the most common cause for that is because it happened to them in the past, they are psychologically very ill, it may change their life’s completely. The emotional trauma of being assaulted in such a private area, or the physical suffering, or the fact that it is a barbaric act, should be more than enough for girls not to do that; but the sad truth is that the only thing that make some(not all for sure) girls think twice before doing that is the permanent physical damage. It is a form of rape, male rape.
-Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to ESCAPE harm. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you(only extreme EMERGENCIES), not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun like it is most of the times, keep it a fantasy(why you girls don’t tell your Dads what you did, I am sure they will be PROUD of you).
-Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him.
You also have the right to use that defense if you are attacked by a STRANGER, and NO ONE ELSE IS AROUND, you never know his intentions. But you have no right to use that defense if you are attacked by a stranger or not, in a place where are other people around, like in school, or at home with your family, or in a bar, etc.
-This is becoming too popular, specially in schools, girls get sexually aroused by that!. Women look sweet, but…….they are very mean and cruel by nature, they just try to hide it, it is very sad. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men do not even hit back after getting kicked in the privates. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women. Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh! Laughing at someone that is hit there, will only increase the suffering, and will show that you are very mean and cruel, at least try to keep it to yourself.
-And nothing happens to those sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!

“women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!!!!!!!
Girls answers regarding this issue are always disgusting!

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Postby Guest on Fri Sep 15, 2006 11:53 am

Jesus Christ! Why don't you all stop moaning you sissies and grow a pair! (excuse the pun). Kicking someone in the balls is a hillarious past time and if some one gets a kick out of it (lol get it?) then why not! Everyone know's they have limits hence the purpose of pain pathways and cut out mechanisms, so done with some common sense it can still be fine!

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Postby MiniBoi on Fri Sep 22, 2006 2:58 am

. wrote:Jesus Christ! Why don't you all stop moaning you sissies and grow a pair! (excuse the pun). Kicking someone in the balls is a hillarious past time and if some one gets a kick out of it (lol get it?) then why not! Everyone know's they have limits hence the purpose of pain pathways and cut out mechanisms, so done with some common sense it can still be fine!


About the “ballbusting” fetish:
Just one example between many,
Have you ever heard about people that cut themselves, especially in the harms and legs and belly?
The great majority of them are women, young women.
It is their body alright but they are sick and must be helped, do you really think that is normal?!.
And how about if someone would take advantage of them by cutting them?, that would be even more serious.
FUC*K Y*OU

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Postby animallover15 on Fri Sep 22, 2006 3:59 am

Jesus Christ! Why don't you all stop moaning you sissies and grow a pair! (excuse the pun). Kicking someone in the balls is a hillarious past time and if some one gets a kick out of it (lol get it?) then why not! Everyone know's they have limits hence the purpose of pain pathways and cut out mechanisms, so done with some common sense it can still be fine!


You're an idiot..I've never heard anything so ridiculous in my life!!!! :roll:
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Postby Kalith on Fri Sep 22, 2006 12:36 pm

. wrote:Jesus Christ! Why don't you all stop moaning you sissies and grow a pair! (excuse the pun). Kicking someone in the balls is a hillarious past time and if some one gets a kick out of it (lol get it?) then why not! Everyone know's they have limits hence the purpose of pain pathways and cut out mechanisms, so done with some common sense it can still be fine!


Wow you really make me sick. Hey if your a girl, just wait...youll do it to the wrong guy and things won't stay pretty. If your a guy....umm then you have never been kicked there or haven't grow a pair yourself to be hurt.

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Mon Sep 25, 2006 11:28 am

. wrote:...Kicking someone in the balls is a hillarious past time ... so done with some common sense it can still be fine!


Some people feel the same about rape - presumably that can be done with "common sense" too. :roll: :roll:

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Postby MiniBoi on Mon Sep 25, 2006 3:20 pm

. wrote:Jesus Christ! Why don't you all stop moaning you sissies and grow a pair! (excuse the pun). Kicking someone in the balls is a hillarious past time and if some one gets a kick out of it (lol get it?) then why not! Everyone know's they have limits hence the purpose of pain pathways and cut out mechanisms, so done with some common sense it can still be fine!





SEX ADDICT(This affects many WOMEN, abuse in childhood):

1.Those struggling with a Psychological type addiction are most often survivors of some kind of abuse. In fact, 90% are emotionally, 80% sexually, and 70% physically abused. This type of addict is characterized by "a soul in pain" who has chosen sex as a way to "medicate" this pain. Acting-out sexually becomes an escape from the painful reality of daily life. Similarly, Trauma-based addiction lies in the compulsion to repeat the ordeal of the sexual abuse incurred in an attempt to gain control over the injury and recreate or undo the injury through pleasure. Neither the Psychological or Trauma-based addicts are responsible for the neglect and abuse they've endured-they are, however, the only one who can take the responsibility for their healing.
2.THE TRAUMA BASED ADDICT - This person was sexually abused and the soul gets anchored to the abuse. The trauma based addict repeats the offence over and over. If he was homosexually abused he will act out with homosexual sex even if that is not something he would want to do. If he was abused by an older woman, later in life he may find himself confused as to why he is attracted to women much older than himself. He repeats the trauma bond. The trauma and the acting out are parallel to each other like a distorted mirror image.

See the relation to the "kick in the balls" and to "ballbusting" in men?

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