. wrote:. wrote:I don't know why ballbusting always inspires comments like the one above. This category of "Sex Advice" is about human sexuality in all of its forms, including S&M. I don't know why people like to receive or give pain, or why people like to dominate or be dominated (from bondage to ballbusting), but it is clear that some do, so why try to discourage it on a board about sex????
Are you saying that no women enjoy dominating men or dishing out pain? Then I suggest you type "dominatrix" on the world-wide-web. You'll' find out differently. Domination includes ballbusting, by the way.
I suggest that you simply not read ballbusting threads, if they bother you so much. Better yet, grow up and develop some tolerance.
Oh please, save your "you need to be open-minded speech" for someone else. Don't twist my original post. Did I say it should be discouraged? I don't have a problem with people talking about it. I was being critical of the men that feel this need to pretend to be women to try to elicit female responses. And worse yet, when it is done on sites meant for an underage audience. And I'm suppose to be tolerant of that? You need to grow up and know where the lines need to be drawn. It's not normal to be predatory like that.
You do realize those Dominatrix that you see advertising expect to be paid. They don't do it cause they like it, you don't pay, you don't play. Most women are not into it. The women that do it, are doing it for money, or they do it cause they know it pleases their partner. I would imagine the percentage of women truly into this is small.
Some men come to talk about sexuality in a healthy way. But others are here merely to justify their fetish, or get approval of it, or for their own gratification. What is unhealthy is when they have a perception of female attitudes that is fantasy, and not reality. And if you don't see it, then you are ignorant, or naive, or simply in denial.
Ok, here's my response in consideration to this. One, having been _ for the past 15+ years, one of the most abused things on the internet is the fact that people A: hide behind a mask because nobody will ever know their true identity or B: pretend to be someone else. There are literal thousands that daily, log on and play someone else, post someone else's picture, and just think it's alright. You have some very good points, "Guest", but at the same time, you're not letting anyone here know who you are or what you stand up for. I myself have never posed as someone else, nor have I tried to elicit commenting by female "ballbusters" under the guise of a "female" seeking any kind of advice, etc, yadda yadda.
For every guy posing as a woman doing something like this, there's a woman posing as someone else. That's the harsh reality of the internet these days. It sucks and there's nothing anyone can do about it.
I know this, I enjoy ballbusting from my woman and none of anything I might ever say about it is fake or misconstrued. We do it because it's a bedroom thing and something between us. It is NO different than women who enjoy taking giant cucumbers in EITHER place or like one video my woman showed me was a man putting HALF HIS HEAD inside her. You tell me where the vindication is with guys and ballbusting versus something like that. Granted, I don't go to those sites, I don't find them interesting in the slightest, and hence, I don't interact with a forum group that talks about such.
In the end, this isn't just about guys "faking"...not in my eyes. Just log into any adult yahoo chat room and start checking out pictures of the "women" in there. You'll see a GREAT many duplicated pictures. Faking an _ identity when it's so easy to get a new free-mail account is nothing new and both "little" girls and boys do it all the time. I say little because hiding behind the anonymity of a "Guest" title or "." or something else is probably the worst thing one can do _. Step out, give yourself a real name, and only then can you really stand up for brazen commenting.
