Boyfriend wants to watch me pee. What do I do????.

[spirit-of-tao]

hi xxx anon,

how old are you ? (not that it really makes any difference)

If i was in your shoes I would be a little worried too, being honest, however you obviously know what is right and wrong, what you should / shouldn't do, otherwise you wouldn't be worried so, if you feel that you would never ever act on it then I would advise you to just try and forget the feelings you get from this, perhaps concentrate on finding a partner of your age.

If you feel that you could one day act on your impulsions then I think you should seek professional help so you can stop things before anything happens.

Good Luck

Dave

[mandy]

What a lovely idea to have a page where girls can talk about their
experiences. I always thought that it was men who got all worked
up seeing naked girls. It`s nice to know that I´m a girl who is not so
unusual. Somehow a dick is beautiful and exciting. Sometimes at night
when my boyfriend is asleep, I slip my hand between his legs. His dick
is flaccid and I slowly play with it. Its lovely feeling it get hard in my
hand. Sometimes he pretends he´s still asleep because he enjoys it
so much.
To xxx anon.
I shouldnt worry about this, it isn`t all that unusual.
I was an Au-pair in Germany and was in charge of two small boys
who I bathed each night. It was usual for me to wash their privates
and the smaller one didn`t seem to care but the bigger one seemed
to enjoy it a lot. In fact one night when I forgot he said " and what about
my dinger ?". After this it was always called his dinger.
Several times he had erections as well which he found very amusing.

[ex vicar]

this topic is turning into a catholic priests fantasy page.

[laroxes]

What makes it so special is the fact that it has been within & expelled from that wonderfully exciting sexual vagina that gives pleasures in its' caresses & touches & tastes & therefore can only gush out liquid gold. It has the warmth of her body & was a part of her & because she is so special so is that part of her. A guy can see himself pee or squirt a climax but how often can he watch fluid flow out of a woman's vagina?

[ni8mist]

I don't see what the big deal is - it's not hurting anything and if he gets turned on by it then hey, whatever works! I sometimes get a kick out of holding my partner's penis while he pees, mainly because I don't have one and I think it's kind of cool. It doesn't hurt anything, it's just a curiosity. There should be no barriers to sex with someone you love - just let go of the inhibitions and enjoy yourselves!

[Guest]

I drove my girlfreind home one night and we kissed outside her house like you do at the end of the night, after 10 mins rubbing her through her tight trousers she said ''oooooh don't do that i'm dying to go''
after she said that I found what she said a complete and utter turn on, so i carried on rubbing her down there again and she goes ''ahh don't i'll wet myself'' my rod nearly exploded honestly.
Then i asked her to pee a little and she then said ''no i won't be able to stop'' My heart was pumping like hell.
when i dropped her off and got home i had to..........yes you guessed it....several hand shandy's

[Guest]

Can't really see the big deal myself. The whole affair doesn't particularly turn me on, but I've peed on my b/f in the bath before now at his request and he loved it. Fair enough I guess - it's him that's getting peed on, not me

LOL

[kingoo]

If he only wants to watch and it dosen't really bother you - let him - the only thing is to tell him that you are not really into anything more such as golden showers etc.

[Angelatheart]

This was such a help reading this, as i found out this last week that b/f had a fantasy about seeing me pee. He couldn't believe he'd told me and i couldn't either at the time. (we live 200 miles apart). I often take pics etc and send them and he asked me to take a pic while i was peeing and i just started doin 10 sec video clips and he asked me one nite to do one whilst i was peeing. So i have done and what the hell hey it's a natural thing.

[Niffer]

Yeah, my boyfriend has never asked me to watch, however, fooling around I've stood in the bathroom as he's gotten ready to go. He never let me stay however. Guess the pee thing isn't his thing. Either that, or he won't admit it.

I just have to look at my parents to see how natural it is, and non-erotic to them. My mom pees with the door open all the time. Especially after I left for college. It's rather commonplace for her. She's really comfortable with herself. My dad never left the door open (which is good cause im not sure how appropriate that would be with a mature daughter in the house) I guess as you get more and more comfortable with a person, you loose all inhibitions. My dad and her have been married for over 25 years, and they probably have the best relationship I've ever seen

[bugrit]

Yeah, my boyfriend has never asked me to watch, however, fooling around I've stood in the bathroom as he's gotten ready to go. He never let me stay however. Guess the pee thing isn't his thing. Either that, or he won't admit it.

I suspect that it might be because our plumbing can make it rather more difficult to get started than it is for girls. It actually requires concentration and I find that being watched is decidedly unhelpful in this regard. Oddly, perhaps, this seems to apply mainly to being observed by other males and having a partner watch is much less problematic. It's fine, too, if she wants to stand behind me and hold my penis while I pee. It's also pleasantly erotic so why not tell him you are curious and ask him to let you hold it for him some time?

[Niffer]

Yeah, my boyfriend has never asked me to watch, however, fooling around I've stood in the bathroom as he's gotten ready to go. He never let me stay however. Guess the pee thing isn't his thing. Either that, or he won't admit it.

I suspect that it might be because our plumbing can make it rather more difficult to get started than it is for girls. It actually requires concentration and I find that being watched is decidedly unhelpful in this regard. Oddly, perhaps, this seems to apply mainly to being observed by other males and having a partner watch is much less problematic. It's fine, too, if she wants to stand behind me and hold my penis while I pee. It's also pleasantly erotic so why not tell him you are curious and ask him to let you hold it for him some time?

I'm not sure that it's an erotic thing, me bing interested. More like im just curious to see if he'll let me.

[kingoo]

I often take pics etc and send them and he asked me to take a pic while i was peeing and i just started doin 10 sec video clips and he asked me one nite to do one whilst i was peeing. So i have done and what the hell hey it's a natural thing.

Any chance of sending some to me!!

[long-leggedy-annie]

Go for it girly ..... but be warned today's watching you pee from a distance is tomorrow's lying under a glass topped coffee table whilst you empty your bowels

[Dotty100]

It is so erotic having him pee on your clit. It makes me so horny. I pee on him & he loves it. I hold his dick when he is peeing.

This is all done in private between 2 people in a long term relationship (25 yrs) & I am 50 & he is 59. We've done it for years & no problem.