Boyfriend wants to watch me pee. What do I do????.

[spirit-of-tao]

how odd that you've never been out on a date then steve

[Guest]

I am just confused a little as to what I should do. Help!!!!

Drink lots of water and get your knickers off...

[sir shootsalot]

Your boyfriend is obviously disturbed. Possibly a problem with his brain.

If he is simply wanting to watch you got for a piss just to see what angle it comes out of you then he must be very thick indeed. A man of intelligence would simply be able to know such a thing by observing your urethra opening and thus ascertaining the potential angle of urine.

My verdict is that he is a wee monkey who harbours desires to be pissed on.

do you have a wife/girlfriend.if so[which i doubt] if she wanted to make love whilst on her period what would your answer be ??

I am not aware of the term 'on her period'. I am not aware of the word 'period' when used in connection with a female's genitalia. The word 'period' is used only at the end of a group of words - or even a single word in some cases - to show a single thought has been constructed. The words 'full stop' are often used nowadays instead of the word 'period'.

I am unsure of your meaning and therefore require further details from you before I can consider giving you and accurate answer to your posed question. You may post again or contact me via yahoo messenger.

[Guest]

I am not aware of the term 'on her period'. I am not aware of the word 'period' when used in connection with a female's genitalia.

Dear Sir Shootsalot,

Have you ever spoken to a woman? About their body or sex? This is startling...

Perhaps you would you prefer the word menstruate?

Mr Rainbow Kisser

[Guest]

Why all the concern? Have you seen each other naked? Have you had sex? Have you showered together? If you have done any of these things what is so secretive about peeing in front of each other?

If you have never peed in front of a person of the opposite sex or seen a person of the opposite sex pee, I can see your concern. You made me think of a farm girl who I used to know. She said that when she was young it was a normal thing for the girls to lift up their skirts, pull down their panties and squat in front of the boys. The boys also peed in front of the girls. There was no curiousity or pervision involved.

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Today it is a normal occurance for us to pee with the other one in the bathroom. It is just a normal function and we don't have to watch with intimate detail. We have even gone in public single-user unisex bathrooms together, just to pee and nothing els

Do you poop in front of your partner as well? It is natural.

[Mac]

Do you poop in front of your partner as well? It is natural.

Yes we have.

[Guest]

Your boyfriend is obviously disturbed. Possibly a problem with his brain.

If he is simply wanting to watch you got for a piss just to see what angle it comes out of you then he must be very thick indeed. A man of intelligence would simply be able to know such a thing by observing your urethra opening and thus ascertaining the potential angle of urine.

My verdict is that he is a wee monkey who harbours desires to be pissed on.

do you have a wife/girlfriend.if so[which i doubt] if she wanted to make love whilst on her period what would your answer be ??

I think women are ignorant of the diversity among female pee flows because in many cases,the only women who they see pee are themselves.
Unlike men, each female pee flow is unique. There are variations in velocity, trajectory, circumferance, and shape of flow. The flow can also either, gush, stream, spray, splatter or dribble. Therefore, the old cliche "once you have seen one, you have seen them all" does not apply. As I said before, no two women have identical pee flows. It is therefore natural for men to want to satisfy thier curiosity as to what a particular woman's flow might look like.
Women who do not understand this should not be in relationships. If you want your men to be happy, then let it flow freely in front of him.
It is absurd to think that any man can know the angle of a woman's flow by studying her urethral opening.

[Chantelle]

Dianne,

Hey, I know how you are feeling about where peeing for your boyfreind may lead to like golden showers and other perverse peeing activities that you may not find erotic, but my boyfriend, who is now my husband for the past 10 years had the same curiosity about girls peeing and asked to watch me pee many years ago.

I too thought his request was rather perverse, and myself being a person who always needs a good explanation and reason for everything, I replied by asking my B/F to explain his curiosity. Why do you want to watch me pee???.

He said simply because we (females) pee differently to guy's, have no penis to use for urination and he wanted to see what it was like. He also said that he found it erotic thinking of a girl peeing because we need to undress somewhat in comparison to a guy. For him it was sexually motivated and a thing of curiosity. How many of us girls have wondered what it would be like having a penis for peeing, probably "every" woman on earth????, me included!!!!.

I thought why not show him how a girl pees if he is curious, and it's better that I show him than someone else to satisfy his fascination. I saved up a good pee and took him into the toilet with me and showed him everything which was an nice intimate experience to share together. He did get an erection which I thought was rather cute, that something so natural as peeing excited him sexually.

Since then, we have peed together for years which is just intimate fun. I have held his penis and aimed his stream which is a great laugh, he has watched me peeing from different positions and to this day, my stream which someone commented for a female is rather unique, still holds my husbands fascination.

It's just a case of exploring each others physical differences male to female, and is one of the beauties of sharing an intimate sexual relationship with someone provides the ability to understand and learn everything about the opposite sex.

My advice is to show your boyfriend how you pee and enjoy the intimacy and fun of such a natural thing. We don't do golden showers or anything perverse with peeing, but we enjoy sharing our bodily functions openly together.

[Steve7]

Dianne,

Hey, I know how you are feeling about where peeing for your boyfreind may lead to like golden showers and other perverse peeing activities that you may not find erotic, but my boyfriend, who is now my husband for the past 10 years had the same curiosity about girls peeing and asked to watch me pee many years ago.

I too thought his request was rather perverse, and myself being a person who always needs a good explanation and reason for everything, I replied by asking my B/F to explain his curiosity. Why do you want to watch me pee???.

He said simply because we (females) pee differently to guy's, have no penis to use for urination and he wanted to see what it was like. He also said that he found it erotic thinking of a girl peeing because we need to undress somewhat in comparison to a guy. For him it was sexually motivated and a thing of curiosity. How many of us girls have wondered what it would be like having a penis for peeing, probably "every" woman on earth????, me included!!!!.

I thought why not show him how a girl pees if he is curious, and it's better that I show him than someone else to satisfy his fascination. I saved up a good pee and took him into the toilet with me and showed him everything which was an nice intimate experience to share together. He did get an erection which I thought was rather cute, that something so natural as peeing excited him sexually.

Since then, we have peed together for years which is just intimate fun. I have held his penis and aimed his stream which is a great laugh, he has watched me peeing from different positions and to this day, my stream which someone commented for a female is rather unique, still holds my husbands fascination.

It's just a case of exploring each others physical differences male to female, and is one of the beauties of sharing an intimate sexual relationship with someone provides the ability to understand and learn everything about the opposite sex.

My advice is to show your boyfriend how you pee and enjoy the intimacy and fun of such a natural thing. We don't do golden showers or anything perverse with peeing, but we enjoy sharing our bodily functions openly together.

Now here is a great woman who understands her man. The result is a mutually beneficial highly erotic experience. She is to be commended for her understanding, and being symphathetic to her husband's needs.

[Guest]

Do you poop in front of your partner as well? It is natural.

Yes we have.

Do you poop in front of him in a sexy way, or just taking a dump when he is in the room. That is, is it scat or just pooping because the smell of poo is not abhorent to you?

My impression from the original post is that he wants her to hold her lips a part and piss for him in a sexy way, not just sit on the can while he is brushing his teeth. Am I over-determining that?

x

[Mac]

[Do you poop in front of him in a sexy way, or just taking a dump when he is in the room.

There is nothing sexy about it.

My impression from the original post is that he wants her to hold her lips a part and piss for him in a sexy way, not just sit on the can while he is brushing his teeth. Am I over-determining that?

I agree with your interpretation of that. How can he "really watch and observe" if she doesn't spread her legs?

[Guest]

[Do you poop in front of him in a sexy way, or just taking a dump when he is in the room.

There is nothing sexy about it.quote]

A lot of people disagree. Some people are very turned on by watching their partners poop. Others like to humiliate their partners by gettingthem to do it.

x

[PHREDETTA]

PEE PEE, HEE HEE, TEE HEE, OL MY

[sink]

I think women are ignorant of the diversity among female pee flows because in many cases,the only women who they see pee are themselves.
Unlike men, each female pee flow is unique. There are variations in velocity, trajectory, circumferance, and shape of flow. The flow can also either, gush, stream, spray, splatter or dribble. Therefore, the old cliche "once you have seen one, you have seen them all" does not apply. As I said before, no two women have identical pee flows. It is therefore natural for men to want to satisfy thier curiosity as to what a particular woman's flow might look like.
Women who do not understand this should not be in relationships. If you want your men to be happy, then let it flow freely in front of him.
It is absurd to think that any man can know the angle of a woman's flow by studying her urethral opening.

Unlike men, female pee flow is unique? Unlike men? Why, I'm a male, and like most males, my "flow" is so random by itself that I could be any of 3 dozen different women at a single bathroom break; it picks its own angle, trajectory, velocity, and so on. Sometimes it even splits into two streams. And the actual urethral opening is differently sized on different males. No variation? I disagree. Back to the topic-at-hand.

[JX]

Hi,

A couple of weeks ago, I announced as you do sometimes, that I needed to go for a wee. My boyfriend asked me if he could watch, which I thought was said as a joke, and we both laughed it off and I didn't think any more of it.

Later that evening, my b/f somehow raised the subject about how women go to the toilet and was talking about how inconvenient it must be for us to partially undress and sit down to pee. He then started to ask me questions about the way I pee like, do I always sit down?, do I squat over a public toilet, and what do I do if I need to go outdoors and that type of thing, which I thought was just a curiosity thing, with us having different equipment than a guy, which I had no problems discussing.

Then his questions became rather intimate asking me to describe what it feels like for a woman when she pee's, and to describe what my pee stream looks like, and at what angles does my stream exit my body?, which was beginning to make me feel a bit uncomfortable. He then told me that he had a sexual fantasy about watching a women pee, and asked if he could watch me in the toilet.

I didn't react very well, as I felt rather shocked by what he had told me and the questions he had been asking, and I told him he was being too kinky and that he couldn't watch me in the toilet and I was ashamed that he had asked something like that. I admit that my reaction made him feel terrible and he said he was sorry and would never mention it again which ended the conversation.

I thought about it afterwards and felt really sorry for him for the way I reacted badly and basically perceived he was being a pervert at the time, but I have thought since thinking that maybe I should allow him to watch me pee if it's something that he really want's to see, or just forget he mentioned it.

I was just wondering if any other women have had boyfriends or husband's asking to watch them pee, and whether anyone belives this could be just be a normal erotic request or the beginning of something kinky. I am just confused a little as to what I should do. Help!!!!

Thanks Dianne

Have you let him watch you yet, Dianne? Or did you decide not to pee for him? It would be intresting to see the effect of these postings on your sex life.

JX