Can i get pregnant if my a guy fingers me ?

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Postby Jarvisma on Tue Oct 18, 2005 3:50 pm

thebigone wrote:I think we are pretty well educated, it takes semen under pressure to enter the vagina, pass through the cervix, get up through the whole length of the womb and reach the fallopian tubes in the hope of finding a ripe egg. Out of the billions of sperm released billions will die and only one, maybe two will hit the mark. Getting pregnant is a phenomenally difficult process, it's a wonder it can happen at all. Unless a man can get his semen coated finger right up past the cervix (impossible), through the womb (no'ones hand is that big) and into the fallopian tube then the chances of becoming pregnant from a guy fingering you, even if his fingers are coated are absolutely zero.


For fear of fuelling and argument I would like to say just two points -

This post, while full of biological terms and references is misleading and as such, incorrect. Sperm does not, as a matter of normality, enter the fallopian tubes. Fallopian tubes on both sides of the female's womb contain many eggs waiting to be realeased, when they are they 'drop' if you like into the womb where it is possible for them to be met by sperm and fertilised.

On the rare occasion sperm does enter the fallopian tubes,meet and subsequently fertilise an egg this is whats known as an 'ectopic pregnancy' and is extremely serious and life threatening for the prospective mother.

This is unlikely, but can and does happen.

Secondly, it is not the force of the ejaculation which is the deciding influence on whether sperm will reach and fertilise an egg. It depends on may different factors, including as we know due to the colloquial term 'strong swimmers', the fact that every man's sperm is different in many ways including it's strength and viability. (I know you were thinking I was going to say taste then too!)

While it is highly unlikely that someone could get pregnant from fresh semen being inserted into the vagina on a finger, the fact that there is even a less than 1% chance that it could happen means that yes it is possible

It is incredibly rare that anything can be 100% impossible because it has to be proved as such. If you think about it you could never actually prove that this couldn't happen.

(Without posibly fingering a thousand women with spunky hands in clinical trials, which to my knowledge hasn't been done!)

I have this on medical authority from a gynacological practitioner.

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Postby thebigone on Tue Oct 18, 2005 3:57 pm

This post, while full of biological terms and references is misleading and as such, incorrect. Sperm does not, as a matter of normality, enter the fallopian tubes. Fallopian tubes on both sides of the female's womb contain many eggs waiting to be realeased, when they are they 'drop' if you like into the womb where it is possible for them to be met by sperm and fertilised.


Wrong, eggs are released from the ovaries at ovulation, one or two a month and are fertilised in the fallopian tubes and when they are fertile they embed themselves in the wall of the womb where they grow and develop a pregnancy. Unfertilised eggs are expelled with the shed lining of the womb at a period. Biology 101 or were you absent that day.

On the rare occasion sperm does enter the fallopian tubes,meet and subsequently fertilise an egg this is whats known as an 'ectopic pregnancy' and is extremely serious and life threatening for the prospective mother.


Wrong again, ectopic pregnancy is when the fertilised egg embeds itself in the wall of the fallopian tube and grows there. Granted a serious threat to the mother but your information is oh, so wrong. I suggest you read a bit more than the Ronald McDonald Book of Pregnancy.

While it is highly unlikely that someone could get pregnant from fresh semen being inserted into the vagina the fact that there is even a less than 1% chance that it could happen means that yes it is possible


Unless a man can get his freshly spermed fingers right inside a fallopian tube about 24 hours after ovulation pregnancy is impossible.

I have this on medical authority from a gynacological practitioner.
Who bought his degree from the internet. If this is the kind of information he is telling you then either you heard it wrong or he is in dire need of some retraining.

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Postby Jarvisma on Tue Oct 18, 2005 4:11 pm

I'm sorry but alot of what you are saying above is either wrong or contradictory. You are obviously a little confused and emotional because somebody has corrected you.

You say that my statement about ectopic pregnancy being one that occurs in the fallopia tubes is wrong, but then go on to describe it exactly as such, embedding itself in the wall of the fallopian tube.

It is interesting you have chosen to include only some points to argue against and not where I clearly state that you cannot state that this is 100% not possible. You may think you are the authority on these matters but you most certainly are not.

I'm not going to get dragged into an argument containing, as you have chosen to, let's face it rather childish insults. So I won't reply to any answer you post purley because I have better things to do with my time, not for any other reason you may suggest.

I am simply replying to an obviously worried young girl who doesn't want to get pregnant and become another gymslip mum. Very sensible in my view.

Something of which I would like to point out you are very scathing in some of your other posts.

Also very interesting you assume the professional I spoke to was a 'He'.

Maybe more revealing than you think

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Postby boy2man on Tue Oct 18, 2005 4:43 pm

So, is it a yes or a no? There's a possibility right... even with dried and wiped semen on the finger and after around 10mins later b4 the guy started to finger the girl?... how high is the possibility?

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Postby boy2man on Tue Oct 18, 2005 4:44 pm

So, is it a yes or a no? There's a possibility right... even with dried and wiped semen on the finger and after around 10mins later b4 the guy started to finger the girl?... how high is the possibility?

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Postby thebigone on Tue Oct 18, 2005 7:35 pm

Jarvisma wrote:I'm sorry but alot of what you are saying above is either wrong or contradictory. You are obviously a little confused and emotional because somebody has corrected you.

You say that my statement about ectopic pregnancy being one that occurs in the fallopia tubes is wrong, but then go on to describe it exactly as such, embedding itself in the wall of the fallopian tube.

It is interesting you have chosen to include only some points to argue against and not where I clearly state that you cannot state that this is 100% not possible. You may think you are the authority on these matters but you most certainly are not.

I'm not going to get dragged into an argument containing, as you have chosen to, let's face it rather childish insults. So I won't reply to any answer you post purley because I have better things to do with my time, not for any other reason you may suggest.

I am simply replying to an obviously worried young girl who doesn't want to get pregnant and become another gymslip mum. Very sensible in my view.

Something of which I would like to point out you are very scathing in some of your other posts.

Also very interesting you assume the professional I spoke to was a 'He'.

Maybe more revealing than you think


So you admit I was right then. Thank you. I assumed the 'gynaecologist' was a male as 95% of them are. I don't need to get emotional because someone 'corrected' me particularly when the corrector is wrong and doesn't know her facts. Of course an ectopic pregnancy is in the tubes when an egg gets stuck due to scarring or other blockage, ectopic is also in the abdomen or anywhere except the womb, that's what ectopic means, out of place. I didn't reply to other parts of your post because they were irrelevant.

Boy2man the answer is NO. End of discussion.

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Postby thegreenbastard on Tue Oct 18, 2005 10:00 pm

No you can't get pregnant by him just inserting a finger into you,but whatever you do, DO NOT under any circumstances let him kiss you on the lips as this will make your belly big

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Postby Jarvisma on Wed Oct 19, 2005 10:37 am

http://www.sxetc.org/index.php?topic=FAQ&sub_topic=Pregnancy+am+I+or+is+she&content_id=295

Quote from the above website:

Can I get pregnant.......

...if there is semen or cum on a guy's hand and he touches a girl's vagina?

If a guy has semen on his hand and then touches his female partner's vagina, it is possible for her to get pregnant, although not very likely. Sperm cannot live long outside of the body. So partly it depends on how long there is between when he ejaculates on his hand and when he touches her vagina. It is best if he washes his hands or at least wipes them off, just to make sure that all the semen is removed before he touches her.

http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M3_3_pregnancy.asp

Quote from the above website:

Can you get pregnant if you don't have full sex?
Yes, there is a risk if sperm comes into contact with the vagina in any way, e.g. through sperm on fingers.

The Big One - Who is obviously not referring to brain capacity, stop giving incorrect advice. You are not a doctor.

One of the above websites is The Brook Advisory Centre's website which is a National Health Service run, nationwide group of clinics who give sexual health advice to the under 25's

My advice to you - leave it to the experts to advise on what you don't understand.

Oh and by the way, Mr Made up statistics - alot of them are women!!! Shock Horror!!!! :shock:

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Postby thebigone on Wed Oct 19, 2005 11:36 am

:?: Assumptions again, and for the most part, again, wrong.

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Postby cheekybabe on Wed Oct 19, 2005 1:10 pm

nah you can't get pregnant when a guy fingers you. If you have learned sex education then you should know

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Postby thebigone on Wed Oct 19, 2005 1:19 pm

Just what I have been trying to say all along. Thank you. Someone who actually did have sex education lessons and listened.

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Postby boy2man on Wed Oct 19, 2005 1:25 pm

from the website given, if it is a wet semen, then there is a possibility of pregnancy... But if it is wiped and dried semen on the finger? What is the difference of pregnancy risk?

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Postby thebigone on Wed Oct 19, 2005 1:26 pm

For crying out loud, get a textbook and look at the pictures, read the text and learn that there IS NO RISK, it cannot happen.

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Postby PhoenixMUK on Wed Oct 19, 2005 8:29 pm

OK bigone, you've got alot of mouth.
Care to back it up with some kind of credentials?
You are quick enough to imply a lack of eduacation in others with no knowledge of them.
Of course, you could say anything couldn't you, so there really is no point as I'm sure we'd all assume it to be complete bollocks...

The point here is not whether you are right or wrong. It was a serious question. Is there a risk of pregnancy through inserting a cum covered finger into the vagina? Mis information could cause problems for some unlucky woman.

Whether you like it or not. There is a risk. It is tiny but it is there.
Let go of your ego for a while and think.....
This is a sensible question. Any sexual education will have told you to avoid getting semen anywhere near the vagina, hell's bell's it's even included in the little manuals that come with condoms for those with little or no sex education for god's sake!!!!
Not exactly rocket science is it?

So if there is a risk from semen near the vagina then for sure there is a risk from semen entering the vagina on a finger.

Don't be such an arse.


This is getting silly.
The only option here is for the poster to acknowledge the differences of opion, and it would be prudent to do some more research elsewhere.

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Postby Jarvisma on Thu Oct 20, 2005 5:05 pm

I agree, nice to read something sensible.

At the end of the day you can read opinions on an internet forum from 20 different people and they will all say different things.

The best thing to do, is swallow any pride and ask someone you know you can trust, a doctor or teacher if you are still at school or college.

If in doubt don't do anything until you're sure.

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