CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

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Postby Guest on Fri Oct 26, 2007 11:53 am

sluts have proliferated :?

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Casual sex with another man

Postby SARAH_1968 on Tue Feb 26, 2008 7:08 pm

Thought I'd better give an update and hope that this gets this thread back on track!

I had no luck finding a man when I went clubbing and, on reflection, having decent sex on the night would have been impossible anyway.

However, I did meet a guy on the net and we met at the beginning of November in a hotel. We had fantastic sex while my husband watched and I eventually ended-up being spitroasted... something that had until then just been a wild fantasy.

My husband has been rampant ever since and our love-life has improved beyond our wildest dreams.

I continue to see the guy (with my husband's full knowledge and encouragement) for no-strings sex once every month or so. Each time we seem to get more adventurous (toys, sex in a car, face-sitting, Anal etc.) and, although I am straight, the last time I saw him he brought along another girlfriend. She performed oral sex on me and I really enjoyed the experience, so who knows where it might end?

Currently planning a foursome with my husband as well... the thought of watching him with another woman and me performing with another woman in front of him drives me wild just as the thought of me with another man drove him wild.

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Postby slimjim on Tue Feb 26, 2008 9:33 pm

and then you woke up from your dream :roll:
cover me in chocolate and throw me to the lesbians

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Postby Guest on Wed Feb 27, 2008 11:47 am

w h o r e

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Postby Guest on Wed Feb 27, 2008 11:48 am

SARAH_1968 wrote:Thought I'd better give an update and hope that this gets this thread back on track!

I had no luck finding a man when I went clubbing and, on reflection, having decent sex on the night would have been impossible anyway.

However, I did meet a guy on the net and we met at the beginning of November in a hotel. We had fantastic sex while my husband watched and I eventually ended-up being spitroasted... something that had until then just been a wild fantasy.

My husband has been rampant ever since and our love-life has improved beyond our wildest dreams.

I continue to see the guy (with my husband's full knowledge and encouragement) for no-strings sex once every month or so. Each time we seem to get more adventurous (toys, sex in a car, face-sitting, Anal etc.) and, although I am straight, the last time I saw him he brought along another girlfriend. She performed oral sex on me and I really enjoyed the experience, so who knows where it might end?

Currently planning a foursome with my husband as well... the thought of watching him with another woman and me performing with another woman in front of him drives me wild just as the thought of me with another man drove him wild.





welcome back claire missed your stories

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Postby YAS on Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:38 pm

hi, i'm still new here & have just read this thread, i have to say you must have a very strong relationship with your husband, i could never sleep with another man even if it was just to please my husband, i'd be too worried of the consequences after but you seem to be gettin on just fine, its a credit to your relationship that you can do this, even if it's not for everyone

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Postby slimjim on Wed Feb 27, 2008 5:23 pm

YAS wrote:hi, i'm still new here & have just read this thread, i have to say you must have a very strong relationship with your husband, i could never sleep with another man even if it was just to please my husband, i'd be too worried of the consequences after but you seem to be gettin on just fine, its a credit to your relationship that you can do this, even if it's not for everyone





this relationship hasnt had to stand the test of time with this, so far too early for anyone to say dont you think? personally i think if you need to get your rocks off elsewhere something is a miss in your relationship and how big do the kicks have to be?.
too many risks as far as i am concerned least of all STD's but hey its your funeral-i mean life
not for me i aint for sharing
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Postby Ladyslut on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:45 am

I'd say its much better to try in this day in age _ on an adult dating site for a willing applicant. At least u can get to know them safely for u an ur husband, This way u can keep ur detail secret till u know if u and ur husband are happy with them. There are loads of sites out there and its best to join a few. My husband and i joined http://www.121localsex.com as we both like to watch each other with different partners while having casual sex. We've been very lucky at finding new partners for sexual fun, give it ago.

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Postby neat resoarce! on Sat Oct 11, 2008 1:41 am

Ladyslut wrote:
My husband and i joined [url]
http://www.121localsex.com [/url] as we both like to watch each other with different partners while having casual sex.
We've been very lucky at finding new partners for sexual fun, give it ago.

What a neat resource that site appears to be!
Any problems with getting 'spammed' with loads of unwanted stuff from it?

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Postby WhiteTrash on Mon Oct 13, 2008 12:26 am

What a cóck-up this thread turned out to be.

(did you notice the pun?)
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Re: CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

Postby mogadish on Tue Oct 14, 2008 5:54 pm

SARAH_1968 wrote:
I was just wondering if anyone else (female or male) has been in a similar siutation and would welcome any comments about where this might lead. As there are only 3 days to go I would appreciate prompt responses!

I'll post again to let you know how I get on.

Sarah


Not personally, but a friend of a friend decided she wanted to try lesbianism two years ago. It wasn't long before she got together with a very pretty woman. Her husband was delighted because he foresaw threesomes. However... it wasn't too long before the two women became closer than the husband and wife. The man didn't seem to understand that this is one of the things that can happen when third parties start messing around in relationships. To cut a long story short, he ended up demanding her wife break up with the other woman.

They are now getting a divorce.

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Re: CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

Postby sm68 on Thu Oct 23, 2008 8:28 am

wow

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Postby Guest on Mon Oct 27, 2008 11:35 pm

emzi wrote:I'm sorry but I don't get how this is going to excite your husband. Your husband is obviously not going to witness you having sex with some stranger, so what use is it to him?

It's basically you sleeping with someone behind his back - so basically you're cheating on him.

How can you call this cheating, if her husband knows and approves? To me, cheating means going astray without being open and honest.

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Postby Guest on Mon Oct 27, 2008 11:41 pm

Guest wrote:yes and he became obsessed by it. then the jelousy took over which was strange because he was the one who suggested it in the first place. Then everytime I was out without him he would be suspicious and accusing that I was having sex with other men.
Our marriage broke down very quickly.

Good riddance... who wants to live with a man who is untrustworthy to such an extent? :x

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Re: CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

Postby Badbunny on Tue Nov 11, 2008 8:29 am

Ive fantasised about watching my fiancee with another man but I know i wouldnt cope emotionally with it, im just to jelous and end up throwing it back in her face :(.

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