CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

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CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

Postby SARAH_1968 » Tue Sep 18, 2007 11:53 pm

Some time ago my husband told me he fantasised about me having sex with another man. I didn't think much of it at the time but have been thinking more and more about it recently and the thought does excite me. I went out clubbing with some girlfriends (all married) the other night and one of them ended-up snogging a guy she met. When I told my husband the next day he asked why I hadn't done the same. I can't remember what my response was but he obviously sensed that I was not opposed to the idea and asked how far I would go with another man. I responded by asking how far he would want me to go and he said "all the way of course" with a twinkle in his eye.

To cut a long story short, I'm going out clubbing again this Friday with the intention of having sex with a stranger. My husband knows this and is so excited he's having trouble sleeping! We love each other very much and both view this as putting a little spice back into our marriage.

I was just wondering if anyone else (female or male) has been in a similar siutation and would welcome any comments about where this might lead. As there are only 3 days to go I would appreciate prompt responses!

I'll post again to let you know how I get on.

Sarah
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Postby Guest » Wed Sep 19, 2007 1:19 am

Yes I have. The divorce was a nightmare.


It was the biggest mistake of my life.
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Casual sex with another man

Postby SARAH_1968 » Wed Sep 19, 2007 1:30 am

Thanks, but did your partner know what you were going to do and approve beforehand?

Sarah
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Postby Guest » Wed Sep 19, 2007 1:47 am

yes and he became obsessed by it. then the jelousy took over which was strange because he was the one who suggested it in the first place. Then everytime I was out without him he would be suspicious and accusing that I was having sex with other men.

Our marriage broke down very quickly. I keep fantasy as fantasy now.
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Postby Guest » Wed Sep 19, 2007 9:49 am

To each his own, as long as nobody gets hurt. Sleep with single guys and let them know it's just for a night of fun. Stay away from married men or your life is heading for the toilet.
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Postby emzi » Wed Sep 19, 2007 9:56 am

I'm sorry but I don't get how this is going to excite your husband. Your husband is obviously not going to witness you having sex with some stranger, so what use is it to him?

It's basically you sleeping with someone behind his back - so basically you're cheating on him.

This is so unhealthy and really disturbing.

You should seek counselling.
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Postby Googolplex » Thu Sep 20, 2007 10:42 am

Can a moral woman actually HAVE "casual" sex? :?:
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Postby noodles » Thu Sep 20, 2007 10:00 pm

Googolplex wrote:Can a moral woman actually HAVE "casual" sex? :?:


And who made you the moral police :lol: . Look after your own sexual morals as you see fit and leave others to do the same.
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Postby Guest » Fri Sep 21, 2007 10:11 am

Having one of your especially hoory days today nood?
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Postby Guest » Fri Sep 21, 2007 12:58 pm

noodles wrote:
Googolplex wrote:Can a moral woman actually HAVE "casual" sex? :?:


And who made you the moral police :lol: . Look after your own sexual morals as you see fit and leave others to do the same.



Stupid moral religious nuts!
Who are they to say sex with children is wrong!
Right NOODLES?
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Postby noodles » Fri Sep 21, 2007 1:41 pm

. wrote:Having one of your especially hoory days today nood?



Whats a hoory day?
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Postby noodles » Fri Sep 21, 2007 1:53 pm

. wrote:
noodles wrote:
Googolplex wrote:Can a moral woman actually HAVE "casual" sex? :?:


And who made you the moral police :lol: . Look after your own sexual morals as you see fit and leave others to do the same.



Stupid moral religious nuts!
Who are they to say sex with children is wrong!
Right NOODLES?


Of course steve, everyone should have sex with children :roll: :roll: afteralll thats what this threads about isnt it??
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Postby Guest » Fri Sep 21, 2007 6:24 pm

noodles wrote:
. wrote:
noodles wrote:
Googolplex wrote:Can a moral woman actually HAVE "casual" sex? :?:


And who made you the moral police :lol: . Look after your own sexual morals as you see fit and leave others to do the same.



Stupid moral religious nuts!
Who are they to say sex with children is wrong!
Right NOODLES?


Of course , everyone should have sex with children :roll: :roll: afteralll thats what this threads about isnt it??


It was to point out how stupid you are to say no one should judge others.
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Re: CASUAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN

Postby Guest » Sat Sep 22, 2007 7:04 am

SARAH_1968 wrote:Some time ago my husband told me he fantasised about me having sex with another man. I didn't think much of it at the time but have been thinking more and more about it recently and the thought does excite me. I went out clubbing with some girlfriends (all married) the other night and one of them ended-up snogging a guy she met. When I told my husband the next day he asked why I hadn't done the same. I can't remember what my response was but he obviously sensed that I was not opposed to the idea and asked how far I would go with another man. I responded by asking how far he would want me to go and he said "all the way of course" with a twinkle in his eye.

To cut a long story short, I'm going out clubbing again this Friday with the intention of having sex with a stranger. My husband knows this and is so excited he's having trouble sleeping! We love each other very much and both view this as putting a little spice back into our marriage.

I was just wondering if anyone else (female or male) has been in a similar siutation and would welcome any comments about where this might lead. As there are only 3 days to go I would appreciate prompt responses!

I'll post again to let you know how I get on.

Sarah

you must be a good cocksucker, baby
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Same thing

Postby SEXY CO » Sat Sep 22, 2007 8:34 am

Sarah,

My s/o and i also talk about me doing this. It drives him wild to hear me talk about other guys i have been with and encourages ,e to make up stories of what i have done whilst we have sex.

To be honest, it drives both him and I mad with lust and we have supeb sex whilst we talk this way.

Sometimes he will do the talking talking me through a session telling me he seen me with a guy or 2 and when he talks I just cum like a train.

We havnt done this but i suspect we will eventually involve another guy in out bed

C
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