i caught my son wear nail polsih/makeup

[loki_uk]

hi tonight i caught my son painting his nails he is 15 years old and he was wear makeup. he does not know yet what should i do ? he ask me if he cloud have his ears pierced in each ear. i siad we will yes. is my son gay.

he was in his sister room during her tennis practie he was painting his nails blue and was wearing makeup. he did not know i was home i ran to the store and was going to watch the last 30 min of my daughters practies
how do i know if he was wear <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/' target='_blank'><A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/' target='_blank'>panties</A></A>. how do i know if my daughter knows about this how should i tell him i saw him.

Basically your son is on the verge so what you really need to do is humiliate him in the act somehow to cause aversion.

That will just make him feel guilty and about and maybe stop for a while, but if he's really inclined to do it you'd have just made his life more difficult

Having accepting parents would make the world of difference

[opalfruit]

let him do whatever he wants - dont judge him - dont make assumptions about what or who he is.

[Guest]

I talked to my son he told me he likes to wear nail polish and make up so we went out and bought him nail polish and make up he wore his nail polish to school clear and all the girls told him that it is about time guys wore nail polish so the next day wore some mascara, eyeshadow, eyeliner, and green nail polish we got his ears pierced that day all the girls like how he wears nail polish ,makeup, and earrings. heven got ask to get his nails done with 10 girls.

How is your son doing? By now his ears should be healed enough that he can remove his piercing studs and begin wearing regular earrings. Is he still wearing nail polish and makeup to school? How have his friends, both male and female, reacted to his new appearance?

[eye liner]

he is doing good know he is wear hoop earring know he also has diamound studs as well. he still wears make nail polish to school he has lost some of his guy freinds but he is hang out with alot of girls he had a winter dance and got his nails done for a secound time first time he got a pedicure and this time he got a french manicure with pink tips and fake nails he got pink cause he went to a dance with a girl and she was wear a pink dress so they want matching nails

[Annika Nocturna]

he is doing good know he is wear hoop earring know he also has diamound studs as well. he still wears make nail polish to school he has lost some of his guy freinds but he is hang out with alot of girls he had a winter dance and got his nails done for a secound time first time he got a pedicure and this time he got a french manicure with pink tips and fake nails he got pink cause he went to a dance with a girl and she was wear a pink dress so they want matching nails

That is so awesome of you to be supportive of your son and to be there for him. I'm sure that knowing he has a mother who loves him unconditionally means the world to him. Is your daughter supportive as well? Have you taken him shopping yet? I bet he would be thrilled to have you go with him to pick out and try on clothes, makeup, and accessories like a new pair of earrings or a necklace!

[eye liner]

yes his sister helps out she has gave him two makeovers. today we went shopping cause they did not have school he picked out dialing ear rings wthat have a heart it sliver
just to let u know he got more piercings a new one in the lobes and got his cartliage done today. his sister has her ears pierced 3 times in each lobe and her cartliage.
also they both want there belly button pierced before we go on a cruise this spring so i taking about next month so my son cartliage can have some healing time

[Annika Nocturna]

yes his sister helps out she has gave him two makeovers. today we went shopping cause they did not have school he picked out dialing ear rings wthat have a heart it sliver
just to let u know he got more piercings a new one in the lobes and got his cartliage done today. his sister has her ears pierced 3 times in each lobe and her cartliage.
also they both want there belly button pierced before we go on a cruise this spring so i taking about next month so my son cartliage can have some healing time

Pierced navels are so sexy! A tiny diamond nose stud might look sexy on them too, especially with multiple pierced ears. Did he keep his nails after the dance or did he have them taken off or redone again? Is he wearing guys clothes or is he wearing girls clothes to school, and how are his teachers reacting to his appearance?

[eye liner]

he wore the nail polish after the dance. he is wear guy cloths he is wearing the new style and all the girls like his style. the teachers have not said anything yet

[Guest250]

Wow it sounds like your son is real lucky to have a mom like you! You give him so much support and accept the things he wants to do. My brother got caught by our mom trying my make-up on. We'd talked about it and I said he could if he really wanted to. Our mom went mad and he got into serious trouble. I hope your son is still enjoying just being himself and not getting hassled by teachers or other kids at school.

[Guest]

yes his sister helps out she has gave him two makeovers. today we went shopping cause they did not have school he picked out dialing ear rings wthat have a heart it sliver
just to let u know he got more piercings a new one in the lobes and got his cartliage done today. his sister has her ears pierced 3 times in each lobe and her cartliage.
also they both want there belly button pierced before we go on a cruise this spring so i taking about next month so my son cartliage can have some healing time

Your son must look somewhat feminine with earrings, makeup and nail polish. How does he wear his hair? What do the other children think about his appearance, particularly the girl he went to the dance with?

[Guest]

he is doing good know he is wear hoop earring know he also has diamound studs as well. he still wears make nail polish to school he has lost some of his guy freinds but he is hang out with alot of girls he had a winter dance and got his nails done for a secound time first time he got a pedicure and this time he got a french manicure with pink tips and fake nails he got pink cause he went to a dance with a girl and she was wear a pink dress so they want matching nails

That is so awesome of you to be supportive of your son and to be there for him. I'm sure that knowing he has a mother who loves him unconditionally means the world to him. Is your daughter supportive as well? Have you taken him shopping yet? I bet he would be thrilled to have you go with him to pick out and try on clothes, makeup, and accessories like a new pair of earrings or a necklace!

At first when I read the whole thing I didnt have a good reaction but after reading things..well..you are a wonderful mother helping him experiment and find things that make him feel right. It could be he is a someone that just doesnt follow the crowd or maybe he is curious about girlie things. Either way you could encourage him. I hope I can be the mother you are.

[Guest]

hi tonight i caught my son painting his nails he is 15 years old and he was wear makeup. he does not know yet what should i do ? he ask me if he cloud have his ears pierced in each ear. i siad we will yes. is my son gay.

he was in his sister room during her tennis practie he was painting his nails blue and was wearing makeup. he did not know i was home i ran to the store and was going to watch the last 30 min of my daughters practies
how do i know if he was wear panties. how do i know if my daughter knows about this how should i tell him i saw him.

Ha ha did you laugh at him, he must be gay.

[Guest12345]

hey guys i have a similar problem in which my 6 year old son wants to wear nail polish, hes asked me twice about it and l said no the first time and then said maybe later the second time. I dont know if l should or shouldnt, even though lve read the responses.......any advice would be great.

[noodles]

hey guys i have a similar problem in which my 6 year old son wants to wear nail polish, hes asked me twice about it and l said no the first time and then said maybe later the second time. I dont know if l should or shouldnt, even though lve read the responses.......any advice would be great.

If it was a girl would you let her? If the answer is yes then what gives you the right to impress such strong gender roles on him. If he want to play (and lets face it at 6 thats all it is) with nail varnish whats the problem?

[Guest]

hey guys i have a similar problem in which my 6 year old son wants to wear nail polish, hes asked me twice about it and l said no the first time and then said maybe later the second time. I dont know if l should or shouldnt, even though lve read the responses.......any advice would be great.

If it was a girl would you let her? If the answer is yes then what gives you the right to impress such strong gender roles on him. If he want to play (and lets face it at 6 thats all it is) with nail varnish whats the problem?

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