Ruth5 wrote:Charlotta,
tell us about your shows then.
Hiya Ruth! I wish I was as brave as you and a couple of the other girls here with 'spilling the details' as readily as ya have. I just don't wanna get trashed and called a slut for really what were brief encounters that didn't amount to anything after the guys left. Plus I've been single or just casually dating guys at the times I've 'done things' with the strippers. So no cheating by any definition was done by me - especially since I've NEVER (and most likely WILL NEVER) f*cked a stripper. Although I've gotten swept up in the moment on many occasions with like jerking or giving a minute or two of head, sex is a whole step above all that.
I wanna say this to these guys that're constantly trying to compare female/male stripshows: YOU CAN'T COMPARE THEM BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT THE SAME ENVIRONMENT!
I've been exposed to both kinds, and you guys don't seem to understand that they're completely different. Women aren't slobbering, drooling, C***-deranged sluts ripping the strippers apart from the minute they step out to do their routine. It builds up over time. However, at like a female stripclub, if they didn't have bouncers around to make sure the guys behaved themselves, there'd be a ton of problems. Why? Because a good portion of the guys that go to stripclubs wouldn't draw a line between touching and trying to have sex.
I'm probably not articulating this right, so to the guys and girls who haven't actually seen a male strip show: QUIT JUDGING PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW. It's pointless, because if you were in the same situation - being drunk, young, around your gfs with a couple of hot naked guys dancing around for you, you'd probably have an entirely different opinion on this!