Chippendales v other groups

[Charlotta]

hey Charlotta, dont care about those people say, they are probably jealous because they dont have that kind of fun in their lives. Anyway, did the bachelorette suck or W*** the stripper? How did she feel doing that to a sexy stranger even though she was gonna get married the next day? lol

Well like I said, I've been to more than one bachelorette party. I'm in my 20s' and have a prety big group of friends, so some of us are starting to 'settle down'. I for one ain't ready for that whole deal yet!

But to answer your question, there's been 2 of the 3 bachelorettes that I've attended where the bride-to-be ended up doin' stuff w/the stripper. Like in the first one, we'd all played some party games before the stripper showed up - all of which got us drunk and got her into a silly french maid outfit. Basically he just did his best to embarrass her without getting too fresh. But with us cheering her on to just go with it, he ended up licking whipped cream off one of her nipples and she held his dick a couple times. Nothing THAT bad & nothing marriage-ending for sure. The more involved stuff with the stripper was reserved for the rest of us!

In the 2nd, well, lol, she was WAY drunk and her fiancee had told us that she should have 'a good time' - like as much as she wanted. So my other friend who'd hired the strippers talked them up into being a bit more dirty about their show, if they wanted. It turned out that they were!

From what I can remember, the most naughty thing that they did to her was give her poptarts (or 'titwanks' like you UK folks say). She's a really busty girl so they were all over her boobs and ended up getting her topless halfway through their 'show' focused on her. It went from them simulating putting their Thong-covered dicks between her boobs to actually doing it awhile after! That's a male stripper favorite it seems, by the way. But she did lick one of them if I remember right, but she never like 'went to town' on either guy. Again, that was reserved for the rest of us! Lol

Neither of these bachelorette parties were the night before the wedding, but a couple nights before - but we've always followed the don't ask, don't tell policy about what happened at them.

[Guest]

The truth of the matter is that some of what goes on at these shows - well, let's just say partners may be upset, and relationships could end because of it.

That is fact, that is not judging anyone.

You obviously have to look at yourself and consider if going to town on a strangers dick (as in the stark light of day thats what it is) is actually being unfaithful to your partner.

Only you can make that decision, if you think it is just fun then fine, but you may want to consider your partners reaction if they ever found out.

[Tigasin]

I am not gonna quarrel with you Charlotta. But please tell us the details of what you and your friends did to the strippers of the 3 parties you attanded. Tell us also how you felt and what went in your minds while doing these things. Please tell us.

[Charlotta]

I am not gonna quarrel with you Charlotta. But please tell us the details of what you and your friends did to the strippers of the 3 parties you attanded. Tell us also how you felt and what went in your minds while doing these things. Please tell us.

I find it REALLY funny that you'll lecture other girls about the things they do with male strippers, yet you still wanna hear all about the dirty goings-on that you've scolded them for. Seems a bit hypocritical.

[sam jenks]

But to answer your question, there's been 2 of the 3 bachelorettes that I've attended where the bride-to-be ended up doin' stuff w/the stripper. Like in the first one, we'd all played some party games before the stripper showed up - all of which got us drunk and got her into a silly french maid outfit. Basically he just did his best to embarrass her without getting too fresh. But with us cheering her on to just go with it, he ended up licking whipped cream off one of her nipples and she held his dick a couple times. Nothing THAT bad & nothing marriage-ending for sure. The more involved stuff with the stripper was reserved for the rest of us!

In the 2nd, well, lol, she was WAY drunk and her fiancee had told us that she should have 'a good time' - like as much as she wanted. So my other friend who'd hired the strippers talked them up into being a bit more dirty about their show, if they wanted. It turned out that they were!

From what I can remember, the most naughty thing that they did to her was give her poptarts (or 'titwanks' like you UK folks say). She's a really busty girl so they were all over her boobs and ended up getting her topless halfway through their 'show' focused on her. It went from them simulating putting their Thong-covered dicks between her boobs to actually doing it awhile after! That's a male stripper favorite it seems, by the way. But she did lick one of them if I remember right, but she never like 'went to town' on either guy. Again, that was reserved for the rest of us! Lol

Neither of these bachelorette parties were the night before the wedding, but a couple nights before - but we've always followed the don't ask, don't tell policy about what happened at them.

I agree, my mates have been on batchelorette parties and the hen has always got involved with the stripper, it's part of the show, but nothing THAT bad has ever happened!

charlotta, did you enjoy your experience, you said the naughty stuff was reserved for the rest of you, would be interesting to hear what stuff went on! lol

[Ruth5]

I agree !! spill the umm..... beans

[Charlotta]

charlotta, did you enjoy your experience, you said the naughty stuff was reserved for the rest of you, would be interesting to hear what stuff went on! lol

I actually really have enjoyed my experiences for the most part. There was a couple of different strippers that I was NOT attracted to whatsoever, but played along with what was going on.... but nothing that 'interactive'. lol! But alot of the fun isn't totally sexual at all. I mean, it's soooo much better when there is a sexual vibe that gets started - usually after they've been grinding on everyone for awhile, are down to their last Thong or are naked, and of course once you and your friends are way buzzed from drinking! But, it's super fun seeing friends, especially the bride-to-be or birthday girl, get totally embarrassed by the guys. Like swinging them around, spanking their asses, going after dollar bills we've stuffed down her shirt and/or pants - stuff like that.

As far as the naughty stuff goes, it's all been like what's been described by the other girls in this thread. LOL, I'm embarrassed to say...

Buuuut, ok, since I already emailed Ruth a rundown of some stuff I've done I'll spill a little here too. Yes, I've jerked off strippers before when they haven't been hard as well as when they were - that's one thing, by the way - it sounds like the guys at the shows you all describe have strippers that're hard from start to finish. It's odd to me because our strippers aren't always sporting erections at all times. Anyway, yeah, I too have ended up sucking on a stripper's dick a few times. Like at the bachelorette party I described, pretty much all of us girls gave head to the 2 strippers! That particular night was way wilder for all of us compared to others, especially for me. I can't really remember how often or long I did on each of them exactly, but it was ALOT more than any other occasion. I think that's because I was drunker, the guys were both VERY hot, and EVERYBODY was getting pretty crazy. Things just kinda spun outta control I guess! Both guys were very into putting their dicks between our boobs as many times as possible though - but that all started w/the bride-to-be, it was her fault. After awhile she wasn't letting them get her topless, so they moved onto the rest of us - myself included!

Anyway, there's a few things I'll admit to. lol...

[bobby123]

i get the impression that most of the women that attend these events are young,sexy and up for a laugh. However, do older women also attend?i.e older than 40.if so do they also participate in W**nking/sucking the strippers cocks

[Ruth5]

i get the impression that most of the women that attend these events are young,sexy and up for a laugh. However, do older women also attend?i.e older than 40.if so do they also participate in W**nking/sucking the strippers cocks

Like you said, most of the girls who go to our Ladies Nights are "young, sexy & up for a laugh" but quite a few "older" ladies go as well & they can go crazy sometimes & do as much "stuff" with/to the strippers as the rest of us.

[bobby123]

to Ruth5 when is ur next ladies night?

[Ruth5]

to Ruth5 when is ur next ladies night?

Hopefully in April sometime.
Girl in work organises them & she does about 4 maybe 5 a year, the last one was at Christmas, it was brilliant, so we are due one.

[bobby123]

wats the best night uve had so far, was it da christmas one?how much 'fun' did u get up 2?

[Ruth5]

wats the best night uve had so far, was it da christmas one?how much 'fun' did u get up 2?

The Christmas one was really good, i ended up onstage with Father Christmas & lets just say he is a VERY big boy & i helped him empty his sack.

[bobby123]

sounds like u had lots of fun. out of all da nights uve been 2 is dere 1 stripper dat u liked da most i.e hot,nice guy,big C*** or are dey all pretty much da same

[Tigasin]

I am not gonna quarrel with you Charlotta. But please tell us the details of what you and your friends did to the strippers of the 3 parties you attended. Tell us also how you felt and what went in your minds while doing these things. Please tell us.

I find it REALLY funny that you'll lecture other girls about the things they do with male strippers, yet you still wanna hear all about the dirty goings-on that you've scolded them for. Seems a bit hypocritical.

Charlotta,

I just gave an opinion that it is ok for girls to go and see strippers even be hands on with them so long as they don't tell their partners not to stay away from female strippers. There were earlier posts (not yours) when some women said that they would be upset about finding their partners/husbands/bfs doing things with female strippers. Without singling out any poster I gave an opinion about the double standard. I don't recall scolding anybody and definitely I did not scold you. I don't know how you would feel if your partner (if you had one) did things with female strippers. At this point, I really don't care. It is your life and it is your conscience.

Oh if you go back you will see that you said this in your post: "However, at like a female stripclub, if they didn't have bouncers around to make sure the guys behaved themselves, there'd be a ton of problems. Why? Because a good portion of the guys that go to stripclubs wouldn't draw a line between touching and trying to have sex." You have judged the majority ("a good portion" in your own words) of guys as maniacs who would try to have sex with strippers if not restrained by bouncers. I disagree with this opinion but like I said, I do not want to quarrel with you. However, I think it was unfair for you to call me a hypocrite.

My last post was also meant to show you that I had no ill-feelings for you and that I did not think what you did with the strippers was wrong. I also really wanted to know what you did during the 3 parties and how you felt when doing them.

As a final statement, I just want to say that if you are happy to W*** and suck strippers (I do not see anything wrong with it) I just hope it is ok also with your future bf/husband. I also hope that you will feel comfortable telling all these things to the person you marry. And that he will understand and see the things you did as just clean fun.

As for the other girls here, I believe it is your right to enjoy going out with the girls to stripclubs. I am sure a lot of guys are broad minded enough in this modern time to accept that what you are doing is just clean fun as long as you know the limits of clean fun. I for one would be very excited if my girlfriend (I don't have one now) told me she went to male strip clubs and fondled the strippers but of course I would be upset if she had intercourse with any of them. I also expect her to be understanding if I go to female strip clubs although I must say I really don't like going there. I am more of a CFNM person.