Curious wife

[Cambridge]

I think she realises she's getting older and so its a mixture of do other men find her attractive and that she want to try it out before she gets too old.!

Nail on the head!!!

I have had several affairs with very happily married 50 somethings who are quietly despairing of the fact that their children are grown and are now independent/left or leaving home, but their husband is still calling her 'mother'!!

These guys have no idea how the poor women feel, they're still very attractive and want to be fancied and lusted after by the guy they married. They enjoy sex more than they did when they were younger because they're more relaxed, but hubbys not interested unless its a Saturday night!

For guys like me with the place and the time, it doesn't take much to take advantage of this. Married ladies are WAY better liars than guys and can quite easily separate this and their home life.

Example.. Lady asks me about light switches in B&Q one Saturday, we chat, and I tell her that I live nearby and am renovating a flat (..which I was).. She comments how wonderful it must be to be able to do that, as her husband is useless at diy.. I invite her to view what I have done, she accepts, we have coffee and eventually I F*** her, ..we swap phone numbers and have an ad hoc affair!!!

Guys.... where does your wife go when your at the football match or playing golf????

You must be so proud of yourself.

[MaxtheGaul]

I think she realises she's getting older and so its a mixture of do other men find her attractive and that she want to try it out before she gets too old.!

Nail on the head!!!

I have had several affairs with very happily married 50 somethings who are quietly despairing of the fact that their children are grown and are now independent/left or leaving home, but their husband is still calling her 'mother'!!

These guys have no idea how the poor women feel, they're still very attractive and want to be fancied and lusted after by the guy they married. They enjoy sex more than they did when they were younger because they're more relaxed, but hubbys not interested unless its a Saturday night!

For guys like me with the place and the time, it doesn't take much to take advantage of this. Married ladies are WAY better liars than guys and can quite easily separate this and their home life.

Example.. Lady asks me about light switches in B&Q one Saturday, we chat, and I tell her that I live nearby and am renovating a flat (..which I was).. She comments how wonderful it must be to be able to do that, as her husband is useless at diy.. I invite her to view what I have done, she accepts, we have coffee and eventually I F*** her, ..we swap phone numbers and have an ad hoc affair!!!

Guys.... where does your wife go when your at the football match or playing golf????

You must be so proud of yourself.

I think we should commend FMJ on providing a much needed social service, and free of charge at the point of delivery too!

[FMJ]

No I'm not proud of myself..

I just got caught up in situations. I'm a guy, horny and yes I prefer mature women, and at the time if a lady made it clear what she wanted (..this is just for me, they would say) and risked her marriage, then who am I to tell her no!! The first time, the lady in B&Q was wearing a white see-through top and trousers, showing off her undies (..lovely dark nipples ..mmm) nicely. In other words, my buttons were all being pressed in the right order...

Now when I reflect upon this, it was me that was being used, and not the other way around. Manys the time when I was stood up and left wondering, or once when she turned up at the flat with a friend in tow to use my services...

On the other side, I had great sex with some gorgeous, mature ladies, and there's just something wicked about stripping another guys wife naked, watching her suck my C*** and then F****** her..

It ended for me when I met one of these ladies in the street with her husband and she introduced me as a friend of a friend. The husband was a really nice guy, and I felt like S*** and ended the relationship much to the displeasure of his wife.

Now I have my own relationship and its all in the past, but I still see ladies like these around in the shops, dressed well, but just killing time on a Saturday while hubby is at the footie or playing golf.. All, it takes is for a guy to chat them up and as soon as he hears a comment like "..oh, my husband's hopeless at....! the affair is on!!

Guys need to realise that their wives are still attractive and they need that guy they love to still lust after them after the kids are gone..

I know this post will invoke flaming, and I deserve it, but if it makes one guy look twice at his wife and see again the sex kitten he married, it will have been worth it...

[Cambridge]

No I'm not proud of myself..

I just got caught up in situations. I'm a guy, horny and yes I prefer mature women, and at the time if a lady made it clear what she wanted (..this is just for me, they would say) and risked her marriage, then who am I to tell her no!! The first time, the lady in B&Q was wearing a white see-through top and trousers, showing off her undies (..lovely dark nipples ..mmm) nicely. In other words, my buttons were all being pressed in the right order...

Now when I reflect upon this, it was me that was being used, and not the other way around. Manys the time when I was stood up and left wondering, or once when she turned up at the flat with a friend in tow to use my services...

On the other side, I had great sex with some gorgeous, mature ladies, and there's just something wicked about stripping another guys wife naked, watching her suck my C*** and then F****** her..

It ended for me when I met one of these ladies in the street with her husband and she introduced me as a friend of a friend. The husband was a really nice guy, and I felt like S*** and ended the relationship much to the displeasure of his wife.

Now I have my own relationship and its all in the past, but I still see ladies like these around in the shops, dressed well, but just killing time on a Saturday while hubby is at the footie or playing golf.. All, it takes is for a guy to chat them up and as soon as he hears a comment like "..oh, my husband's hopeless at....! the affair is on!!

Guys need to realise that their wives are still attractive and they need that guy they love to still lust after them after the kids are gone..

I know this post will invoke flaming, and I deserve it, but if it makes one guy look twice at his wife and see again the sex kitten he married, it will have been worth it...

No, I appreciate your remarks and your honesty. If I flamed, I'm sorry. It's just that I have a couple of rules as a single man.

One, I don't try to have sex with a woman who is so inebriated she doesn't know what she is doing. Even if she's pulling, I'm gonna be pushing.

Two, if a woman is married and is having problems such that she ends up wanting to get in my bed, I put on the brakes. I know I'm not going to be the answer and most likely I'm gonna become the problem. I just have too much respect for the institution of marriage no matter who the participants are.

I try to define myself…at least I try not to let mere opportunity define me. That means, if a lady and I want to get together, maybe we will. But if she is being chased into my bed because of a bad marriage, or any other extraneous matter, I am not anxious to congratulate myself…if you see my meaning.