by meeoow on Wed Oct 22, 2008 4:47 pm
hi
first of all its horrible when people say " get over it " its just insensitive and basically if your going to just say that then you might aswell not even say anything..
I had a similar experience with my bf I was really shocked and felt hurt when I found loads of porn on his pc so I asked him about it and he was sorry and said he wouldnt do it again ... a few months later same thing happend again but this time it was worse than before as he had told me he wouldnt do it again and is now doing it behind my back, so I thought that he didnt find me attractive and he would rather look at other people than me which really upset me and I nearly left him, I think thats when he realised how much I hated it and has since then stopped. but basically if its something that really upsets you to the point that you dont feel you can be with that person then he should really stop! some girls dont mind and thats fine but people have different views on it, theres no right answer basically he shouldnt do something that he knows upsets you so much.