female advice

[Guest]

iknow. They're both blond and attractive! That's it. Other than that they're quite quite different. My current g/f is v v mellow and easier to please and I love her company so so much. Yet to fall totally in love but we've only dated 3 months. Animal chemistry is with my ex from last year. But I suspect that is all it was. Actually bumped in to her in a cafe on Tues. Even then the chemistry/tension was there. No eye contact but we both knew each others presence. Boy, it was charged............!

[u]

You do definitely like her, contact her man!##

[ailsa c]

i wouldn't need 50 texts for closure. one or two maximum so i'd say she was trying to see if you'd get started again with her

[graham again]

i was in town with my current g/f and bumped in to my ex. oh boy the atmosphere was electric.....a mixture of love and hate. WHAT DO I DO ???

i'm certain we both have mutual feelings but i'm not sure i can stomach the heartache. i know she's single again and is showing up in places she know's i'll see her. 6th sense says it isn't over but too scared of the concequences if we dated again.............help!

[me babe]

Well you'll never know unless you contact her, text her and ask if she's calmed down little now. If she's really into you then she's probably realised and will start to reply to you in a more mature manner!

the longer you leave it the harder it'll become, and she may find someone else!

[helen c]

50 texts is too many if it was closure so i think she is grooming you for a possible "getting back together". she could be just seeking a friendship but that's unlikely if these texts came out of the blue

[fave]

Did you get back in touch with her then al? If so what happened, how did it go?

[Guest]

fave

no i didn't. i couldn't be bothered - too much grief! my hunch is that we'll "hit the sack" just to get rid of any tension. but there will be no relationship. thanks for replying however

[sade]

How do you know al that there won't be any relationship there?

I'm sure if you called her and stated the right reasons why you're texting her she'll understand! The feelings are probably mutual.

I would do it!

[sensitive]

Any progress al?

[Guest]

no, i'm quite happy with my current g/f so i decided not contact her. saw her again on fri. there's still a charged atmosphere when we're in the same room but i couldn't handle speaking to her.

thanks for your reply "sensitive"!

[sensitive]

And why do you feel that you cannot speak/talk to her al?

[al-1]

well, there's too much love/hate passion/anger for me to have a conversation with her. i now know she's single again but am 80% sure that contacting her would be a bad idea.

i don't know what gender and age you are ( not relevant i suppose ) anyway our animal attraction will always be there and no doubt the sex would be stunning ( we'd be at it for hours on end! ) but the day to day grind of the relationship was always on her terms as she was quite bossy.
i'm old enough to understand the dynamics of human beings and i know i haven't heard the last of her ( good or bad, i don't know )my hunch is that she now realises that i was a better relationship for her but she's too stubborn to admit that. i'm sure she's waiting for me to get in touch.

it's like a tinderbox waiting for a match to be applied. we see each other driving about town and we both skillfully avoid eye contact. Weird situation. before we met we'd see each other in town and both go out of the way to catch a glimpse of each other but now it's quite the opposite! will keep u posted if your interested! thanks again for replying.

[sensitive]

Yeah al i understand what you're saying. I'm in my twenty's .

Definitely keep us posted!

[sensitive]

Yeah al i understand what you're saying. I'm in my twenty's .

Definitely keep us posted!

Female too!