female advice

[sophie a]

not enough info but 50 texts....no. closure would be 5 texts or a quick call

[s]

Have you seen her around lately al?

[al-8]

hi s!

no i haven't seen her ( i think i'm content about that ) but i've been away recently. my al-6 posting covers it all. what did u make of that posting?

what about you? is birmingham a sunny and happy place today?

[s]

Hello al, birmingham isn't very sunny today i'm afraid, but hey at least it isn't raining.

As i said before, i think that she's still interested, but maybe now her feelings have changed?

Maybe you left it that bit too late

[al-9]

s

you're right twice!

i don't doubt that she was interested ( deep down so was i ) and i agree that too much time has gone past.

she knows i'm with someone and i know she wouldn't want to get mixed up in that.

i'll leave it to chance - maybe i'll meet her somewhere unexpected. otherwise i'm not going thru the emotional grief again.

if anything happens then i'll post a message!

have a great weekend, al

[s]

You have a good weekend too al!

I must admit that i don't think she will text/phone you again too soon. I was in a very similar position to you, i wouldn't contact him again, but if he text or called me then i would def speak to him again.

Take care

xx

[guest]

As she called you again mate?

[al-10]

nope

she won't get in touch because she knows i'm dating ( and happily so! )
my heart says "get in touch" but the head says "stay with my current g/f"

however, i know and she knows that it's unfinished business!!!

the whole story is on the "just for men" forum. posting is "i need some good advice" author name is "very-confused" take a look ( have a good laugh) and tell me what u think! thanks

[guest]

I read it and don't know quite exactly what to make of it.

She wants you and you want her!

Why don't you put a end to this unfinished business

[al 11]

ok ok i'll contact her but i don't think i could keep my composure long enough as i was angry about the things said and done.

however we clearly still have a major major chemistry which "stokes the fire!"

[Guest]

if you haven't been the one to initiate any form of contact in the year since you split then i don't think that you really want her.

so accept that it didn't work out and move on. whether or not she wants/wanted you back is immaterial

[sen]

Did you contact her then al? If so what did she say?

[al-12]

no i didn't contact her. couldn't stomach the prospect. although i thought about her so much yesterday.

it's weird weird feeling but i'm sure we both view it as unfinished business.
it's in the air, its the body language anytime we've been in the same building and also the eye contact. i can tell what she's thinking.

the whole texting saga was a carrot dangled to see if i'd take the bait. she's also v stubborn and vain so my guess is she's waiting for me to make a move on her. that way she'll can say to her pals that i was the one who wanted us back together.

i'm consious that she could be playing a game - and i'm too old for that.

anyway, how's birmingham? And you, what's your domestic life like? hopfully more settled than mine!!

[sens]

Hi al!

I agree that she won't contact you, unless you contact her. Maybe she's moved on...... . But it's a decision that only you can make!

Yeah my life is a bit more settled, but quite like yours a couple of months ago.... But now i'm doing just fine"!

[sens]

Hello al, how are you?

Have you had any contact or saw her around?