FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIPS

[Kalith]

Females rule in my opinion!all men should be sissy maids to their ladies!

If you dan, i feel sorry for you. If you are deb, i feel sorry for all those you meet.

Men are people as well, women faught so long for equal rights, and you would so quickly take that away from men?

Like comeon, to you not see the hypocrisy of it all?

[Dan or Deb]

Females rule in my opinion!all men should be sissy maids to their ladies!

If you dan, i feel sorry for you. If you are deb, i feel sorry for all those you meet.

Men are people as well, women faught so long for equal rights, and you would so quickly take that away from men?

Like comeon, to you not see the hypocrisy of it all?

With all respect!the world would be a much better place if ladies ruled it!I am very happy to serve as a maid to ladies!i am a guy who knows my place in life!dont feel sorry for me!If we were all the same the world would be very boring!Women rule so get over it!

[chloe1234]

Ive been with my partner seven years on r nxt anniversary. I make all the decisions-he is happy to sit back+let me take charge, which is good cus I love being incharge! The great thing about it though is he isnt a pussy, if I push to far with something he will put his foot down, it is very rare that he will thats y when it happens I know he is serious.

R relationship is perfect, the house runs smoothly+we always treat each other. Everything works with me being incharge+we r happy! We communicate-Communication is the Key!!

[Kalith]

Females rule in my opinion!all men should be sissy maids to their ladies!

If you dan, i feel sorry for you. If you are deb, i feel sorry for all those you meet.

Men are people as well, women faught so long for equal rights, and you would so quickly take that away from men?

Like comeon, to you not see the hypocrisy of it all?

With all respect!the world would be a much better place if ladies ruled it!I am very happy to serve as a maid to ladies!i am a guy who knows my place in life!dont feel sorry for me!If we were all the same the world would be very boring!Women rule so get over it!

Umm no?

Like hell no, i will not live to see the day women rule the world, as men don't either. It is extremes like this that make any equality impossible.

Tell me, why do you think women WILL be better then men. To date most countries are run by men there for you have more data to take from...the good and the bad. But say if you only had one female example and she was fantastic, then you'd base women are better over a smaller range like that?

To say the least i don't the world is better being run by men or women, as we live in a democracy [most of us], it should be equal between race, origin, AND gender. You are frankly saying women are better outright for the job with no evidence to back your calling, if the roles were reversed i am sure you'd have been attacked by many vindicative women.

And I am glad you found your calling in life. But it is wrong to say all men SHOULD be this and that women SHOULD be that. You have lost all sense of what makes us humans...individuality.

[Kalith]

Ive been with my partner seven years on r nxt anniversary. I make all the decisions-he is happy to sit back+let me take charge, which is good cus I love being incharge! The great thing about it though is he isnt a pussy, if I push to far with something he will put his foot down, it is very rare that he will thats y when it happens I know he is serious.

R relationship is perfect, the house runs smoothly+we always treat each other. Everything works with me being incharge+we r happy! We communicate-Communication is the Key!!

Ok i am glad you have found something that works. I know with my gf, she ends up making more decisions then me, and she does keep me in mind while she makes them. But i would not and could not let my girl do all the work. First of it is usually on my tab, secondly i believe in a balance relationship, thirdly i like making decisions. So again i am glad for you, but it isn't necessarily the way for everyone.

[Guest]

Ive been with my partner seven years on r nxt anniversary. I make all the decisions-he is happy to sit back+let me take charge, which is good cus I love being incharge! The great thing about it though is he isnt a pussy, if I push to far with something he will put his foot down, it is very rare that he will thats y when it happens I know he is serious.

Doesn't really sound like female led then.

[Dan or Deb]

Ive been with my partner seven years on r nxt anniversary. I make all the decisions-he is happy to sit back+let me take charge, which is good cus I love being incharge! The great thing about it though is he isnt a pussy, if I push to far with something he will put his foot down, it is very rare that he will thats y when it happens I know he is serious.

Doesn't really sound like female led then.

Sounds like he needs to accept that women are superior!

[Kalith]

Ive been with my partner seven years on r nxt anniversary. I make all the decisions-he is happy to sit back+let me take charge, which is good cus I love being incharge! The great thing about it though is he isnt a pussy, if I push to far with something he will put his foot down, it is very rare that he will thats y when it happens I know he is serious.

Doesn't really sound like female led then.

Sounds like he needs to accept that women are superior!

Ok why are they superieur? For every point you make i will oppose it to a null.

I find it offending that you said that, in a world of freedom and equality there is no superieur race, gender, group. But for all i know ur the next hitler.

[chloe1234]

Oh believe me guest, it is female led!!

Kalith - I take control of the mortgage+the bill payments, as in I go the bank, pay the money in, make sure all the paperworks up to date etc-thats the role I have taken on, I am completely happy doing that, plus he'd get in a right pickle if i left it to him - LoL, so its good job I enjoy it! I make all the decisions about what furniture were having in the house+what food im buying-basically everything is down to me, but in a GOOD way-Its the way I like it, the way he likes it+the way we need it!...... One thing that is left to him though is the housework, I am crap at it-so so bad-he is brilliant at it+he loves it!! Sometimes he'll get fed up with it though+I'll do some, if I can b bothered, or I'll hire a cleaner to deal with it-He hates it when I do that so I often do it without tellin him (sneaky I know), but he goes mental!!!

[Kalith]

Oh believe me guest, it is female led!!

Kalith - I take control of the mortgage+the bill payments, as in I go the bank, pay the money in, make sure all the paperworks up to date etc-thats the role I have taken on, I am completely happy doing that, plus he'd get in a right pickle if i left it to him - LoL, so its good job I enjoy it! I make all the decisions about what furniture were having in the house+what food im buying-basically everything is down to me, but in a GOOD way-Its the way I like it, the way he likes it+the way we need it!...... One thing that is left to him though is the housework, I am crap at it-so so bad-he is brilliant at it+he loves it!! Sometimes he'll get fed up with it though+I'll do some, if I can b bothered, or I'll hire a cleaner to deal with it-He hates it when I do that so I often do it without tellin him (sneaky I know), but he goes mental!!!

Ok my issue isn't with dominancy, but i was going on about women being superieur...he said they were and i find it offending

[chloe1234]

[Guest]

Ive been with my partner seven years on r nxt anniversary. I make all the decisions-he is happy to sit back+let me take charge, which is good cus I love being incharge! The great thing about it though is he isnt a pussy, if I push to far with something he will put his foot down, it is very rare that he will thats y when it happens I know he is serious.

Doesn't really sound like female led then.

Sounds like he needs to accept that women are superior!

I think you've watched too many bad eighties movies.

[Dan or Deb]

Oh believe me guest, it is female led!!

Kalith - I take control of the mortgage+the bill payments, as in I go the bank, pay the money in, make sure all the paperworks up to date etc-thats the role I have taken on, I am completely happy doing that, plus he'd get in a right pickle if i left it to him - LoL, so its good job I enjoy it! I make all the decisions about what furniture were having in the house+what food im buying-basically everything is down to me, but in a GOOD way-Its the way I like it, the way he likes it+the way we need it!...... One thing that is left to him though is the housework, I am crap at it-so so bad-he is brilliant at it+he loves it!! Sometimes he'll get fed up with it though+I'll do some, if I can b bothered, or I'll hire a cleaner to deal with it-He hates it when I do that so I often do it without tellin him (sneaky I know), but he goes mental!!!

Agree 100% Female Led is the way forward!

[noodles]

Whatever floats your boat i wreckon is fine. When one wants the other to take control and they're not comfortable about it (like original poster) is when it gets difficult.

Personally id hate someone else to make all decisions - id feel like i had no identity at all. Id also hate to make all the decisions - id feel like a carer.

I suppose what we on the board like or do is irrelevant as it doesnt sound like your wife wants to be 'the' decision maker, so my question is what are you going to do?

[Dan or Deb]

Whatever floats your boat i wreckon is fine. When one wants the other to take control and they're not comfortable about it (like original poster) is when it gets difficult.

Personally id hate someone else to make all decisions - id feel like i had no identity at all. Id also hate to make all the decisions - id feel like a carer.

I suppose what we on the board like or do is irrelevant as it doesnt sound like your wife wants to be 'the' decision maker, so my question is what are you going to do?

Find a lady that does!