FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIPS

[Guest]

Stephen9, your wife and yourself have achieved an excellent relationship: "she is radiant and you love being totally hers", so here are two people who make eachother happy simply by pursuing their very own personal goals, what could possibly be better?
Obviously, you couldn't have accomplished that without complete honesty, strong mutual love and respect for eachother's personal characteristics.

[Supporter]

I'm not sure how this message will appear because I haven't registered. I can't help wondering how this type of relationship starts.

[Support]

I'm a bit depressed that this topic has been going for nearly 3 years now, but is still only on page 6.

I wonder, or would like to suggest how these relationships should start. I think there's far too much pressure on men in our society today, which I can't cope with, so I need to escape into a female led relationship, if that's what you want to call it. I think things should start as they're going to continue. This is by women hypnotising men, then starting conversations with them. I hope no women are offended by this, but I think a good hypnotic technique is wearing a skirt or dress and doing some body language signs with their legs. The best sign is the classic legs crossed with the leg on top pointing at your target, and pressed hard against the leg underneath to produce high skin tone, as well as waving the top leg about a bit. Another good technique is to adopt an over the top image, preferably with blonde hair. After this, the woman should start a conversation, which could be about anything at all, so long as she starts it and makes an effort to keep it going. After this conversation has been going for a little while, but don't ask me how long, the woman could make a suggestion about moving on somewhere together, then offer to buy the man a drink. This is a clear sign that she doesn't want or need him to support her financially and that he might end up being supported financially by her in exchange for playing a supportive role. Hopefully, I'll soon meet someone who has read this message, or who knows someone who knows someone who knows someone who's read it. I now plan to write some articles for magazines on this theme.

[Guest]

I can't help wondering how this type of relationship starts.

Maybe because at some point in their marriage (or preferably before) partners identify their respective strengths and weaknesses, and draw appropriate conclusions?

Imho it's not a matter of one gender being superior overall, but men being better in some fields, women in others... and wouldn't you agree that women excel in such fields as caring, empathy, and communication; which happen to be key elements in leadership.

[Guest]

I know, I may sound like a "control freak" but why should it be so different for a woman to make decisions in a household when men have ruled the roost for thousands of years?

mmm interesting because it was this sort of relationship that left women so surpressed for so long, in fact a lot still are. Not sure if thats a productive reason and kinda different to you genuinely bieng a control freak and him genuinely passive so it just naturally works? Im taking it that you're the latter?

[piles of bullchipt]

why in this 'E'nlightened age would so many
be so idiotic? all need occur is females confidently express their sexual desires/needs openly. The man is 'boss', he says: "Be assertive tonight" so she plays a 'PowerTrip' fantasy she's been mulling over in her mind for awhile since reading eXciting accounts from a freind who shares how much FUN! and enjOyMent she's had 'Ordering her hubby to Kiss her kitty just right ALL NIGHT Long! wilst he's bound to the bed by his nads in position where he can-do good job of it! he gets quite `motivated` to pleasHer since he's Not `allowed` to get released until she decides.

[Guest]

why in this 'E'nlightened age would so many
be so idiotic? all need occur is females confidently express their sexual desires/needs openly. The man is 'boss', he says: "Be assertive tonight" so she plays a 'PowerTrip' fantasy she's been mulling over in her mind for awhile since reading eXciting accounts from a freind who shares how much FUN! and enjOyMent she's had 'Ordering her hubby to Kiss her kitty just right ALL NIGHT Long! wilst he's bound to the bed by his nads in position where he can-do good job of it! he gets quite `motivated` to pleasHer since he's Not `allowed` to get released until she decides.

This is not a mere sexual game but a life long commitment 24/7.

[insane fat]

always it seems

these fantasy of 'being boss' women
are insane,
fat chicks having severely retarded intelligence.

real, normal, *non-fat women want Men,
not useless wimps.
load of bull, - a few fatchicks
& nutless excuse for men fkups keep trying grow.

[Guest]

always it seems

these fantasy of 'being boss' women
are insane,
fat chicks having severely retarded intelligence.

real, normal, *non-fat women want Men,
not useless wimps.
load of bull, - a few fatchicks
& nutless excuse for men fkups keep trying grow.

How about "men", they don't want wimps for spouses either, do they? So what's the difference?

[Stephen9]

A lot of the men on this site are actually successful men who kick ass in their careers and have learned to lay the beat down on anything that gets in the way. I speak for myself when I say that I am pretty much what you would call a highly confident male: I get plenty of action, and feel good about myself.

What's attractive to me is to put this power in the hands of one's life partner, at her disposal. Its an expression of confidence, not of fear. A fearful man clings to his little domain and makes everything a fight. A powerful man can afford to let go. To make his wife a queen befitting of a king, if you can handle that expression.

As for how attractive it is to the ladies: I agree with you in general: i.e most women are not into a spineless man. But if the relationship is one where the woman is enjoying her power - where perhaps before she was powerless - that can be an awesome experience and a real opportunity for learning.

Just my thoughts.

[sugar&spice]

In my relationship, I tend to make decisions about most things besides money. He earns more than me so I think it's fair really and we've never had any real problems with it.

['Division' of 'Power']

What works here is Albuquerque NM USA is what might be termed a division on 'Power'.
Always, when in public: The man Is `The Man`!
Same thing around the house when children or guests are around. On pre-planned nights in BdRm though:
She is to be *OBEYED! Usually about 2 weeks when she's got the hornies going-on. Not same as a FLR for certain; - but a *Large(to guys anyway) part of it! Compatriot Ladies; - It all Starts with *YOU Having Dominion Over / of his Balls! You can start by only giving him head when you have *Firm Grasp of his jewels, AND *After he's done you orally first!(not limited to 1 O either sisters!) When the clock goes off in morning, it's back to normal. Quite common in this area from what I gather, wonder if elsewhere too?

[watenab]

Like a man a prefer female led relationship. I think that the women are superiorer than men, more wisdom, more strong, more intelligent.
Annd it's right that the Superior gender must menage the inferior.

The Women in the family can and must control every thing, and they have the right to decide on the most important activity.

THe women know that it is good also for the men, not inverse.

So the men must be obedient and humble.

[liplover]

I can't stop staring at these lips http://pearlsofwisdomme.blogspot.com/ It probably doesn't hurt that she sounds like a bitchy domme.

[Ceremony witness]

This seems 'to fit' this line. Can barely remember since much partying to excess had already been happening. All the men were barefoot & wearing either ladies type skirts or kilts and most all women were wearing crotchless leather apparel.
It was a ceremony to finalize a submissive being added to a FemDom's life.
Remember, this from barely can recall memory.

"Do you give this woman your balls, for her to have, hold, pinch, squeeze, or otherwise; that she may easily
guide, direct, and lead you; for as long as she chooses, and as often as she has time for it, or it pleases her?

Do you take this male by the balls to lead, guide, and direct for as long you choose?

By the power of this agreement,
and in view of these witnesses I now declare you Woman and submissive for as long as she decides or desires this.
Let no man think it otherwise, Women Rule. You may now put the lock on
(all the women gathered around close to see as his kilt was lifted and began to laugh when able to see his boy bits)
his balls and then have him kiss your womanhood, worshiping you.

After all that she sat in a no middle part chair and all the men
(on hands and knees) formed a line to crawl up and kiss her womanhood. All the men had one type or another locking equipment on their bits. While that was happening, some of the Master women began buying/selling/trading their slave boys while comparing training stories about what worked well or not good stuff. There were two slave-Master Women that all the men(boys) were *very worried they not be traded or sold to! Never found out why, but had so much fun before getting to wasted I will be searching for a slave boy soon.