Is big beautiful?

Boo · Guest

Hi
Just wanted to pick your brains, is big sexy? I have gaines lots of weight since having kids. I just wondered how many of you think big is sexy?

Guest · Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2004 10:17 pm Post subject:

I've always been attracted to mature, curvy women. "Heavy" in the right places (hips and buttocks) can be extremely sexy to me.

Bubble · Guest

I have been with my b/f for 18 months now but have known him for over 15 years and back then both of us were body beautifuls. When we met up all this time later i still fancied him even though he was huge compared to all those years ago. I am twice the size i was too but what he tells me is that he loves me for me and it wouldnt matter what shape or size i was he would still love me. And just for the record now that i am not so concious and worried about my size we have the most incredible sex ever. Hope that helps a bit.

KelB · Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2004 4:00 pm Post subject:

I think big can be beautiful....it just depends on the person really! Some people if they are larger assmue they arnt attractive and that they are ugly therefore they are giving that impression and wont feel great! Others can look great and be confident and think they are beautiful and that comes across!

I had this discussion with my brother once...how if a man is larger or big build like say Ross Kemp some women still find him attractive, however sometimes a male only has to look at a woman who isnt a size 10 and bee disgusted!

Being a larger woman doesnt mean your un fit....I know women who are really fit and are a size 16/18!

I think in all honesty....if you think your gorgeous as you are....others will think that to! If they don't.......don't even waste your time on them sweetie! Wink

Guest · Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2004 1:20 pm Post subject:

Guest · Guest

Contrary to the mass media, and many women's own opinion of themselves, there are definately men who find large women attarctive and highly desirable. I've never dated a woman under 200 pounds and have had no desire to. Big is beautiful!

Guest · Guest

Big is unhealthy: increased cahnce of high blood pressure, heart attach, stroke etc. Beauty and acceptance are emotional and subjective issues. Health is not.

Guest · Guest

Big is unhealthy: increased chance of high blood pressure, heart attach, stroke etc. Beauty and acceptance are emotional and subjective issues. Health is not.

idiot · Guest

fat chicks suck

GatheringFlock · Posted: Sat Sep 04, 2004 4:05 am Post subject: same topic

I've learned in my life that anything can be beautiful if you want it that way. I use to think i wasn't sexy but now i feel differently. If you want to look sexy you have to believe you're sexy. It doesn't matter what people tell me. I know im sexy and i have my own trend. You just have to tell yourself that you are beautiful. I'm telling you it really works. Just believe in yourself! That is the true magic in this world.

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Jamie B · Posted: Fri May 13, 2005 12:22 pm Post subject: Big

I definateely find big women a huge turn on

k9trainingbiz · Posted: Fri May 13, 2005 2:10 pm Post subject:

Sorry, fat is unhealthy and looks lazy. Very UNattractive. *shudder*

joanna3535 · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 15 Apr 2005 Posts: 7178

you dont have to be fat to be big.
I have an Omron and go out bodyfat testing.
There are big people with less fat % in their bodies than really skinny people that eat tons of crap and have a higher bodyfat %
Still my arse is still big and i hate it

melvaughn · Posted: Fri May 13, 2005 4:41 pm Post subject: melvaughn

Big as in flab hanging down to your knees, well..that's not beautiful. Big as in a curvy yet firm/toned body would be beautiful. There's a difference between being big as in pure fat (unhealty) and big because it's the natural shape of your body. I know people who work out all the time, and eat healthy but are still big...it's their natural shape! But they are also farily toned.
Just like thin girls can eat and eat, and not gain a pound. You have to work with what you have, but in a healthy way, not a fat way.