by Riftalope on Thu Mar 05, 2009 8:00 pm
From the guy's side, say no because you have doubts. A woman needs to be honest about the primary relationship if a man's to be thinking about it lasting at all. If it interests you after a year, start slow. Threesomes a few times. A group thing (MFMF) once or twice.
From my experiences, it was tricky enough the few times it was four guys and one woman. You find yourself trying to keep it up for more than a regular interruption. If you're not in close trying to bone you mostly see guys butts. And the live porn factor only helps for so long when you're straight and waiting for her to grope you again. Even among friends. It's best to try and help the action even as you help yourself.
More than four guys?
First, there's the slut factor. It would be difficult for me to think of the woman as a person, if you get me. A guy can feel bad for just using like that too, and needs to know he helped make the woman happy.
Second, where's the teamwork for the guys? A fellow can't use his skills or be more than a humping ape, can he? You have others waiting. Should you get yours, or do a bit and move over?
Third, is there a director? I know a guy who's worked in a porn film crew. The conductor needs to be declared or somebody might try to "hog the hole". In a threesome/foursome the woman's guy gets that right. Other than that, you only have the woman, and sometimes her mouth is full.
Last, it's like a men's juice overkill. There needs to be a fan in the room, and wet towels along with the dry so those of us with good noses can smell her. I've had sloppy thirds, but it's made up for by a nice BJ. Even knowing the jizz on your sack isn't yours. I shudder to think of a sloppy seventh.
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I'll also throw in the bi-factor. There's chums that can joke gay and move on. I've done it. Even finger poked a friend when he was hogging. I've helped aim another guy back in. But some guys find that they can't take being so close to one other guy. Finding out just one of them may be bisexual could stop the entire plan.
It's the care you GIVE that counts.
The Riftalope (Mr.)