by nuttress » Mon May 10, 2010 4:15 am
Not all are capable of exercise, mee i suffer with arthritus and never was overweight until i had a riding accident that put me in a wheelchair and on crutches for 3 yrs in which time i put on nearly 5 stone..
I still own my horses so exercise daily to a certain extent that my body enables me, i also holiday several times a year and swim plenty whilst on holiday everyday several times a day..
So i do think the skinny minnies who are thinking they are being clever with pathetic replies might think a little deeper about others and their difficulties as to dieting and exercise..
Obesity in my eyes is another addiction such as smoking, drinking, taking drugs, however if we look deeper into SOME of those who do have addictions there is with a large amount a reason for it..
Friend of mine had the gastric bypass as weighed 31 stone, reason for her weight was she was sexually abused by her father for several years so got the idea in her head if she were fat he would leave her alone..
30 YRS ON She reported him to authorities, trained as a mnature student at Uni whilst caring for her 6 children although supported by a amazing husband and qualified as a social worker to work with other abused children now with the Police and has had sucessfull surgery and weight loss, she weighs 11 stone..
So as said before i really do find some opinions not helpfull..
I myself now am opting for the gastric band as said only need to loose 5 stone, i have lost 2 stone on my own in last 18 months but struggle to loose anymore, this then will also hopefully let me lessen my medication that am taking as will have less weight on my arthritic joints and in doing so with the weight lost then let me become fitter to work with my Pure bred arabian horses and show them and race them to their full ability with a owner that can have a darn sight more mobility..